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It’s time
Bye, tumblr. We had a nice run.
I’m on twitter if you wanna keep following me.
Signing off.
I’m on twitter
I’m probably abandoning this blog tomorrow, but if you wanna keep following me, i’m on twitter. @SubGender
I’m on twitter
I’m probably abandoning this blog tomorrow, but if you wanna keep following me, i’m on twitter. @SubGender
Intimacy do not always mean sex...
Wash her hair for her
Help her shave
Cook a meal together
Write her a letter… about her(no actually write it)
Shower together (or bath)
Body rubs and massages work well (especially her feet and booty)😉
When she’s removing polish from her fingers…grab a cotton ball and remove the polish from her toes
After she showers…meet her with a dry towel and dry her off
When she’s dry rub her down with coconut oil(or whatever she prefers…
TALK: about her day…her goal…her opinions…
Listen to her…
Form secret code words that only you and her will understand if said publicly
Build memories together….
JUST A FEW SUGGESTIONS….Reblog if you have some suggestions to add.
Hugs that last a few minutes
Hugs where you bury your face in their hair or neck and enjoy how wonderful they smell.
Holding hands while driving.
Playing with fingers over dinner.
Light touches in general.
And hugs. Lots of hugs.
Cuddling… with clothes ON.
Burrowing into their jacket/coat while they’re wearing it.
Hiding your head under their shirt while they’re wearing it.
Kisses on top of the head, forehead, tip of the nose…
Speaking of the nose… nose rubs (with your own nose or just a light stroke with the finger). Nose pokes. Nose pinches.
Pouncing onto their back and nuzzling their neck from behind.
Putting your mouth on their arm, neck, or belly and making that loud “fart” noise.
Stick your finger in their mouth when they yawn.
Make up silly treaties like… ie: The Belly Button Accord of 2016 – No poking the belly button if mid yawn/stretch, unless the stretch/yawn lasts more than 5+ seconds.
Make up articles and clauses to go along with above mentioned treaty… ie: Article 7, clause 15 states, If they violate the treaty, you’re allowed to make fart noises on their arm, uninterrupted, for 5 minutes straight.
Read a book together.
Stroke their hair while they sleep.
Stroke their hair while they’re awake.
Purposely do a big yawn so they will attempt to stick their finger in your mouth… so you can bite them.
Intimacy isn’t always necessarily “sweet and googly.” It also consists of doing silly/playful things to make each other giggle or laugh.
This…
Hugs from behind and suprise tickle fights.
Waking them up with their favorite food.
Taking time for the little things like saying how much you love them.
Baking with them at obscure hours of the night just to watch/listen/talk to them.
Helping them through sad times and holding them close.
I adore this post~
things boys do that are super cute & hot
the shaky breathing they’re trying so hard to control but you can hear it so well
the unintentional hip thrusts and dick twitches through their jeans
the gentle exhale or the sharp gasp when you tease them just right
in a whisper, “fuck…”
the held back moans that keep slipping out
the quiet but intense dirty talk that you least expect and its fucking perfect
the moment you can hear their pace pick up as they work themselves up
the struggled louder breathing as they near climax
how beautiful their varying sounds are as they cum
when they least expect you to do something and can only respond with “oh, my god–”
their labored breathing and hard swallows as they come down from orgasm, their bodies relaxing and you can hear as they relax against their sheets and start to feel the rush of dopamine spread
their sleepy bashfulness amd neediness after they get the calm rush of an orgasm
i want to take someone soft and innocent and turn them into a drooling fucked-out mess on my tongue and cock. i want to replace their pure thoughts with nothing but the need for more and more pleasure. i want them to come crawling to me and beg for it because they can’t focus on anything else.
degradation is great but praise just gets me so so fucking bad like yes please tell me im doing good please tell me im a gorgeous angel tell me im the best kitten on this planet i need it
Tumblr keeps showing me recommended blogs that are sfw and have nothing at all to do with anything I've been posting about on this account.
They showed me a recommendation for a freaking farming blog.
