isa ୨୧

[cutebmi]

todo mês você fala que vai mudar. então, me diga, quantos quilos você perdeu desde janeiro? já estamos a menos de dois meses do Natal, será que você vai mostrar alguma mudança visível, ou vai estar a mesma gordinha comilona de sempre?

[yuniqlo]

dolce dollie ノ ♡

[angelicbarbiedoll]

How to live your Dream Life

Start acknowledging your power. You’re the only person who has the power to change your life. The 3D isn’t what’s defining you, it’s just a reflection of your 4D. You’re so powerful, you can change your reality in seconds. You’re the only Creator, everything must conform to your thoughts. You manifest absolutely everything!!!You don’t need a plan B, you will have everything you want my love.

𝐴𝑙𝑤𝑎𝑦𝑠 𝑟𝑒𝑚𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟 ：

imagination creates reality

focus on the 4D & know it’s yours

you’re the only Creator

you can have absolutely EVERYTHING, there are no limits whatsoever

you control absolutely EVERYTHING in your reality

you deserve to live your dream life

PERSIST, everything is going to be alright

𝐴𝑓𝑓𝑖𝑟𝑚𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑠 ：

I know that I am the only creator of my reality

I know that everything will be alright

I am absolutely limitless

I always get what I want

Everything always works out in my favour

Everything & Everyone must confirm to my desires

Everything I desire manifests instantly

I manifest way faster than the void.

My life is always perfect, fun & easy

[chicspo-deactivated20250716]

my beauty/skincare favorites for spring ♡

eau rose perfume by diptyque

SOS serum by caudlie

organic aloe vera gel

rose quartz face roller

dior nail polish in the shade 853 massaï

skin nails & hair vitamins by solgar

l'occitane shea butter hand cream

weleda skin food cream

scented rose lotion by roger gallet

[cinefairy]

𝐈 𝐀𝐌 *𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓* 𝐆𝐈𝐑𝐋

i am a one of a kind girl, no one compares to me in the slightest, i am literal perfection and everything i do, i do flawlessly. i always strive for the best in my academics and in my hobbies. i accomplish the goals that people deem “unrealistic”, nothing is unrealistic to me. i can DO anything i set my mind too. i am so happy that i can genuinely look at myself in the mirror and feel confident and blessed to be me and no one can ever take that feeling away from me

[isa0kcal]

INVEST IN UR LOOKS, get the facial, buy these shoes, the jewelry, get ur hair & nails done. you look better, you feel better, you do better, people treat u better, life is better

[isa0kcal]

I need more friends who are into wellness

like friends I can go to morning pilates lessons with, try new smoothie places, criticize seed oils tog, go prebiotics and vitamins shopping at the pharmacy, spa days and health resorts, long hikes, talk about about nutrition philosophy

[cinefairy]

LAW OF ASSUMPTION : THE WHOLE RUN-DOWN

this is gonna be a long-ish ass post, so grab a snack, here is the whole rundown of law of assumption. im gonna be telling you how to manifest, quotes, success stories and limiting beliefs + how to get rid of them and more. ive made a similar post but since then ive gotten new followers and more people have joined the community.

⋆ ☾ : what is law of assumption?

law of assumption in simple definition is: WHATEVER YOU ASSUME, YOU WILL HAVE IN YOUR REALITY. for example if you were assuming into your reality that you own a million dollar house, BY LAW that million dollar house is yours! you will have it in your reality in no-time.

ALL ASSUMPTIONS HARDEN TO A FACT

⋆ ☾ : if it’s that easy then why do people fail?

first of all you cannot “fail” in law of assumption, there is never failure in law of assumption. the law cannot fail you. people simply don’t get their desires for many reasons which i will go through.

1. THEY ARE IN THE “WAITING” ZONE.

this is a common mistake and i see it all the time, you are NOT WAITING FOR YOUR DESIRES, your desires are yours. once you assume creation is finished and your desire is yours, thats it. its done. start maintaining the state of wish fulfilled.

state of wish fulfilled isn’t being happy or excitement its the fulfilment and acceptance that your manifestation is yours, its a natural feeling.

