𝓬'𝓮𝓼𝓽 𝓵𝓪 𝓿𝓲𝓮

[borderlinereminders]

If you feel an urge to send an accusing, angry or anxious message right now, pause for five minutes and check your body first. Are you seeking connection, reassurance, or relief from anxiety? Knowing why you want to reach out can help you ask more gently, or wait until you feel steadier.

[traumasurvivors]

You’re allowed to grieve things you never had.

Loss isn’t limited to what was taken away, it includes what was never given.

[dreamgirlvibes]

[quotefeeling]

“They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: Someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for.”

— Tom Bodett

[borderlinereminders]

The other day, I asked my partner, “What are you doing?”

Simple question, right?

Except… he suddenly got defensive. His tone changed. I could feel tension building, and I had no idea why. So I took a breath and asked, “Wait, what did you hear me say?”

He paused, thought about it, and said, “I thought you meant ‘Why aren’t you doing anything?’ Like you were mad I was being lazy.”

But that wasn’t what I meant at all. I’d genuinely just been curious.

And that moment reminded me how easily things can go sideways when we assume intent. Our brains, especially when we’ve had messy pasts, trauma, or relationship anxiety, tend to fill in the blanks with the worst possible meaning.

But that one question, “What did you hear me say?”, turned what could’ve been an argument into understanding.

It gave both of us a chance to clarify before our brains made up a story that wasn’t true. I was able to explain, and he was able to listen. Understanding what I meant changed his tension entirely.

Sometimes the fight isn’t about what was said. It’s about what was heard.

“What did you hear me say?” can defuse a storm before it starts.

[remanence-of-love]

[remanence-of-love]

[perfectquote]

“Progress. Just make progress. It’s okay to have setbacks and the need for do-overs. It’s okay to draw a line in the sand and start over again - and again. Just make sure you’re moving the line forward. Move forward. Take baby steps… Then change will come. And it will be good.”

— Lysa TerKeurst

[mentalcentral]

if you’re at a point right now where you don’t see any hope in the future, remember that the future will always seem overwhelming when you’re thinking about it all at once. you only have to live through one moment at a time. focus on now and focus on getting through this, because you will.

[ruhaniya]

[vexheart]

[vexheart]

[feelingsoftheday]

no matter the distance between us, i belong to you, and you belong to me.

[ruhaniya]

"for you, i would" is such a gentle and sweet love language like no maybe i wouldn't usually do this but i would love to do it if it would make you happy.

[whatareyouthinking]

I want to slide my fingers deep inside a femmes pussy, curling them as I run circles over her clit with my thumb, feeling her tremble beneath me. Pinning her wrists above her head, gripping them tight while I fuck her hard, rough, and relentless, watching her come undone under my control. Pressing hot, opened mouth kisses along the sensitive skin of her thighs, savoring every shiver, before I press my mouth against her dripping cunt, licking and sucking until she can't take it anymore.

[cadaveriaa]

i love submissive tops, like will you beg on your knees for me because you want to fuck me so bad? aww you just want me to use your face to get off, you're so adorable baby, make sure to make me feel good otherwise i won't let you touch me <3

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[sapphiccbunny]

I simply wanna be held

feel another body next to mine

with the window open because we both like it that way

or maybe because we can use the cold breeze as an excuse to move closer

me tentatively caressing your hair, my nails softly scratching your scalp

yours moving along my back and arms

feeling each other's breaths as I lie on your chest

us warming up together as we softly drift to sleep in the other's arms