iām arny! (for now) and id love to be friends š«¶
any pronouns, genderfluid + safety reasons
im 18, iām an aussie š¦šŗ (if ur in sydney hmu š¤) FINALLY FINISHED MY HSC WOOHOOOOOO š„³
i love singing, dancing, biology and philosophy, and i spend most of my time reading webtoons, writing + producing music, read/write poetry and short stories/articles, and pretending to study
pls ask me a question! iām always bored and love oversharing to strangers on the internet! no question out of bounds :) if i donāt respond, iāve probably started writing and gotten busy (i have 2 in progress atm, sorry guys, ill respond i promise)
nicknames iāve gotten so far: arny, arm??, rain, poet (this is cute, thx pasta) also, arny isnāt my name, neither given or chosen, itās a nickname for safety purposes! if i call myself something else by accident, pls lemme know, and iāll change it, bc sometimes i donāt notice :)
keep reading :)
wolfstar has my whole heart, iāve got a marauders blog @dead-gay-wizard-poet but i donāt put much there often. strongly also jegulus and later jily, hilson, neil x todd, drarry (sorry, but thatās what got me into fan fiction in the first place, this really good piece called 16 days under the influence), caitvi, jayvik, and SO MANY MORE!!! as a blanket, i love all canon compliant ships š³ļø
favourite artists: billie eilish (since 2018, not just cos hype), arctic monkeys, hozier, ldr, wilbur soot/lovejoy, jeff buckley, i should link my spotify lol
songs iām currently obsessed with: call your mom - noah kahan (going through it atm, and i actually read the lyrics for the first timeā¦ iām not doing well)
webtoons iām reading/have read: omniscient reader, boyfriends, heartstopper, take off, the dawn to come, love bites, osora, play pretend, high class homos, punk rock candy, rules for dating trashā¦ iāve def forgotten something
got a bunch of fun mental illness, so weāll be besties!
this will be finished at some point in the coming months
If you see this, schedule it to be posted exactly two months from when youāre seeing it. Like to let me know that itās scheduled. DO NOT REBLOG IT DIRECTLy. Whenever you see this post, always schedule it for two months away.
just realised that heaven almost lost one of their angels bc i fell out of touch with her. i had no idea i was one keeping her aliveā¦ please tell people how much they mean to you, please im begging š
i didnt realise that every one of our conversation kept her grounded in this world. every hug told her it was going to be okay. every reassuring smile was what kept her goingā¦
i didnāt know her for very long but i was her lifeline and i didnāt even know. i was the conversation she waited for. i thought i was kidding myself, holding myself to high importance, but i was wrong. i meant a lot to this anxious depressed 14 year old girl, who was bullied into jumping from a building at school. i didnāt know her long but i knew her well.
because the truth is, i was once in her position. iām ok now, but i went through all of it, so i know her
just realised that heaven almost lost one of their angels bc i fell out of touch with her. i had no idea i was one keeping her aliveā¦ please tell people how much they mean to you, please im begging š
SOME SAY IM TOO OLD TO READ WEBCOMICS BUT I FINALLY HAVE SOME TIME IN MY LIFE (i finished high school, incl all my exams today and im STOKED) TO READ THEM, SO THE HATERS CAN PISS OFF!!!
which ones have you read?!! some of these i read recently, others are from years ago, but i love them dearly! also, always looking for recs :)))
I might just be an overprotective worry wart party-pooper bitch for this, but is it bad of me to be telling 13-16 year old moots on here the physical and legal dangers of smoking/vaping when they tell me they're about to try it for the first time?
Cuz, like, I love these kids, they don't need a weed/nicotine addiction, even if they insist it will be "just this once" ($10 and statistics says it won't).
I've never smoked in my life, because I'm one of those unfortunate individuals that gets black out hospital visit migraines from simply one sniff of nicotine or weed in the air.
