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— John Green

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“Maybe there’s something you’re afraid to say, or someone you’re afraid to love, or somewhere you’re afraid to go. It’s gonna hurt. It’s gonna hurt because it matters.”
— John Green
A beautiful love language is consideration. When someone thinks about your feelings before making decisions, pays attention to details & goes the extra mile to make life a little easier for you - how much someone cares about you can actually be found in how much they consider you.
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You didn't become selfish. You became harder to manipulate. Don't confuse the two.
“One of the most amazing things that can happen is finding someone who sees everything you are and won’t let you be anything less. They see the potential in you. They see endless possibilities. And through their eyes, you start to see yourself the same way. As someone who matters. As someone who can make a difference in this world.”
— Unknown
Healing changes your taste in people. At some point, chaos stops feeling exciting and starts feeling exhausting. The people who once felt intense now just feel draining. Drama loses its grip, mixed signals feel like bullshit, and peace suddenly becomes attractive as hell. Healing doesn't make you boring; it makes you selective. You stop chasing attention, stop explaining yourself, stop tolerating shit that messes with your head. Okay, it might feel lonely at first, but it's cleaner. Quieter. Safer. You begin choosing consistency over sparks, honesty over charm, and effort over empty words. And yeah, some connections won't survive that shift. That's fine. Healing isn't about keeping everyone; it's about keeping your sanity and refusing to unlearn what self-respect finally taught you.
If you truly love someone, you love them twice. The first time, it's all about attraction, their smile, voice, presence. But slowly, the curtain lifts. You see their scars, insecurities, mood swings, trauma, moral differences. It's no longer perfect. It's real. And if you can still love them, without filters, without expectations, that's not infatuation. That's the love of understanding. The kind that stays. The kind that grows.
My therapist told me: Adult friendships need patience, not pressure. People disappear sometimes, not because they don't care, but because life asks more of them than they can explain. Silence can be survival. Distance can be healing. Before assuming you've been forgotten, choose kindness over conclusions. Reach out softly, connection often returns when met with grace.
“Don’t be afraid to love again. Not everyone is like your ex.”
— Unknown
My love you know this is me and you ! ❤️
Jaime Sabines, from a poem titled "You Have What I Look For," featured in Love Is Like The Lion's Tooth: An Anthology of Love Poems
“You don’t love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.”
— Oscar Wilde
once you have real feelings for someone, they don’t disappear. you can’t truly fall out of love, you can’t just grow distant. you don’t suddenly dislike them or erase them from your body or soul. if you could, then maybe it wasn’t love... maybe it was just a temporary need.
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