Introverted Fangirl

A blog by an aroace, introverted, adult female (28). Mostly reblogs consisting of random shit, funny posts, and anything else that catches my interest. Anyone with blogs that support specific NSFW topics such as Incest, Pedophilia, Rape/Non-Con, etc., will be firmly blocked. The only exceptions are mutuals and/or blogs with posts that I’ve liked who I can confirm are safe to interact with for my sake

[imaginationcreationer]

I’m starting to fucking hate July.

Ridiculous thunderstorms hitting my area, and my car got into not one but TWO accidents within a span of a weekend.

I just want this year to be over.

[rainydaydecaf]

I never saw people say stuff like this enough when I was a teenager, so I’m saying it now.

I’m in my mid-thirties and I have never had sex. I’ve thought about it and could have had one or two opportunities if I put in more effort, but I always decided against it because I just wasn’t into it at the time.

I can safely say that I do not feel I have missed out on anything. I was perfectly capable, by myself, of learning about my own body and boundaries without anyone else there to muddy the waters. The immense pressure that was there in my teens/twenties to Have Sex Just Do It is basically gone. I’m vibing. I’ve got my routine by myself in bed that I enjoy, and that’s enough for me.

And in the unlikely event that I ever decide to have sex with someone in the future, I don’t feel at all like I’m lacking some essential Knowledge or Skill that would “make it good” for someone else. I fully expect to ask my partner out loud what they like and to receive an answer clearly communicated and to relax and have fun. And if it’s a disappointing experience, I’m fine with that too. It is what it is.

Sex is just not that big of a deal. I suspected it as a teen, and I’m more sure of it now. It’s fine to have it or not have it. It’s whatever.

[imaginationcreationer]

It stormed in where my home is, but I managed to dodge it due to being out of state for a trip with friends. But the forecast says its suppose to storm practically for another week thanks to that ridiculous heat wave

Pray I don't have to endure anything but rain within the hours where I'm not at work at night

[imaginationcreationer]

The eternal depression I suffer through every hour when I refresh my bookmarks on AO3 and none of the stories are updated with new chapters.

[lilaccatholic]

It’s Fourth of July Eve so make sure to leave some milk and cookies out for Captain America

[lilaccatholic]

I THOUGHT AFTER FOUR YEARS YOU PEOPLE WOULD LET THIS DIE AND YET AGAIN I OPEN THIS CURSED APP TO FIND MORE NOTES ON THIS POST

[justarandomart]

happy pride month!! some aro ace Phantumps to celebrate!

[the-irreverend]

And stay safe everyone!

[polyamandhellaglam]

Polyamory is safe for work. Polyamory is safe for kids. Polyamory is safe for day time tv. Polyamory isn’t more sexual than any other relationship and it can be just as romantic, sweet, and healthy.

[anxietyproblem]

[iguanodonwildman]

Hey! Just a reminder! AO3 does NOT have an app. This garbage was made by theives who steal fan artist’s work and sell it back to you.

“Oh, but it’s free!” There are ads. They are making money off of this. They are stealing from the creators you love and you are hurting those same creators if you use this app or any similar app.

Don’t use it. Report it at every opportunity.

[willoryn]

To my fellow moots and followers with ADHD I just want to remind you that you're not lazy. You're not stupid.

Even if no one else recognises that, I promise you that I do. I know the hard work you put in every day and I understand how much of a struggle it can be. I know how it feels when the little mistakes you feel like you shouldn't have overlooked seem huge and demoralising. But it's gonna be okay.

Please be patient with yourself. I promise that you're doing a great job and I am so proud of you 💖💕

[danieatssoap]

The Zuko fics suddenly flooding in after the movie has me like

KEEP IT UP YALL I HAVE ALL DAY

[knightlyhoods-deactivated202404]

this has got to be THE funniest sentence ive seen all day im gonna cry

[faelapis]

also greg is the most bisexual-coded cartoon dad ever

[faelapis]

so greg you're telling me your conservative family doesnt approve of your musical awakening coming from a naked gay icon in gnc/drag makeup and they want to send you to the military but you ran away and changed your name and ended up with a musical aesthetic best described as indie glam rock dad with a non-binary space alien gf instead? das crazy, tell me more about how straight you are

[lizardlicks]

[curseworm]

the secret cheat code for women is realizing you dont have to date men

[curseworm]

this doesnt just go for lesbians it goes for bi women and straight women too. i cant even count how many times straight women have told me “i wish i was a lesbian so i didnt have to date men” but guess what … u Dont have to date men 

[curseworm]

to be clear this also isnt necessarily saying ‘go date women instead!!’ its just saying…. u dont have to date men. u dont have to be dating women in order to not date men! in fact if ur not attracted to women at all please dont date women just as a substitute for men. but if dating men isnt making u happy… u dont have to do that. u dont have to make a space in ur life for men

[curseworm]

im singlehandedly destroying every mans mental health by telling women its ok to not date them

[science-hoes]

Anyways

[imaginationcreationer]

Me: My state unleashed a serious and severe tornado/thunderstorm warning for tomorrow and my anxiety and astraphobia are at their wits end.

Also me: Too much of a coward to entertain the idea of calling out of work