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call me momo. she/they! tma! I suggest things and have opinions!

[kkoffin]

people who post about their incest, rape and pedophilic fantasies publicly can fucking die and i really don’t care. even if we ignore the fact that public posts are not “thoughts”, “thought crimes” are about exploring ideology, science and theory, not talking about how you wanna rape ur little sister.

ur not profound for posting ur mother x daughter porn on tumblr and you aren’t making ideological breakthroughs, ur posting it bc it makes you hard and you wanted to spread the joy of getting hard at the thought of children being abused. and yeah personally i think if ur encouraging people being aroused at the idea of child abuse u can fucking die.

get off to something normaler that doesn’t involve torturing an unconsenting party. i believe in you. “the feminists are trying to tell us what we can and can’t jerk off to!!” first of all, i’m primarily only saying don’t spread it around publically, especially where children are present, like a mental STD. second of all, yeah i guess i don’t think you should jerk it to physical and psychological torment of children, guess that makes me Big Brother or something. idgaf.

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[harrypotterfuryroad]

that's a really fun way to say "graphic rape threats" but go off

[harrypotterfuryroad]

like if i saw someone running around spewing violent threats at random people, my first response would be somewhere closer to the realm of "you shouldn't talk like that" than to reflexive wagon-circling and olympic-level darvo but what do i know

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[gnomebutch]

I hate all these posts moralizing about how it’s not righteous to discuss hurting rapists because you can hypothetically target someone who was labeled a sex offender but didn’t do anything morally reprehensible when most of the time the people saying that are speaking from experience and are discussing their frustrations of wanting the people who personally abused them to die. and yeah sure you can also get into a debate about rehabilitation verses revenge based justice but that’s such a cruel thing to turn the discussion towards when someone said they wish they could have fought back against a pedophile who molested them. or maybe I’m just a sensitive violent freak who knowssss

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[a-list-uh]

FEELS LIKE IT GOES WITHOUT SAYING I DONT FUCKING WANT PROSHIPPERS ON MY ACCOUNT

YOU ARE ALL PEDOPHILES

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this goes for kink pages in general too. I don't care about your kinks as long as its not fetishizing incest, pedophilia or zoophilia I just dont want that on my profile

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[daciancatamite]

actually hm. say what u will abt rape fantasies/cnc or incest kink or whatever but it is extremely telling when ppl act like those fantasies n kinks r like. extremely fringe deviances of nameless internet perverts n not fantasies n practices that extremely large portions of the population indulge in.

[daciancatamite]

rape fantasies r one of if not the most common sexual fantasy. which not only studies tell u but is evident the second u examine any trends in popular erotica, yes, even or dare i say esp in erotica made by women for women or by gay men for gay men.

the sooner u realize that "problematic kinks" r not something restricted to Dangerous Internet Perverts (who more often than not "just happen to b" lgbt, esp trans women!) but rather smth many of ur loved ones likely regularly engage in n the reason u dont hear abt it is bc YOU make them uncomfortable sharing it w u, the better

[daciancatamite]

ppl seriously act like if a cis woman has rape fantasies shes a helpless victim brainwashed by the patriarchy but if a trans woman has rape fantasies shes a dangerous sex pest who needs to b publicly shamed n ostracized. isnt that telling.

[daciancatamite]

a misogynistic society is so threatened by the concept of trans women - women that "had the opportunity" to be privileged men and chose not to - that they start making up privileges women have in order to explain why trans women exist. going into womens restrooms isnt a privilege, playing womens sports isnt a privilege, lesbianism isnt a privilege, yet they present them as such to try and explain why trans women are women for nefarious reasons. a misogynistic society will never understand that trans women have no ulterior motive for being women

[daciancatamite]

actually i think that even the worst most horrendous fetish the sick human mind can come up w thats practiced within fiction or safely n consensually irl is, in fact, more moral than 99% of true crime content

[daciancatamite]

ok last thing ill say on the subject but the thing is. society is structured so enacting n getting away w abuse is incredibly easy. ppl who want to abuse ppl can abuse ppl, they dont have to find a way around it. ppl who want to rape children dont have to consensually play pretend w an adult partner, they can position themselves as a person of authority within a child's life - parent, teacher, mentor, religious leader, etc. - and abuse them. ppl who want to sexually abuse dont need consent, they dont need a prenegotiated set of rules, they dont need aftercare, they dont need fantasy, they can do the real thing, and get away with it too. the difference between sexual abuse and violent fantasies or consensual play is that one is sexual abuse and the others are not. and thus, they are incomparable

[daciancatamite]

this also applies to other forms of violence. there are, unfortunately, countless people it is possible to enact incredible violence against and suffer very little societal consequences. people who want to beat others and even kill dont need to construct fictional settings, they dont need to roleplay in the chats with friends, they dont need to spend countless hours making entirely fictional art. they can join the police, they can join the army, they can regularly beat their partner and their kids - they dont need fiction. a person writing whump on ao3 or doing a villain run in a video game that doesnt do any of that is not the threat to society.