The only interest I have in anything remotely farming-adjecent is the desire to get plowed.
when she slyly grabs your butt in public. when she smugly gropes your butt in private. when she grabs you by the hips and pulls you close. when she holds you around the waist as you cuddle. when she rests her head on your tummy. when you rest your head on her boobs. when she idly strokes your head. or face. or chest. or tummy. or thighs. when she finds your ticklish spots. when she leaves her hand resting on your butt. when she kisses you because she feels like it. when she kisses you for no reason. when she kisses you “because you were being cute.” when she gives hot breathy kisses on the back of your neck. when she knows exactly what to whisper in your ear to make you blush.
when you fall asleep in each other’s arms.
I’ll never forget the last in person conversation I had with with a woman I was on and off with for years because whenever there was an issue, she would just stop talking to me for months at a clip.
At one point she straight up blocked me and bragged to mutual friends about it. Friends went to me and told me to move on and that it’s her loss. Her and I didn’t talk for 2 years. In that time, I moved on to the point of getting married. Soon after I got married, she popped in to see if I was single still and lost her shit when she found out I had gotten hitched.
She tried to convince me to get a divorce and called me and idiot for getting married in the first place.
The best part… When she asked why I didn’t wait for her to “come around”. I told her she gave me no choice but to move on when she blocked me.
This was her answer: well a block is only temporary. You should have just waited for it to end then hit me up!
Yeah…. I’m so glad I didn’t.
fuck those people who play these games
People who play these games should be kneecapped
My dad nearly fell into this trap. He was engaged to a woman who would go silent for a while after an argument. Dad finally told her, “Either you’re by my side or you’re not. I’m not playing these high school games anymore. If you love me, talk to me. Otherwise, we’re done.”
He ended up marrying another woman who never played games with him and helped his better side come out.
This advise can go for anyone out there: if your SO is doing this shit, tell them to cut it out or you’re leaving. And follow through on that threat.
Get you a significant other who has good communication skills and will resolve problems together like a fucking adult
uhm... did tumblr remove the “this post has been flagged” markings? They don’t appear on anything on my blog anymore? Even things that was flagged before?
Once, I encountered the funny story of an AI image descriptor with a sheep obsession. It had been trained on pictures of fields of sheep. Therefore, it tagged anything in a field as 'sheep', including an empty field, because they work on statistical probability. Therefore, it thinks "ah, a field! there's probably a sheep here." (It's a bit more complicated but basically that.) It also couldn't recognise sheep in places that weren't fields, such as petrol stations or barns. [cont]
Now, the alarming aspect of this story is that the very same technology is probably what tumblr is using to identify porn. Now, if it can’t tell that an empty field is not, in fact, full of sheep, what hope do we have that it can’t tell an empty room isn’t full of writing human forms engaged in passionate coitus?
this really does sound like an episode of black mirror
But wait, it’s even weirder than that!
This is gonna produce some absolutely baffling pornography.
…. oh my fucking god they actually are using open source software. They’re using a fucking one-layer unidirectional bicategory tag-trained neural network. This will never work. Literally, it will never work. There’s just not enough algorithmic complexity to do what they’re asking of it. I bet you I could prove on a mathematical level that this joke of a neural net fundamentally lacks the abstraction necessary to do its job.
This will never get better. Their algorithm will never stop fucking up, it will never actually flag porn reliably and it will always require a massive quantity of human hours to deal with the deluge of mistagged pictures. This isn’t just a case of an insufficiently trained algorithm, it’s just … this is the most basic neural network you can make. It probably hasa a lot of neurons and has loads of training data but like … you can’t just brute force this kind of stuff. One layer of neurons is just Not Enough.
Also, just to make this clear, Tumblr lied. I mean, we already know this, but I mean they liiiieeeeed. All that stuff they promised about what would or would not be censored? That cannot be delivered on with a system this simple. Nude classical sculptures, political protests, male-presenting nipples (really Tumblr?), nude art outside the context of sex, all that? You cannot train a bicategory one-layer neural network to exclude those things. It cannot be done. Tumblr never intended for those things to actually be permitted, they were just lying. Because the system they have cannot actually do what they said it would and never will be able to.
