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far away is where i want to be

This may be a difficult thing to see right now; this may be an impossible thing to envision, but it’s something you need to internalize. Don’t give up on yourself, okay?

#mood for this year

21sadnes

Sex without feelings or passion is trash and I don’t want it

cwote

For whatever you’ve done or whoever you’ve been in your past, you are here now. Forgive yourself for anything and everything. It’s the first step in healing. If you forgive yourself, you will be okay.

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onehundredacrewood

Sometimes I feel like I’m only meant for myself

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trashierblonde

i want to feel like home to someone

Growing up in an abusive household is a fucking trip dude……If you’ve never had someone angrily wash a dish at you or fold a sock in your direction then how are you gonna understand why I get nervous when you quietly do the laundry, or why I ask “are you mad at me?” when you set the bag of groceries down too hard? It’s a totally different way of living and it impacts you long after you’ve left the situation.

sothisistherapy

This is so important.

notsafevorework

Abused kids speak a language you can’t learn

kittyinhighheels

I’ll never forget the people who threw a fit about this post because they didn’t understand the anxiety when someone just seems angry while in your proximity

sweetlikeecandee

If you have a change in your behavior, I’m picking that up right away. It’s what I’ve had to adapt to doing, it’s my survival. I will ask you if you are angry, if something is wrong, etc. If you don’t want to talk about it, I understand. But don’t lie to me and tell me nothing is wrong when I’ve sensed that there is.

There’s a lot of stuff we don’t talk about.

There’s a lot of nonverbal communication that we pick up on.

It fucks with me.

thefoxof86-deactivated20220707

☝🏻 It’s a very different way to see the world.

baggys-little-kitty

Yep, it will fuck you right up. The reason I can’t clean infront of other people. If you didn’t do it right, you got slapped and dragged down the hallway by your hair…and not in a good way…

fae-kisses-deactivated20201120

Every. Word.

Every. Action.

I learned. I watched. I adapted.

I can’t verbally talk about a lot of things because of this type of treatment. Today’s bad dialogue was a product of that abuse.

Today I spoke up, with shaking hands and even more shaky voice. It was scary as fuck and really difficult. Thankfully, the people I confided in were compassionate and listened. They let me get the worst of the storm out of my head so I could continue forward with my day.

Take time to listen to someone, please. Try to understand the people you love. You may not be aware of the war inside their head. Compassion is the greatest gift I feel I can give.

If you need someone to hear your story and your feelings without judgement, I will listen. I will hear you and respect your experience. Send me an anon ask, I will keep it private if you need me to do so. I will not out or dismiss you.

If not me, please seek someone you trust. Be heard. Be understood.

hisvintagesub

So much truth.

dominanttomkatt

Absolutely true😻💕💋

mrositonegro-deactivated2020110

Teamwork makes the dream work… we’re all here to help one another!!!

naughtypiggy

I’m 43, and still trying to unlearn coping mechanisms ingrained from childhood abuse and neglect.

anxietyproblem

Getting over you is the hardest thing I have ever had to do...

#movingon #meafteryou

lohver

important!

cwote

For whatever you’ve done or whoever you’ve been in your past, you are here now. Forgive yourself for anything and everything. It’s the first step in healing. If you forgive yourself, you will be okay.