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teej | 30 | bi | your friendly tiger parent with a blog | they/them | blog abt anything at this point, who knows? not me. i follow the hyperfixation. i also write on occasion.

[irwinkitten]

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[sesh]

[drtanner]

This is genuinely one of my favourite videos on the fucking planet.

[cacodaemonia]

Okay, you know what? After reading this post, I jokingly said we should all just make a pact to reblog it five times a day forever. So I'm gonna do this louder for the people in the back:

AO3 WAS CREATED BY FANS, FOR FANS

AO3 IS RUN BY FANS (VOLUNTEERS, NO LESS)

AO3 IS PART OF THE NON-PROFIT, ORGANIZATION FOR TRANSFORMATIVE WORKS

AO3 IS NOT OWNED BY ANY COMPANIES AND DOES NOT EARN REVENUE

AO3 OPERATES ON DONATIONS FROM FANS

again:

AO3 WAS CREATED BY FANS, FOR FANS

[rhapsodyinalto]

Ao3 is like the one space left where I don’t feel like I’m drowning in capitalism. There’s no membership fee to access, I’m not assaulted by clickbait ads covering every inch of my screen. Writers are generously gifting their stories. They aren’t beholden to anyone’s schedule but their own, there’s no algorithm to feed or jump through hoops for. They write about the fandoms that inspire them, expanding on worlds or deep diving into character studies. They experiment with tropes and language and style and genre, no matter how “marketable” it is.

In a world where everything is increasingly commodified and regulated and restricted I cherish this little corner of the internet more fiercely.

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

dear lord, please take all life problems and responsibilities away from fanfic writers but also make them financially stable and happy with nothing to worry about so they can happily focus on writing and posting fanfiction. amen

[wolfchans]

Maknae on top!

[irwinkitten]

Seeing your username back in my notifications was a lovely thing to see today!! I hope you’ve been doing well and enjoyed your time away from this hellsite 💜💜

bless you!! i've been here there and everywhere, but with varying hyperfixations and life and my own mental health i just noped from things lmao. i'm getting much better, still balancing life stuff and mental health is on the mend. hope you're good too bestie ♥

[footlongdingledong2]

a simple spell but quite unbreakable

[mousegirlheart]

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[irwinkitten]

Just here to do my almost annual check in with you. Found you and your blog in my 5 es oh es days. You made me smile alot with your writing and just being you. Found loads of other great people through you.

I don’t keep up with the band anymore, but I often think about you. I remembered your bday is in Feb, happy late/early birthday sweet thing 🩷 I hope you’re well or at least on your way to being well. Wish you all the good things this year.

♡ eab

the way this is the first time i've actively logged in on here and this is the first thing i saw.

i'm on my way to being well, absolutely. i'm in a better job, not actively wanting to end everything and trying to keep my head afloat atm.

i hope you're doing well too and that life is treating you well my friend ♥

[irwinkitten]

2025 check in

still not dead. very depressed tho. going into a new job and trying to recover from the shitshow that was the last half of 2024. cried every day for 3 months, dropped into the k-pop rabbit hole (thank u skz) got a new job third day of this year and trying to remind myself i’m good and slowly working thru a list of other things. i’m getting there but lawd i’m feeling it.

anyway may this year be kinder than the last.

[hyunpic]

a quick mid award show roast.....

[etherealspacejelly]

this is your gentle reminder to stop fighting against your adhd and instead structure your life around it

buy a pack of chapsticks and put one in the pocket of all of your coats and jackets because you always forget to bring one and chapped lips is sensory hell

leave important things where you can see them. if they go in a box or a drawer you will forget they exist

put any appointments or deadlines in your phone calendar As Soon As you get them. set a reminder for a week before, a day before, an hour before, as many as you need as often as you need them.

when that little voice in your head says "i dont need to write that down, ill remember it" that is the devil talking!!! write it down anyway!!

plan for down time. have a few hours at the end of every day to just do fun stuff like engage in your hyperfixations. even if you didnt get all of your work done that day, have the rest anyway. you probably spent the whole day beating yourself up for not doing what you Should be doing, so you still need the break.

if you never eat vegetables because its too much effort to chop and cook them, get the frozen or canned shit. it doesnt go off for ages and you just have to microwave it. theres no point buying fresh vegetables if they just keep going off and being left to rot in the bottom of your fridge

if you struggle to decide what to have for dinner every day, take the decision out of it. choose a set of meals and eat those on rotation until you get sick of them, then choose some new ones and do it again.

its not stupid if it works! our brains literally have a chemical deficiency. you are allowed to accommodate yourself. go forth and stop making your life more difficult than it has to be because "this shouldn't be this hard". it is hard, so make it easier.

[irwinkitten]

everyone on social media stop saying 30 is old/ancient challenge.

[imsorryimlate]

it has actually been insane watching the same people who wring their hands about antisemitic tropes in harry potter or disney movies or gothic lit or whatever then go on and reblog disgustingly antisemitic posts on here… like oh i see, to you antisemitism is just a politically incorrect literary trope

[assiraphales]

he’s wearing edward cullen press on nails. I repeat, his is wearing edward cullen press on nails

[necromosss]

ehhh.... if it works

[necromosss]

she HAD to say it out loud huh

[necromosss]

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