[daciancatamite]

like idk how to say this in a way u all wld understand but the person writing torture porn is incomparable to the person who is actually torturing ppl irl. its not above criticism, but its FAR from the concrete harm caused by the ppl.... actually doing that shit to real ppl

[ru1n3r]

i was thinking about apologising a little for being such a man hater recently but no im not fucking sorry you all deserve the worst you are all fucking scum you treat women and girls like absolute shit all the time im sick of dealing with it im sick of it hanging over my head im fucking sick of you all im sick of being harrassed every day of my life im sick of only being seen as a sex object im sick of being terrified of what clothes im wearing incase it gets me harrassed or raped or killed im sick of watching what i say around men incase they decide to rape or harrass or try to fuck me or abuse me over it im sick of being scared of what kind of harm will come my way just by having a female body im sick of my sex dictating everything that happens to me in life im sick of pedophiles being a common occurance to me in my life that i have to deal with over something i had no control over im sick of being abused and neglected im sick of men dictating what happens to women’s bodies im sick of my body being the only thing any man ever wants from me im sick of every man wanting to fuck me anytime im even slightly nice to them im sick of men judging me no matter what i wear if my clothes are too revealing then im a slut and tell me to cover up but also they want me to wear revealing clothes coz they wanna fuck me but i cant be alternative or goth cuz thats weird but also theyll fetishize me because of it and i cant cover up too much because then im not hot anymore im sick of being scared to outside im sick of hearing the most horrific true things that men to do women ALL THE TIME im so so so fucking sick of men being absolute monsters every chance they get im sick of men’s behaviour being so normalised and praised no matter what i do or dont do a man is always gonna hate me for it or get mad or upset at me or wanna fuck me or harrass me or wanna rape or hurt me or abuse or neglect or overpower me or make it all about them or SOMETHING. IM SICK OF IT ALL FUCK YOU FUCKING DIE DIE DIE FUCK YOU FUCKING DIE

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[ru1n3r]

i love (hate) how misogyny is literally the worst things imaginable; men abuse, beat, rape, kill women, obstruct women's education and career, exploit women in every possible way, reduce them to something only used for sex, not see women as humans, hold their bodies hostage, steal their autonomy and not let them have a say in their body, force them to destroy their bodies/possibly die by forcing them to give birth to children they don't want, and just overall discriminate against women in every possible way. and misandry is literally just. hating men for their actions, talking about how shitty men are, trying to hold men accountable for their actions. and yet somehow every woman who hates men is labelled a terrible person and every misogynist (every man btw) is praised by society.

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[biohazardmoth]

it is true. and the coding sits so deep because i experience it and i can't differentiate between what is me and what has been forced onto me. so much sexuality is at its essence just rape. how do i know what's me, what's demanded and required of me, what was planted in my brain by pedophiles when i was young, and so on so forth? it's all just evil, and humanity is disgusting because it is built on rape and pedophilia. stating it should be the minimum, but people don't wanna talk about it. since that's the first step of change (maybe there is a way to fix the human condition? maybe that's worth research?), they don't want to take it because most people in this world wants rape and pedophilia to remain normal because they love it.

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[ru1n3r]

if you as a man enjoy seeing girls tied up, bruised, beaten & raped, that is not kink you are a horrible person i dont care if it’s just fantasies you are a horrible person i’m so sick of people letting them men off on this behaviour because “it’s just a kink” “no kink shaming” no it is completely rooted in misogyny and hurting women and even if that man isnt acting on it, statics show that he will and that kind of thinking and fantasising seeps into every single interaction you have with a woman

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[stroebe2]

there's an identified rape threats bot farm on here ran by an account who's a discourse warrior and posts sonic the hedgehog fan art

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[coolasice1991]

Okay I really am hating to sound like a broken record, but can we check the blogs before we click "reblog" sometimes?

A person on here may have a valid, neutral point, but it's really hard to assume that's what's happening when the person is talking in vague terms, and making it broadly about "how DARE you ever assume accusations are real! You just hate [insert White LGBT+ group here, though they'll usually use trans women]",

then I go to check their blog and this shit is in there

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[tboy-trash]

ahh so youre actually a rape apologist who thinks even cishet men should be free to rape whoever they want without consequence and has never heard of the concept of darvo. got it

me when i'm normal about rape survivors saying that the popular useless slogan of the decade, "kill all rapists", does absolutely nothing to protect anybody 👍

[mousidy]

the positioning of transfem hypervisibility and transmasc invisibility as two opposing forces is so insidious and dangerous because it reinforces the status quo where trans men's voices are already valued over trans women's

trans women can never speak because we're already apparently soaking up all the attention... nevermind that the "attention" is fearmongering government propaganda

trans women can take up no space, because any amount of attention is further proof that we hog the spotlight from trans men. our visibility is thought of as coming at the cost of that of trans men. so if a trans man speaks over us or silences us, he's just seen as balancing the scales. but our visibility and theirs are not actually opposing forces. a decrease in visibility for trans women is not an increase for trans men. it's just a decrease