2. THEY GO BACK TO THE OLD STORY

“your assumption to be effective, cannot be a single isolated act, it must be a maintained attitude of wish fulfilled” — Neville Goddard

you cannot serve two masters at once, to successfully manifest you must kill the old beliefs you’ve had, you must get rid of the limiting beliefs you’ve entertained. for example if you’re manifesting a new desired appearance you can’t keep persisting in the assumption that you’re ugly and start tearing yourself apart, you must persist in the assumption that you HAVE your desired appearance.

3. THEY LET EXTERNAL FACTORS DICTATE THEIR MANIFESTATION

if right now you’re currently seeing things that you’re unhappy with DARE TO ASSUME THE BEST LIFE YOU WANT. any circumstance you are in you can get it out of the way, time is not an obstacle. nothing is when you’re a god, assume big and beautiful because there is nothing you cant have.

i understand majority of us are in undesirable circumstances so i do have a post if you’re struggling here

4. THEY ASSUME THEY HAVE TO DO A LOT OF THINGS TO GET WHAT THEY WANT

THIS IS WRONG! you do not have to lift a finger to get what you want, you can stay in the comfort of your bed and home to get your dream life, the only thing you have to do is get out of the comfort zone of a victim mindset. methods, yes they’re helpful but are they necessary? no. you do not have to do the void, SATs, scripting, 5x55 or 3x33 or lullaby method to get what you want. you just need yourself and your mind.

5. THEY HAVE A FEAR OF FAILURE

as i mentioned before, you cannot fail. so GO ALL IN, start taking that leap of faith, nothing bad will happen, start believing in yourself and start having faith within yourself because trust me YOU CAN. you can do it.

majority of people have this longing fear that they’re wasting their time but it WILL WORK and its NOT A WASTE OF TIME. the biggest risk is sitting there idly by not doing anything and staying in the same position when know all this power you have!

6. LACK OF SELF CONCEPT

self concept is something everyone will benefit from no matter what, take it from me. when i focused on my self concept i got better treatment from other people, people treated me with respect, i treated myself with respect, toxicity out of my life, fortune and luck everywhere i go.

our concept of ourselves revolves around our manifestations; if you always thought of yourselves as ugly, a loser, stupid you don’t have that self respect for yourself and you dont feel worthy enough. look at rihanna, rihanna treats herself highly and so does everyone else around her. why? because she has a high concept of herself SHE KNOWS she deserves to be treated with the upmost respect and she reflects that.

⋆ ☾ : so it’s really that easy?

YES! it really is that easy, a lot of people don’t think its easy because of the way they VIEW it. some people view law of assumption as a job or a chore when it really isnt. we assume everyday without even realising it, when we see food that looks gross to us we assume that it most-likely tastes like absolute garbage and because we assumed so..IT IS!

that girl in your school who you think is a snobby little privileged bully? if you changed their assumption on them and replaced it with new beliefs and maintained those new beliefs they would change.

⋆ ☾ : limiting beliefs and how to overcome them

limiting beliefs are normal and is completely common to have but its what we do with our limiting beliefs and how to overcome them so we can do so truly fo so much with our potential that we have.

common limiting beliefs

1. manifesting physical appearances take longer

that couldn’t be any further from the truth, manifesting physical appearances can happen instantly like any single manifestation out there however “unrealistic” it may sound.

2. it takes takes weeks to reprogram your subconscious mind

who made this UP?? it really does depend on yourself, reprogramming your subconscious isnt a MUST, you just have to change beliefs, do not force yourself. again, it can take instantly.

3. you need to affirm for a long period of time

no, you absolutely dont. you can affirm for a second you can affirm for a couple of minutes do not go overboard and create these limiting beliefs yourself. stop putting limitations on your true powers, your subconscious is your higher god self and it absorbs everything.

4. “Impressing the subconscious mind”

DO NOT EVER THINK FOR ONE SECOND YOU HAVE TO “IMPRESS” YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND. your subconscious is yourself, why are you impressing yourself. your subconscious is not something out of you it is within you. you do not have to impress a thing- and a lot of people say you have to with even increases the limiting belief that you have to say tons of affirmations for the desire to “fully sink in and manifest”. that’s completely wrong.

and can i just say, you have the full responsibility of the life you choose to make. nobody else you do not have to follow the life other people have set up for you, go your own way. and also, there is no one higher above dictating whether you get your desires or not. YOU dictate and decide your desires, nobody else.