I also tend to advise against drinking too much, and other drugs, and I've never done parties, so I know I'm kinda sounding like the overprotective mother who's putting my nose in people's business, but I just don't want them to get hurt.
Like, when I start asking questions, about where and when they're doing this, they're like, "in a park in broad daylight with my friends." And I check the laws in their state, and that is highly illegal with fines and arrest potential, even as a minor, and I just don't want that to happen to them.
Am I in the wrong to warn them of all these things? Should I mind my business more?
You're not wrong to warn them, actually it's a good thing that you do because most of the time they might not know the actual dangers that those things entail, either short term or long term, and they might just be viewing it as something rebellious to do, not something actually dangerous in a multitude of ways, addiction included. While you can't actively stop them from doing anything you can and should inform them of the dangers, be they legal, physical or whatever, addiction included.
So you're not wrong, you love them and care for them and want the best for them
Thanks, I needed to hear that. I just feel like sometimes maybe I am overreacting, but then I think about all the family and friends I've lost to drugs, where it just started with "one smoke of weed" so I get terrified about people doing it and I want to help them and make sure they're fully aware of everything.
No need to thank me, you're doing really well informing them, and never think you're being a worrywart, those matters are serious matters and they can bring harm if not handled and exercised with caution
iām so sorry i missed it!! iām in aus, and get time zones mixed up but just pretend i sent this an hour ago so itād technically still be the 5th for you š i hope you had a wonderful day and enjoyed the full moon š
also, donāt mean this in a creepy way, i promise, but r u still a minor? purely cos i donāt wanna ever dm minors in case it comes off the wrong way (i never mean it that way, but just wanna keep everyone safe and comfortable āŗļø)
hey hey!!!
thank you anyway! when you sent this, it was six hours ago and it's 07.04 rn so it's about right.
and yep, i'm a minor, though i would understand more sirious or grown up topics, also because of my intelligence and all i went through.
hope that doesn't sound very egotistical, but yeah.
nope thatās completely valid! i understand :) i was also always the very mature one growing up and my intelligence is apparently high above avg too, so i 100% get it :)
but itās not that you wonāt understand yk? itās more like, i make loads of jokes and sometimes they can be misinterpreted, when i never ever mean them that way! i may only be 18, but legally i am at the age of majority, and even tho i just wanna make friends, i now have to be mindful, yk? so itās more from a, lets keep everyone safe, and show you that i respect that ur younger, as should other adults! also, itās not just you, im trying to do this for all minors, or at least ppl who are more than a year younger than me :)
i did not mean to insult you at all, im so sorry!
also, just to be clear, this is in no way a dni! iām still gonna have convos with you in reblogs and the comment thing, and send u asks, and stuff cos ur fun and cool, but just not dmās :))
(i had a fever dream and woke up with this thought: āhave you ever asked your creation to explain its purpose? ā¦its purpose is that you created it.ā a couple of days later i got really really drunk and mixed my own existential dread with my concern for my friend, and wrote this at like 3 am. itās not polished, hell i havenāt edited a single word after i typed it, so itās not clean, but i havenāt posted my poetry on here, so here goes!!)
(if u have no triggers, read the poems before tags, if you do, pls check tags before you read!)
if i delete a post, will my reblog of that post stay on my blog???
as in i have some long reblog convos that are cluttering up the blog cos itās getting repetitive, so if i delete the first post, and all the posts up until before my last reblog, will that final version still be there??
Hello person having transgender thoughts but convinced they aren't trans because they don't have the requisite amount of dysphoria they think they need
Hi I transitioned without even thinking I had dysphoria. Like later in hindsight I can go "oh that's probably what it was" but for the first year of my transition I was straight up like "I like being a guy but I like being a girl WAY more" and you can do that!! There is no prerequisite amount of suffering needed to make yourself happier.
I realized I was a guy YEARS ago and most of the time I forget Iām even trans. Iām like āI mean Iām probably not trans Iām just a dudeā and then I go. Wait
