with all my heart I want to write a callout post for that discord server (I’ll need to find the post to actually remember the name) I was in. They were blatantly allowing and promoting statutory rape and making excuses for it. As a victim of statutory rape, I was highly triggered by their actions and was sex down a dangerous depressive spiral for days. Regardless of how many times I tried to speak to the mods they defended statutory rape and the people writing it as well as persecuted me for trying to speak up about it.
I’m greatly appalled by how far this fandom has fallen with things such as sexualizing minors and statutory rape becoming the norm between roleplayers. It’s truly ghastly, but anyway, if you would like a list of the rps who supported/wrote statutory rape please feel free to ask.
hi there ! so I’m one of the mods and the creator of the discord group mentioned in this post and I think it’s only fair that both sides of this story be told. to be clear, my main blogs are suitheir and jockhunt, but @tiiinkerbel / @hitace / ella blocked both of those so I have to reblog it here : )
so here’s what really happened: in our group chat two of our users, one which writes an oc that is 17 years old, and one that writes h.arry h.ook, headcanonning him as 18, have a ship. this is the same age as some senior couples in high school. there has been no written nsfw activity inside the server because there are minors active in it. there has not even been an implication that these two have slept together in the server or outside it. therefore, no statutory rape has happened on our watch nor has it been promoted or excused. ella was personally triggered by two characters in a relationship that likely mirrored ones she’s had in the past in which traumatizing things have happened, but our server and its users have done nothing wrong. there is no statutory rape being written, glamorized or romanticized because we’re not monsters.
also, when ella approached the mods about this, we actually tried very much to make her feel heard and not invalidate her experiences of trauma while also still defending users of our server that had done literally nothing wrong and were being accused of something awful. she claims we “persecuted her” as mods by not allowing her to speak about something that 1. wasn’t happening in the first place and 2. was potentially triggering to other users. we also never ever called her out for any of this in front of the rest of the group, all of our conversations about the issue were handled privately, so I’m not sure how we “persecuted” you. if anyone is curious about our conversation I’ll throw some caps I took of it below a read more and you can decide for yourself, but I truly did try to be as supportive as possible while explaining that there was no statutory rape going on.
additionally, ella’s presence in our server over the few days she was part of it made multiple of our users extremely uncomfortable with her behavior. as a mod, it’s my job to care for the majority of our members as best I can and, if one person is negatively affecting the larger group, we are within our right to remove that person.
also, as long as we’re talking about people’s wrong-doings, I think it’s only fair that people know that ella was trying to get away with white-washing in our server. she had an oc called trick that was the son of oogie boogie. for those who may not know, oogie boogie is a character from Nightmare Before Christmas and is voiced by a black actor. while the cast of her oc, who was oogie boogie’s son, with a white actor made us a little uncomfortable, we didn’t initially say anything. however, ella then wanted to add oogie boogie himself to the chat and had voiced casting him as michael b jordan, a black actor. that especially raised red flags to us. when we brought this to her attention, she simply told us that they were meant to be in different timelines and that she didn’t think it was a big deal. so not only is she making false, extremely serious accusations, but she’s not entirely squeaky clean herself. anyways, thats our side of the story.