⋆ ☾ : how to manifest

in the most simplest way i am going to tell you how to exactly manifest, this time with no methods with not even lifting a finger how to manifest anything you want in life.

ASSUME WHAT YOU WANT TO BE

want that car? assume it. want to be a celebrity? assume it. want to date a celebrity? assume it. want to have your dream desired appearance? assume it is DONE. thats it, thats actually it.

If you assume your desire and live there as though it were true, no power on earth can stop it from becoming a fact — Neville GODDARD.

Change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live. — Neville GODDARD

Your opinion on yourself is your most important viewpoint, you are infinitely greater than you think you are — Neville GODDARD

now i want you to imagine your dream self, how do they look? how do they dress? how do they talk? how do they smell? are they smart? poise? beautiful? how do people react when they see your dream person walk into a room? now. that dream person you just imagined, is YOU. its not a dream. stop thinking that something you want is a far distant imagination that you will never reach, its not. its anything but.

have the same thoughts as you would if all assumptions were true. for example, if i was manifesting becoming an oscar-winning actress who works with best actors and actresses in the business i would be having thoughts such as…

“I am the best winning actress ever”

“I never fail at acting, I always bring my A game”

“i always work with the best people on earth, and i am so grateful for that”

“I really am that BITCH.”

see? i would embody mentally the person i want to become, and assume in it’s fullest.

this is also what you call LIVING IN THE END, living in the end is what you call THINKING FROM and not THINKING OF. you are thinking from the perspective of your manifestation already being materialised.

a motivation letter from me. . . ♡

trust me when i say you can do it, you can manifest having whatever you want in life and let nobody tell you any different. thats all their silly limiting beliefs that they’re telling you, you don’t have to believe them. start believing in the imagination. start trusting yourself because you are the operant power who holds everything together. you’re amazing, smart, beautiful in your own unique way, you’re YOU. you are so unique and you’re made up of all these beautiful thoughts and you’ll soon use those thoughts to manifest everything you could ever wish for you. now, if it ever gets too tough for you. thats okay :) no need to panic or feel any threat. you can get through it. how many situations have you been in that you felt it was the end of the world? and look at you you’re still here thriving. one day you’re gonna finally be able to wake up and realise the world you’ve created around you and say “i’ve made it”

success stories here

• apartment manifestation

• penthouse manifestation

• desired face manifestation

• self concept manifestation

• multiple success stories here

• desired chin manifestation

• iphone 11 manifestation

[cinefairy]

ANYTHING I WANT I CAN HAVE ࣪˖ 𖥧 ִֶָ

[chicspo-deactivated20250716]

how to glow up ♡

some tips on glowing up because if no ones got u just know i got u! always!!! xo

mental glow up

be yourself: im serious!! im not being corny or cringey shutup. if ur currently trying to fit in or be like the people around u, STAWP. u will never be them. theres nothing u can do to be like them. just like they will never be u, and thats ur power girl! figure out who YOU are and be the best version of YOURSELF. be confident in the fact that no one will ever amount to you! bible!!!

ignore jealous btches: they're irrelevant babe! if anyone talks shit abt u, whether its to ur face or not, they're just insecure. people who spend their time talking abt someone else are fans! they're so obsessed with u. other's opinions doesn't matter bc it's subjective, they project their own insecurities onto you. they see whats worst in them on you, but it has nothing to do with you gf!!

stand out: do ur thing, wear whatever you want, do whatever u like!! and who cares if people stare or talk about u, they all look the same. they wish they were as confident in themselves as you are babe! don't live for others, do ur thing and do it for YOU.

physical glow up

start fresh: take a shower or a relaxing bath! let go of anything thats been annoying u or overwhelming u lately. put on fresh new clothes (or comfy pjs if its late xo), put on some perfume, do ur skincare, etc. this will help with setting a new start, as if u were now a blank canvas

brush ur hair: do it! i have naturally curly hair and i used to only comb it in the shower, but now i brush my dry hair more often and its way better. if u take care of it i promise it wont even look frizzy, it will help keep it looking soft and clean!

