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wow it's really been 3 years, huh
anyway. i have a new blog now! it's empty but i'm gonna start using it more now: @emmienemms
that's all thank u
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hi
wow it's really been 3 years, huh
anyway. i have a new blog now! it's empty but i'm gonna start using it more now: @emmienemms
that's all thank u
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um no offense but whom'stāve going to loveth me
been posting these on insta and twitter, may as well post em here too
redesigning my persona to look more like me! also toying around with styles and expressions
is it sad boy hours or do i just need sleep š¤
Bless whoever made this.
it doesnāt matter that i tend to be sensitive just tell me straight up and iāll understand and do my best to be better since all i want to do is improve as a person and no one can improve if no one communicates their problems
I love how Ray Holt is portrayed simultaneously as a serious, emotionless captain as well as the most dramatic and petty person on the whole team. I live for his deadpan dramatic-ness and Iāve honestly never seen a character like him before on TV
The first time we see Kevin, he describes Holt as hilarious and the other characters are bewildered by this, but Holt has been a prankster since the beginning of the show. In the very first episode, when he was making Jake carry on with the robot impression, he was pranking him. The hula hoop incident.The fact he got so into the Halloween heists. Winding Jake up is one of his greatest sources of amusement and he loves playing jokes on people.
Itās just that no one recognises them as jokes because his face stays utterly serious throughout.
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musicians only Dark Millenials will remember:
cobra starship
neon trees
metro station
3OH3
taio cruz
owl city
far east movement
ne-yo
onerepublic
boys like girls
the othe genre of 2008-2010s Dark Millenial music:
lady antebellum
shinedown
daughtry
the fray
kings of leon
theory of a deadman
skillet
rob thomas
the script
This is not how I wanted to find out Iām a Dark Millennial. I hate this post.
hereās a hard pill to swallow: abuseĀ does not just exclusively occur in romanticĀ or family relationships. friends can be just as toxic to your physical and mental wellbeing as a partner or a family member. also,Ā the aftermath of being in an abusive friendshipĀ can be just as traumatizingĀ as any other abusiveĀ relationship. donāt boo me iāmĀ rightĀ
for some reason people don'tĀ know this but toxic friends can mirror all the same behaviors as seen in an abusive romantic partner. i will use my own story of my ex-high school best friend who abused me for several years. signs of abuse include but are not limited to:
Humiliating or embarrassing you - my ex-best friend LOVED to try and make me squirm in any way possible to see my reaction. once she went up to a guy and told him i had a crush on him to watch me struggle to explain myself
Unreasonable jealousy - if i so much as went to hang out with any of my other friends i would have to let my ex-best friend know beforehand. i pretty much had to get her permission to see other people or she would be convinced that i was āditching her foreverā
Refusing to communicate - if she was everĀ angry with me or upset she would never tell me that so we could talk about it. instead, she would ignore me or respond to all my texts withĀ ākā orĀ āyaā and i would have to struggle for hours to get her to tell me what was wrong
Ignoring or excluding you - she would ignore me for weeks at a time as a āpunishmentā knowing that it would eat me up inside wondering what i did wrong. iĀ still remember spending nights wide awake crying in bed because i didnāt know what to doĀ
Mean jokes or constantly making fun of you - she would constantly poke fun at my appearanceĀ and personality to where my self-confidence plummeted.Ā god help me if i ever said anything about her though
Saying things like āIf you donāt _____, I will_____.ā - she would constantly threaten to kill herself if i didn'tĀ do what she wanted
Guilt trips - she never apologizedĀ once to me in our seven-plus years of being friends. not once. every timeĀ we argued i would be the one whoĀ apologized in the end. once when i stood up to her and called her out on treating me like crap she would make up a story of how her life was miserable and that i was making things worseĀ
Isolating you from friends and family - been mentioned before but she was extremely jealous of all my other relationships and would override my plans with other people on purpose and would guilt trip me if iĀ still went to see them
Ā Domination and control - also mentioned before but i needed her permission on everything. if i joined any group or extracurricular activity without her knowing she would be furiousĀ Ā
Extreme moodiness - after ignoring me for weeks she would contact me out of the blue and act as if nothing happened. she would also refuse to talk about why she ignored me for so long and did not care if my mental health suffered from it
anyway, abusive friendships need to be acknowledged more because they are not only extremely common but also very damaging to someoneās mental health. i personally had to go through years of therapy to unlearn the guilt and self-hatred that my ex-friend helped instill in me. stay safe yall
a GREAT addition fromĀ @mememic-bry
#also- because sometimes I think people throw around words like āabuseā a little carelessly on this site #people who arenāt abusive sometimes might do one or two things on this list #because people are flawed #and sometimes we screw up and hurt each other and itās ouch and it sucks #if your friend does one of these things once they are not an abuser and please donāt bring it up by sayingĀ āyouāre being abusiveā #instead sayĀ āhey this specific thing you did hurt me and hereās why it was p stressfulā #and a good friend will hear you out. maybe they will get defensive or sad (cause who *likes* being called out letās be real) #but ultimately they will listen to you. they will own up to their actions. #and they will make a genuine effort to not act in that way that hurt you again
#ON THE OTHER HAND #an abusive person will do several of these things *repeatedly* and *consistently*. it is a pattern woven in your relationship #and it just keeps happening #and if you try to bring it up they will deny any ownership of their actions #they will either say they never did those things OR that they *DID* but itās not their fault #every single time they will gaslight you or make themselves the victim and refuse to hold themselves accountable for hurtingĀ you #thatās an abuser. thatās a toxic friendĀ
As of July 10, 2019 she is still missing. Please pass this around
July 12, 2019 Samya Temple is still listed as missing in Missing Kids LA when I checked