the war is coming.
the empire will fall -
and when it does,
I hope that youāve made it home -
in time -
in time -
we will
all see.
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the war is coming.
the empire will fall -
and when it does,
I hope that youāve made it home -
in time -
in time -
we will
all see.
Keep telling myself that all these years of sleepless nights will amount to something.
But as of now,
All I got is a body count,
poetry, product and a penchant for planning.
Canāt wait to watch this ācharityā burn to the fucking ground. Finally.
Crime is worth a sweeter dime.
Iām????
Oh my God this actually explains so much.
So thereās a known thing in the study of human psychology/sociology/what-have-you where men are known to, on average, rely entirely on their female romantic partner for emotional support. Bonding with other men is done at a more superficial level involving fun group activities and conversations about general subjects but rarely involves actually leaning on other men or being really honest about emotional problems. Men use alcohol to be able to lower their inhibitions enough to expose themselves emotionally to other men, but if you canāt get emotional support unless youāre drunk, you have a problem.
So men need to have a woman in their lives to have anyone they can share their emotional needs and vulnerabilities with. However, since women are not socialized to fear sharing these things, womenās friendships with other women are heavily based on emotional support. If you canāt lean on her when youāre weak, sheās not your friend. To women, what friendship isĀ is someone who listens to all your problems and keeps you company.
So this disconnect men are suffering from is that they think that only a person who is having sex with you will share their emotions and expect support. Thatās what a romantic partner does. But women think thatās what a friend does. So women do it for their romantic partners andĀ their friends and expect a male friend to do it for them the same as a female friend would. This fools the male friend into thinking there must be something romantic there when there is not.
This here is an example of patriarchy hurting everyone. Women have a much healthier approach to emotional support ā they donāt die when widowed at nearly the rate that widowers die and they donāt suffer emotionally from divorce nearly as much even though they suffer much more financially, and this is because women donāt put all their emotional needs on one person. Women have a support network of other women. But men are trained to never share their emotions except with their wife or girlfriend, because that isnāt manly. So when she dies or leaves them, they have no one to turn to to help with the grief, causing higher rates of death, depression, alcoholism and general awfulness upon losing a romantic partner.Ā
So men suffer terribly from being trained in this way. But women suffer in that they canāt reach out to male friends for basic friendship. I am not sure any man can comprehend how heartbreaking it is to realize that a guy you thought was your friend was really just trying to get into your pants. Friendship is real.Ā Itās emotional, itās important to us. We lean on our friends. Knowing that your friend was secretly seething with resentment when you were opening up to him and sharing your problems because he felt like he shouldnāt have to do that kind of emotional work for anyone not having sex with him, and he felt used by you for that reason, is horrible.Ā And the fact that men canāt share emotional needs with other men means that lots of men who canāt get a girlfriend end up turning into horrible misogynistic people who think the world owes them the love of a woman, like itās a commodity⦠because no one will die without sex. Masturbation exists. But people willĀ die or suffer deep emotional trauma from having no one they can lean on emotionally. And men who are suffering deep emotional trauma, and have been trained to channel their personal trauma into rage because they canāt share it, become mass shooters, or rapists, or simply horrible misogynists.
The only way to fix this is to teach boys itās okay to love your friends. Itās okay to share your needs and your problems with your friends. Itās okay to lean on your friends, to hug your friends, to be weak with your friends. Only if this is okay for boys to do with their male friends can this problem be resolved⦠so men, this oneās on you. Women canāt fix this for you; you donāt listen to us about matters of what it means to be a man. Fix your own shit and teach your brothers and sons and friends that this is okay, or everyone suffers.
The next time a guyĀ says, āWhat? You don'tĀ want to be my friend?ā Iāll text him this and then ask if he really wants to be friends or just have another potentialĀ girlfriend.
yāall I am living for these analyses where the new way to fight the patriarchy is to teach men to love each other and themselves
Im a communication student and can confirm the above is absolutely 100% accurate and itās called agentic vs communal friendship theorized by Steven McCornack
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YO ON SOME ANIME SHIT THIS DOPE AF!!!!
Some loser: Wrestling is fake Me: Explain THIS Loser: Holy shit
iām so delighted that tumblr found out about this match, because lord have mercy, twitter was losing its shit over it
This majestic as hell
āForgive yourself for not knowing what you didnāt know before you learned it.ā
ā Maya Angelou
Me: Canāt wait to watch this comedian I loved as a kid!!! Comedian: sexism sexism sexism homophoooobia sexism amirite? Me:Ā
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Jewish Prisoners After Being Liberated From A Death Train, 1945
The Graves Of A Catholic Woman And Her Protestant Husband, Holland, 1888
A Lone Man Refusing To Do The Nazi Salute, 1936
Job Hunting In 1930ās
German Soldiers React To Footage Of Concentration Camps, 1945
Residents Of West Berlin Show Children To Their Grandparents Who Reside On The Eastern Side, 1961
Acrobats Balance On Top Of The Empire State Building, 1934
Mafia Boss Joe Masseria Lays Dead On A Brooklyn Restaurant Floor Holding The Ace Of Spades, 1931
Lesbian Couple At Le Monocle, Paris, 1932
The Most Beautiful Suicide ā Evelyn Mchale Leapt To Her Death From The Empire State Building, 1947
The Remains Of The Astronaut Vladimir Komarov, A Man Who Fell From Space, 1967
Race Organizers Attempt To Stop Kathrine Switzer From Competing In The Boston Marathon. She Became The First Woman To Finish The Race, 1967
Harold Whittles Hearing Sound For The First Time, 1974
Nikola Tesla Sitting In His Laboratory With His āMagnifying Transmitterā more
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Did Beyonce cleanse America?
Kendrick Lamar wins a Pulitzer and Sean Hannity comes under criminal investigation on the first business day after her Coachella show.
Today is World Voice Day, a day to highlight the importance of the voice in our daily lives.
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