accessorize: it doesn't matter if ur all dolled up or just wearing sweats, accessories make everything better!!! i prefer golden jewelry over silver most of the time, it makes me feel so chic and put together. put on some rings, some bracelets, necklaces.. make it cute!

finding ur own style: this ties into what i said before about being yourself. figure out what ur personal style is! don't put urself into a box or an already existing "aesthetic", that's tacky and it limits ur possibilities. just do whatever u want! maybe one day ur feeling more like wearing dresses and the next u wana wear sweats, and thats normal and cool asf! u should wear what makes u feel good, confident, and comfortable

thats all the advice i have for now! hope it helped♡ and as always u can tell me if u have any other blog post suggestions, love u xo

[chicspo-deactivated20250716]

ultimate 2022 guide ♡

1. mindset #sigma grindset

stop comparing urself and stop being jealous. jealousy is a disease and its embarrassing. instead of envying something, admire it. be confident in urself and in the fact that u can always better urself if u want to. u glow from the inside out so make sure that u love urself first and foremost.

2. touch some grass

the internet isnt real. social media isnt real. don't take things so seriously. start arguments with strangers on ur tl and laugh about it. post whatever u want and don't look at likes. and stop doing weird shit just to get other's attention its really tacky.

3. routines and habits

if there are any goals u want to accomplish u should do it by making new habits. things cone easier if it looks like they come naturally. instead of forcing change and hurting urself, take small steps and create a new routine with new realistic habits that u know will get u closer to your goal.

4. be exclusive

ur one of a kind, believe it. don't sell urself short. don't go out with anyone, don't date anyone, and don't go to every party. if ur everywhere and with everyone what image does that give of u? if u want to be treated like a limited edition museum piece then u should start acting like it too. practice saying no.

5. be urself and live life

i can't believe i have to keep saying this, but stop it with the aesthetics discourse. u don't need an aesthetic theyre not real. trends are tacky and they move fast. u can like many things and u can wear many styles. whatever resonates with u resonates. cool girls do whatever they want, not what a random freak wearing eyeliner and gogo boots told them on tiktok.

6. be real

stop being fake and pretending. speak ur truth. who cares if some people disagree with what u have to say. im tired of everyone turning into social justice warriors online. turn off ur phone and go read a book if u cant bear other peoples opinions. have different opinions and argue about them, don't just comply to what other people say that's so not it. be real girl !!!

7. take care of yourself

ur the most important person in ur life. take care of urself and love urself the most. putting urself down with negative thoughts does nothing but hurt you. u should be ur own bestfriend. take days off, take long showers, go on shopping sprees, watch ur comfort movies, do ur hair.. treat urself like a delicate little doll who needs lots of love and caring, because u do, and u deserve it <3 love u mwah

[shelbys-advice-blog]

I want to live by myself when I move out of my parent's place but I'm really afraid of money problems? I'm afraid that the only place I can afford will be in the ghetto and it'll all be torn apart and I'll only be allowed to eat one granola bar a week. I'm really stressing out about this. I don't know anything about after school life. I don't know anything about paying bills or how to buy an apartment and it's really scaring me. is there anything you know that can help me?

HI darling,

I’ve actually got a super wonderful masterpost for you to check out:

Home

what the hell is a mortgage?