Also, this kind of system is super vulnerable to counter-neural strategies. I bet you before the end of the month someone hooks up their own open source one layer bicategory neural network which puts an imperceptible (to humans) layer of patterned static over arbitrary images, and trains it by having it bot-post static-ed images to Tumblr and reinforcing based on whether the images are labeled nsfw or sfw. Seriously, within a month someone will have an input-output machine which can turn any image ‘sfw’ in Tumblr’s eyes.
This is genuinely pathetic. Like, I have real pity for whoever implemented this, because it’s clear Tumblr doesn’t actually have any engineers with any expertise with machine learning left at all and they foisted the job off on some poor bastard who has no idea what they’re doing and is going to get all kinds of flak for their (perfectly reasonable and predetermined) failure from management.
As has been pointed out before, there are no humans behind this at all. The review process just reruns either the same algorithm or another algorithm, but people have posted screen shots showing obviously SFW pictures that were still deemed NSFW on review, despite the fact that any human, no matter how overworked / tired would have seen that these pictures were not porn.
I’ve made a twitter
I’m @SubGender on twitter. Still setting things up and no content up yet, but hey, feel free to give me a follow.
Here’s a link for your convenience:
https://twitter.com/SubGender
I’ve made a twitter
I’m @SubGender on twitter. Still setting things up and no content up yet, but hey, feel free to give me a follow.
Here’s a link for your convenience:
https://twitter.com/SubGender
I’ve made a twitter
I’m @SubGender on twitter. Still setting things up and no content up yet, but hey, feel free to give me a follow.
Now this is interesting
Article: https://motherboard.vice.com/en_us/article/a3mjxg/apple-tumblr-porn-nsfw-adult-content-banned
YES!! I LIKE THIS TAKE!!
Basically, because I know Mobile is bad with links, the article points out hat the broad, “sfw only, no titties allowed” wave on the internet in recent years is largely due to Apple’s absolute stranglehold on the App Store. Apple has strict guidelines about NSFW content that choke creators right out of mainstream social media, even on sites like Reddit, for users of their products:
But there are fewer and fewer mainstream sites and services that support porn and adult content, and much of that attitude has grown out of Apple’s strict controls over the App Store and the iOS ecosystem. Steve Jobs famously suggested that “folks who want porn can buy an Android phone,” and Apple has repeatedly leveraged its unprecedented power over millions of smartphones to sanitize the apps that are available on iPhones. Apple does not allow apps “that contain user generated content that is frequently pornographic.” In 2016, Apple famously deleted all third-party Reddit apps that allowed users to toggle NSFW posts on and off; even now, it is impossible to access porn on an iOS Reddit app unless you jump through various hoops.
remember though that this anger isn’t about Being Horny On Main, it’s about sex workers, their platforms and followers, NSFW creators and their art, and adult content communities that are continually being shoved out of spaces they created in recent years:
Tumblr’s leadership seems to believe that the community using Tumblr for adult content is the same as any other porn site—showing a serious disconnect with how its users actually interact and connect on its own platform. “We will leave it to them and focus our efforts on creating the most welcoming environment possible for our community,” he wrote.
The value of Tumblr for NSFW creators and fans was in the autonomy to curate something original, and the freedom to express and share what they’re into—something that can’t be replaced by algorithmically-suggested porn on the rest of the internet.
it was mentioned before somewhere else, but 20% of Tumblr’s traffic is brought in by content they’re now flagging as “adult”
This is yet another example of a platform ignoring adult content when it helps the platform flourish, and then leaving those users out to dry when it’s time to crack down for some monetary gain or face-saving. In addition to being a terrible way to treat your user base, banning adult content on Tumblr will stifle a lot of creativity.
and of course, Apple is also one of the companies that has repeatedly come under fire for censoring lgbtq/queer identities on their sites, the app store, and also caved to russia’s anti-lgbtq policies like a stick of rotten bamboo
The communities that will feel this change the most will be the already-marginalized. “Tumblr banning adult content is a huge loss for the LGBTQ community, especially those with overlapping marginalized identities,” Kitty Stryker, a queer porn performer and consent activist, told Motherboard in an email. “For many, that’s the one place we could find porn that represents us, made by indie performers who created their own content outside of an often racist, transmisogynist, fatphobic industry. Tumblr was where our content could exist without pushing us into the restrictions of a misogynist, male dominated workplace.”
@standamidtheroar apple is trash