1. Never ever ever, force your little to do something they don't feel comfortable doing. It's ok to encourage a little to step out of their shell, but never force it. Littles, please make sure you are telling your caregiver the things you like, and don't like.
2. Make sure you are providing a atmosphere in which your little can trust. An age regressor trusts that the person in which they regress in front of, is going to care and protect said Little. Please make sure you are reciprocating that equal trust.
3. Have boundaries set. Some age regressors do not like to be touched/held, while they regress. This can be due to the fact that they have tr*uma linked to that physical affection. Treat your little as you would a baby. These delicate babies can not consent and they are just trying to cope.
4. Communication is key. Make sure both sides have fully communicated on what they expect from one another in a CGLRE (caregiver/little regressor) relationship. Make sure you both have a mutual understanding.
5. Try learning and understanding your Little's triggers. Some of these triggers could be, but not limited to; Baby talk, Cutesy names, Comfort Items, 'little' snacks and meals, 'little' shows, Strong Emotion, etc.
6. If your little is being, what you consider as, not 'good', DO NOT use, Taking away comfort items, Yelling, or Physical Punishment as a way of dealing with said behavior. This will only make your little sad and triggered.
7. Be patient with your little. Age regressors are gonna be pouty. They are most definitely going to be fussy, having trouble communicating. You need to take your time with them.
8. Things to make your little feel most comfort in their age regression would be to give them their comfort item, turn on their favorite cartoon, stuffies, playing with them, and loads more things!
9. Of course you can spoil your little one. If they did something, such as trying something new, or facing a fear, that definitely deserves a new stuffie.
10. The bottom line, age regressors are just trying to cope. They are inviting you into their most vulnerable place, trusting that you will guide them and help them.