first apartment essentials checklist

how to care for cacti and succulents

the care and keeping of plants

Getting an apartment

Money

earn rewards by taking polls

how to coupon

what to do when you can’t pay your bills

see if you’re paying too much for your cell phone bill

how to save money

How to Balance a Check Book

How to do Your Own Taxes

Health

how to take care of yourself when you’re sick

things to bring to a doctor’s appointment

how to get free therapy

what to expect from your first gynecologist appointment

how to make a doctor’s appointment

how to pick a health insurance plan

how to avoid a hangover

a list of stress relievers

how to remove a splinter

Emergency

what to do if you get pulled over by a cop

a list of hotlines in a crisis

things to keep in your car in case of an emergency

how to do the heimlich maneuver

Job

time management

create a resume

find the right career

how to pick a major

how to avoid a hangover

how to interview for a job

how to stop procrastinating

How to write cover letters

Travel

ULTIMATE PACKING LIST

Traveling for Cheap

Travel Accessories

The Best Way to Pack a Suitcase

How To Read A Map

How to Apply For A Passport

How to Make A Travel Budget

Better You

read the news

leave your childhood traumas behind

how to quit smoking

how to knit

how to stop biting your nails

how to stop procrastinating

how to stop skipping breakfast

how to stop micromanaging

how to stop avoiding asking for help

how to stop swearing constantly

how to stop being a pushover

learn another language

how to improve your self-esteem

how to sew

learn how to embroider

how to love yourself

100 tips for life

Apartments/Houses/Moving

Moving Out and Getting an Apartment, Part 1: Are You Sure? (The Responsible One)

Moving Out and Getting an Apartment, Part 2: Finding the Damn Apartment (The Responsible One)

Moving Out and Getting an Apartment, Part 3: Questions to Ask about the Damn Apartment (The Responsible One)

Moving Out and Getting an Apartment, Part 4: Packing and Moving All of Your Shit (The Responsible One)

How to Protect Your Home Against Break-Ins (The Responsible One)

Education

How to Find a Fucking College (The Sudden Adult)

How to Find Some Fucking Money for College (The Sudden Adult)

What to Do When You Can’t Afford Your #1 Post-Secondary School (The Sudden Adult)

Stop Shitting on Community College Kids (Why Community College is Fucking Awesome) (The Responsible One)

How to Ask for a Recommendation Letter (The Responsible One)

How to Choose a College Major (The Sudden Adult)

Finances

How to Write a Goddamn Check (The Responsible One)

How to Convince Credit Companies You’re Not a Worthless Bag of Shit (The Responsible One)

Debit vs Credit (The Responsible One)

What to Do if Your Wallet is Stolen/Lost (The Sudden Adult)

Budgeting 101 (The Responsible One)

Important Tax Links to Know (The Responsible One)

How to Choose a Bank Without Screwing Yourself (The Responsible One)

Job Hunting

How to Write a Resume Like a Boss (The Responsible One)

How to Write a Cover Letter Someone Will Actually Read (The Responsible One)

How to Handle a Phone Interview without Fucking Up (The Responsible One)

10 Sites to Start Your Job Search (The Responsible One)

Life Skills

Staying in Touch with Friends/Family (The Sudden Adult)

Bar Etiquette (The Sudden Adult)

What to Do After a Car Accident (The Sudden Adult)

Grow Up and Buy Your Own Groceries (The Responsible One)

How to Survive Plane Trips (The Sudden Adult)

How to Make a List of Goals (The Responsible One)

How to Stop Whining and Make a Damn Appointment (The Responsible One)

Miscellaneous

What to Expect from the Hell that is Jury Duty (The Responsible One)

Relationships

Marriage: What the Fuck Does It Mean and How the Hell Do I Know When I’m Ready? (Guest post - The Northwest Adult)

How Fucked Are You for Moving In with Your Significant Other: An Interview with an Actual Real-Life Couple Living Together™ (mintypineapple  and catastrofries)

Travel & Vehicles

How to Winterize Your Piece of Shit Vehicle (The Responsible One)

How to Make Public Transportation Your Bitch (The Responsible One)

Other Blog Features

Apps for Asshats

Harsh Truths & Bitter Reminders

Asks I’ll Probably Need to Refer People to Later

Apartments (or Life Skills) - How Not to Live in Filth (The Sudden Adult)

Finances - Tax Basics (The Responsible One)

Important Documents - How to Get a Copy of Your Birth Certificate (The Responsible One)

Important Documents - How to Get a Replacement ID (The Responsible One)

Health - How to Deal with a Chemical Burn (The Responsible One)

Job Hunting - List of Jobs Based on Social Interaction Levels (The Sudden Adult)

Job Hunting - How to Avoid Falling into a Pit of Despair While Job Hunting (The Responsible One)

Job Hunting - Questions to Ask in an Interview (The Responsible One)

Life Skills - First-Time Flying Tips (The Sudden Adult)

Life Skills - How to Ask a Good Question (The Responsible One)

Life Skills - Reasons to Take a Foreign Language (The Responsible One)

Life Skills - Opening a Bar Tab (The Sudden Adult)

Relationships - Long Distance Relationships: How to Stay in Contact (The Responsible One)

