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Okay, so a fic where Harry finds out that his animagus is a tiny little black kitten, and he’s all like, ‘shit son, this is my chance to stay out after curfew’ but then he’s out one night, and McGonagall finds him and immediately knows it’s him, and just picks him up by the scruff of his neck to deliver his naughty ass back to G Tower while Harry meows at her in indignation.
okay but this is so adorable
I can only see this
brb sCREAMING
If you followed this blog for anything kinky you’re gonna wanna head on over to kinkyinthemiddle. That’s where I share all the filthy stuff I like. 😇
Gonna be another banner year of fuck ups. I can feel it in my bones.
Sure wish my posts would automatically share to the right blog. 😡
Some days… I guess that settles that, then
when Littles are feeling sassy
- nikita gill
When I'm horny but he's watching sports
Cinderella. A tribute to the service sub. 😇
In Case You Need Courage
Never let anyone step on your boundaries.
No one can take your autonomy away from you.
You are strong.
You have power over yourself.
You are worthy of respect.
Don’t tolerate people who make you feel lesser.
Don’t tolerate people who make you feel badly.
You deserve so much more.
Hi evie, My dom has been pushing my limits recently.. sometimes not in an enjoyable way. I’m having a very hard time drawing a line between pushing me too far and pushing me just enough. Stop is always our agreed upon word to stop.. but recently when I tell him to stop he says he’s training me the rough way.. I’ve asked him about it later on and he just says it’s a part of my training.. is this just the way it’s supposed to be. Am I just not cut out for it.
Anon,
If you didn’t negotiate for stop to stop being stop, or for him to push you an inch farther after you say stop… It still bloody means stop exactly as it always has! It’s still your safeword! He doesn’t get to just continue because it’s “rough training” you haven’t given informed consent to do. NO Dom gets to EVER decide when they are allowed to ignore that or push your limits without your express, advanced consent to do so. Point. Blank.
Doms don’t get to just pull “training exercises” out of their asshole and tell you that you need to do them even when it means ignoring your safeword and more importantly not discussing it with you at all beforehand! The only way it is “supposed to be” is what you both actively consent to do. Now I don’t want to assume you are 100% not consenting to this but at the least this is some serious power exchange fuckery, poor communication, and coercion all of which are huge red flags. At worst he is abusing you. I personally wouldn’t play with him again until I was damn sure he knew my stop meant stop NOW. Not stop whenever he feels ‘training’ is done.
I don’t care what amazing porno he saw this idea in, but in real life BDSM, Dom’s just don’t get to randomly invent shit and violate limits without asking first, then justifying it with “because I said so” and pushing you into doing it. That breaks the line between BDSM and abuse. Limits are limits for reason. A Dom not in complete sync with their sub mentally and physically can cause irreparable damage if they are not careful when doing so. The only way to make sure he is hitting that sweet spot of not too much, just enough, is by respecting your words.
Now if he wanted to do this the right way what he needed to say is:
“My precious s-type, how would you feel about having your limits expanded? Here is XYZ way I plan to do this. Here are XYZ limits I was thinking of working on. Your safeword will still always be respected. How would you feel about a ‘soft red’ where your safeword is still followed through on, but the word allows me to continue for X# of seconds / minutes / hits / whatever? We can also have in place a ‘hard red’, so you can always communicate medical, physical or mental emergency without fear. What are your thoughts?”
THAT is how you fucking communicate limit pushing consensually. None of this hogwash because I said so bullshit. Lack of experience is not an excuse. Having good communication is a basic skill that any Dom should have, especially with edgeplay and boundary pushing. If you can’t do that don’t be a Dom. And if you can’t accurately tell what is pushing just enough versus causing potential harm, you are not on a position to have your limits pushed safely regardless.
Anyway sorry this got me really angry. I hate when people end up in situations where they think they should take shitty Dom behavior because it’s their fault for not being able to be better for them.
Evie
things that still freak me out: those sinks americans have in their kitchens that you can destroy stuff with
You mean the hungry shreddy monster that lives in the sink drain?
The yearly defacing of my great great grandmother’s photo
John is too good for this world
No, no. Tell the story.
The little boy (whose name escapes me) has a brain tumor. He wanted to meet Finn, but he didn’t want him to himself. He wanted Finn to visit with all the kids at the pediatric ward. John stayed in character the ENTIRE time and he taught Finn about all kinds of Earth things.
The little girl is Layla. She asked Finn where Rey was. He said he didn’t know. Kylo knocked him out and he didn’t know where Rey was. And she said “that’s okay, I’ll be your Rey.”
im crying. and so are you
The little boy is named Daniel! You can read an article about it here.
And here are some more pictures which are precious:
