[theambitiouswoman]

Validating yourself sounds like:

• “I’m allowed to feel tired.”

• “It’s okay to take a break.”

• “I don’t have to be perfect.”

• “I deserve love & care.”

• “I can handle this.”

• “I’m allowed to feel uncertain.”

• “My feelings matter.”

• “I’m doing my best today.”

• “It’s okay to feel what I feel.”

• “I’m allowed to say no.”

• “I deserve peace.”

• “I don’t need to rush.”

• “I’m enough, just as I am.”

• “I trust myself to get through this.”

• “I’m learning & growing.”

• “My emotions are valid.”

[imperialcherry]

Let the chips fall where they may

[imperialcherry]

That photo of Messi bathing Yamal when he was a baby is so funny and precious

[scorpionlafemme]

[theambitiouswoman]

We’re taught to chase chemistry like it’s fate

Movies, media, society, romance culture they all sell this idea that if the spark is strong, the person must be right however most of what we call chemistry is actually our nervous system reacting, not destiny

It’s cortisol, adrenaline, old attachment wounds and familiar chaos. It’s your body recognizing a pattern you’ve lived before not necessarily what’s good for you

Real chemistry, healthy, aligned chemistry feels completely different. It’s steady, it feels SAFE, peaceful, you don’t have to guess or chase or decode. It’s not lustful. It’s not anxiety pretending to be passion. It’s not that addictive rush your body learned from past wounds. Your body relaxes around them instead of bracing. You feel more like yourself, not less. You don’t lose your center, you expand and become your best self

No amount of chemistry can ever make up for the anxiety that comes from being with someone who is emotionally inconsistent, unkind, or misaligned with your core values

That “spark” that makes you obsessed is literally your nervous system trying to resolve an old wound

Your body knows the difference

Your peace knows the difference

Your soul definitely knows the difference

[imperialcherry]

You don’t serve anyone by making yourself look small and you are the most important person in your life

[imperialcherry]

I love community, I love connection, I love passion, I love story telling, all of that enriches me enlivens my spirit all of it is worth living for and paying attention to

[imperialcherry]

There’s no form of control without accountability and no power without responsibilities

[imperialcherry]

Scorpio women are so hot and sexy, when someone asked Julia Roberts where they can find her and she said “you can’t” irresistible

[imperialcherry]

PHEW Oh boy did it send me into a frenzYyyy when this stupid ass walnut shaped fuck messaged me early this morning to confirm receipt on an email that was sent over THE FUCKING WEEKENDDDD I hope you fucking sense the AGGRESSIVENESS behind my exclamation point I put after “received” you fucking idiot

[imperialcherry]

Sometimes you just gotta reel it in… and then you journal about it and that’s where you can go… Nuts!

[kropotkindersurprise]

[imperialcherry]

Recently went to the Grand Canyon and learning about the history what they did to Native American tribes makes me so livid

[imperialcherry]

Instead of avoiding it and jumping to conclusions which is a form of catastrophizing, I would meet it with curiosity

[imperialcherry]

Read an email of someone sharing their grandbaby has arrived which was THE BEST email I have ever read in who knows how long AND it absolutely made my day! Oh how incredibly heartwarming and precious that was 😩🥹🥰😄

[imperialcherry]

I went to recycle and I saw this bitch just throw her trash in the recycling area and I checked her so fucking fast like you dumb fucking twat the trash area is RIGHT NEXT to the recycling I called her a cunt it pissed me off so bad because people keep on throwing their trash in the wrong area and then people can’t recycle, you’re not only a cunt but a filthy fucking animal you dumb ass bitch you’re part of the problem !!!!!!

[imperialcherry]

Some of my favorite pictures I took of me wearing my turquoise wig was when I was taking nudes 😄 and obviously I cropped it out

[imperialcherry]

I blame my moon sign whenever I’m moody or just a brat or an asshole it’s because of my moon sign