Adult Cheat Sheet:

what to do if your pet gets lost

removing stains from your carpet

how to know if you’re eligible for food stamps

throwing a dinner party

i’m pregnant, now what?

first aid tools to keep in your house

how to keep a clean kitchen

learning how to become independent from your parents

job interview tips

opening your first bank account

what to do if you lose your wallet

tips for cheap furniture

easy ways to cut your spending

selecting the right tires for your car

taking out your first loan

picking out the right credit card

how to get out of parking tickets

how to fix a leaky faucet

get all of your news in one place

getting rid of mice & rats in your house

when to go to the e.r.

buying your first home

how to buy your first stocks

guide to brewing coffee

first apartment essentials checklist

coping with a job you hate

30 books to read before you’re 30

what’s the deal with retirement?

difference between insurances

Once you’ve looked over all those cool links, I have some general advice for you on how you can have some sort of support system going for you:

Reasons to move out of home

You may decide to leave home for many different reasons, including:

wishing to live independently

location difficulties – for example, the need to move closer to university

conflict with your parents

being asked to leave by your parents.

Issues to consider when moving out of home

It’s common to be a little unsure when you make a decision like leaving home. You may choose to move, but find that you face problems you didn’t anticipate, such as:

Unreadiness – you may find you are not quite ready to handle all the responsibilities.

Money worries – bills including rent, utilities like gas and electricity and the cost of groceries may catch you by surprise, especially if you are used to your parents providing for everything. Debt may become an issue.

Flatmate problems – issues such as paying bills on time, sharing housework equally, friends who never pay board, but stay anyway, and lifestyle incompatibilities (such as a non-drug-user flatting with a drug user) may result in hostilities and arguments.

Your parents may be worried

Think about how your parents may be feeling and talk with them if they are worried about you. Most parents want their children to be happy and independent, but they might be concerned about a lot of different things. For example:

They may worry that you are not ready.

They may be sad because they will miss you.

They may think you shouldn’t leave home until you are married or have bought a house.

They may be concerned about the people you have chosen to live with.

Reassure your parents that you will keep in touch and visit regularly. Try to leave on a positive note. Hopefully, they are happy about your plans and support your decision.

Tips for a successful move

Tips include:

Don’t make a rash decision – consider the situation carefully. Are you ready to live independently? Do you make enough money to support yourself? Are you moving out for the right reasons?

Draw up a realistic budget – don’t forget to include ‘hidden’ expenses such as the property’s security deposit or bond (usually four weeks’ rent), connection fees for utilities, and home and contents insurance.

Communicate – avoid misunderstandings, hostilities and arguments by talking openly and respectfully about your concerns with flatmates and parents. Make sure you’re open to their point of view too – getting along is a two-way street.

Keep in touch – talk to your parents about regular home visits: for example, having Sunday night dinner together every week.

Work out acceptable behaviour – if your parents don’t like your flatmate(s), find out why. It is usually the behaviour rather than the person that causes offence (for example, swearing or smoking). Out of respect for your parents, ask your flatmate(s) to be on their best behaviour when your parents visit and do the same for them.

Ask for help – if things are becoming difficult, don’t be too proud to ask your parents for help. They have a lot of life experience.

If your family home does not provide support

Not everyone who leaves home can return home or ask their parents for help in times of trouble. If you have been thrown out of home or left home to escape abuse or conflict, you may be too young or unprepared to cope.

If you are a fostered child, you will have to leave the state-care system when you turn 18, but you may not be ready to make the sudden transition to independence.

If you need support, help is available from a range of community and government organisations. Assistance includes emergency accommodation and food vouchers. If you can’t call your parents or foster parents, call one of the associations below for information, advice and assistance.

Where to get help

Your doctor

Kids Helpline Tel. [phone]

Lifeline Tel. 13 11 44

Home Ground Services Tel. [phone]

Relationships Australia Tel. [phone]

Centrelink Crisis or Special Help Tel. 13 28 50

Tenants Union of Victoria Tel. [phone]

Things to remember

Try to solve any problems before you leave home. Don’t leave because of a fight or other family difficulty if you can possibly avoid it.

