It's okay darling!

hey so Bethany & Sarah here. we made this blog for all the people that feel like their not beautiful and not worth life, and for them who suffer with self-harm, and eating disorders. we love you! <3

[iitsokaydarling]

So you want to be happy? Then stop letting the smallest things ruin your whole entire day. If you’re bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected. Stop complaining about how alone you are when you’re surrounded by people who actually care about you. Forget all the drama and let go of all the grudges you’ve been holding. Stop wasting time lingering over all that you could have, should have and would have done. Stop spending your days thinking of how much better you could do; stop longing for something that has been and always will be out of your reach. Just live the days as they come. Wake up every morning and smile at the wonderful day that awaits you. Take a risk for once. Let yourself be happy, because you deserve it.

[iitsokaydarling]

We like to pretend that high heels don’t hurt our feet, and that we always look as good as we do when we’re wearing make-up and our prettiest clothes. We like to tell ourselves that not every guy is the same, and that maybe he’ll change if we’re patient with whatever life throws our way. We hide behind smiles and mask ourselves in laughter while thinking maybe it’ll be enough to convince ourselves we’re really that happen; we tell ourselves we really need to be that happy. But sometimes, life isn’t okay, and it’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to hurt, and sometimes, we just need a reminder that we’re only human. And as miraculous of a blessing as that is, it can still break you down, leave a mess, shake you up, and confuse you until you don’t understand what it means anymore. You’re going to hurt, you’re going to fall, and you’re going to make mistakes that - sometimes - you even know better than to allow yourself to make. But that’s okay. Sometimes, you just need a reminder that it’ll all be okay; here’s your reminder, beautiful. Hold on for better days, keep that gorgeous smile where we can see it, because I can promise you things won’t always be this way.

[iitsokaydarling]

The Definition Of Beautiful!

By Bethany Campbell When you hear the word “beautiful” what’s comes to your mind? Is it a model that is skinny, flawless, with perfect hair, wears a 00, and has a smile to make the guys want her and the girls want to be her? For a lot of girl that’s the case. When you look at yourself though the mirror, what do you see? Do you see the labels people have put on you? Fat. Ugly. Worthless. Stupid. Slut. Do you see all the thing you have done wrong in the passed: the things you tried to leave behind but you never really never forgotten? Do you see all your failures and faults? We have this perfect picture of a girl that’s not you, and in our minds we think that’s beautiful. So we strive to achieve this unattainable goal daily. We spend hours trying to make ourselves look like the image in our minds and, in the process, we lose sight of what beauty truly is and change our self into something were not. Each of us is beautiful is our own way. We don’t need make-up to cover our true beauty. The truth is we are always going to have those certain things that we want to change about our self. You’re the only one that can truly make yourself feel beautiful. 00 or XL , tall or short, outgoing or quite, we are all beautiful. We need to accept them as a part of who we are and live in confidence knowing that you are beautiful. If you don’t think your beautiful know this…. Everyone is in messed up word is beautiful there is no such thing as a ugly person.

[heartswillrecover]

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