being trans is good. i do not fucking care like “oh it’s hard being trans there’s dysphoria” yeah i know asshole! i have it too! shut up!! at some point you either accept that you’re never gonna be cis and make peace with it or don’t, but if you refuse to make peace with it you cannot spew your self-loathing all over every other trans person who’s in a better place than you. you can’t say being trans is wrong or awful or disgusting and you can’t criticize other trans people for looking how you don’t want them to and wearing clothes you don’t like.
i’m serious. nut up or shut up. i have ZEROOOOO sympathy for you the moment you turn your internalized horseshit on other people and start acting like being trans is some kind of shameful horrific aberration you need to punish the rest of us for not being as contrite about. grow. up. it’s childish and pathetic.
stop treating being trans like being catholic