Draw up a realistic budget that includes ‘hidden’ expenses, such as bond, connection fees for utilities, and home and contents insurance.

Remember that you can get help from a range of community and government organizations. 

(source)

Keep me updated? xx

[brihann-deactivated20220622]

Reblogging for myself

[bridgyrose]

reblogging for those that follow me that may be starting to move out

[daintyandpale]

Small satisfactions that my weight loss has given me in the past week: 🖤Even my face has changed. It is still round, it will always be, but it’s not chubby anymore. My dimples are more visible. I have an actual jawline and I can slightly see my cheekbones and a bit of contour. I’m also even paler than before, if possible, wich fits my aesthetic. 🖤I can feel my ribs and my hipbones. When I run an hand on my bones, I feel like I actually love my body. 🖤When I go shopping, employers look at me and say “you’re so tiny” with that little, satisfying envy. 🖤All the adults I know are all like “okay, you look much better now… but please stop. Don’t lose any more weight.” 🖤There’s this boy I like, well, he’s really really thin. And all of our friends make jokes about the fact that we’re the same size and that so maybe we should be together. 🖤My best friends always asks me if I ate, and it makes me feel important. 🖤My grandma has learnt to cook small portions for “Emma’s tiny stomach.” 🖤Last night I was out with one of my friends and she made A LOT of comments about how perfect my legs were. I remember that, two years ago, she was the small one, but now, when there was no place in the car, I was the one to sit on her lap. 🖤When I saw a girl from my class the other day, she asked me a billion questions about my weight loss, and she gave me that one particular concerned look as I just took a bite of cereal bread for lunch, while she was eathing a huge slice of chocolate cake. 🖤At a fete, a random boy patted my shoulder and told me I was cute and tried to hand me a card with his phone number. And he wasn’t making fun of me. When I said “no, thanks” with a little smile, he looked disappointed. 🖤I haven’t cried in the dressing rooms a single time. The only times I had to leave clothes I like, it was because they didn’t have sizes small enough. Because they didn’t carry an XS or because it was still a little loose. When there are one sizes, I still say “well this isn’t gonna fit”, but for the opposite reason. 🖤I was able to buy a bralette and other cute bras instead of having to get those contenitive cups for old women, the only ones who had C/D cups. 🖤Two days ago, I had an exam. When I found out I had passed it, I was with a friend of mine who always used to be the smaller one. I was really happy and I hugged her, and she lifted me effortlessly. I was pretty surprised by it. 🖤With certain types of tops, I can avoid wearing a bra, and my boobs don’t bounce uncomfortably, neither they look loose. The last time I wore a sundress without a bra, my friend didn’t even believe I wasn’t wearing one. 🖤I still don’t have a very defined thig gap (in the higher point of the thigh it is barely noticeable, just some millimeters) but I don’t have a chub rub either. Sometimes when I walk I have to stop because I think to myself “how the fuck am I walking? My thighs aren’t touching wtf, stop being clumsly and awkward” and then I remember. My thighs aren’t touching, because that’s what they do now. 🖤Even my teachers have commented my weight loss at the exam, and one of them joked that “studying had consumed me”

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using this for motivitation 

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reblogged it on the wrong acc fUCK

[lav-nd-r]

Soba and tofu stir-fry

kcal: 300

vegetarian/vegan

time: 20 minutes

Ingredients:

1 ounce (30g) soba noodles

½ teaspoon roasted or regular sesame oil

½ clove garlic, minced

¼ red bell pepper, chopped

3 ounces (90g) firm tofu, cubed

1 cup (130g) baby spinach leaves

1 teaspoon teriyaki sauce

1 teaspoon water

1 teaspoon fresh cilantro or basil

Directions:

Cook soba noodles, leave to drain

Heat sesame oil in a large skillet over medium heat

Add garlic to the skillet, cook and stir for 30 seconds. Add red bell pepper, cook and stir for 2 minutes. Add tofu, cook and stir for 1 minute. Add spinach, cilantro, teriyaki sauce and water, cook and stir until spinach is wilted

Add soba and mix in the skillet, until it’s heated through

Usually I tend to avoid meals over or equal to 300 calories, but this one is super filling, nutritious and most importantly tasty, so I’m really glad I decided to try it out 🌸

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