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@its-forcemasc-time
"Girls" can be ANYTHING! For example:
Bad girls will become BOYS!
Bratty girls will become BOYS!
Good girls will become BOYS!
Innocent girls will become BOYS!
Neutral and Passive girls will become BOYS!
Uncaring and Ignorant girls will become BOYS!
Sad and Hopeless girls will become BOYS!
We have 4 days left to raise the remaining funds needed to produce Warped (a trans horror and sci-fi anthology), otherwise we cannot create it. There is no compromising on paying writers, so if we can't get pre-orders to cover the £8041 we have left to hit our funding target then this project will be stopped before it starts. Gore, smut, and sex worker lunar colonists.
A trans+ horror and sci-fi fiction anthology.
Whether you can afford to pledge for a physical copy, and e-book, or don't have the money but help with a share, your support is appreciated!
when thinking about how oppression works, on a structural level, my guiding principle is that I must spend at least as much time looking down as I do looking up.
what do I mean by this? here's an example. when my surgery is delayed multiple times, I spend a little time looking up (there is only one surgeon in the entire area who will perform this surgery on trans people, so every trans person's surgical timeline is bottle-necked and delayed by months every time he goes to a conference or takes a vacation or experiences an injury. in other words, if I was cis, I would not encounter this difficulty in accessing surgery). and then I spend time looking down (due to nonstop harassment and legal threats, this practice now only treats adults and will no longer perform surgeries on minors. in other words, my access to surgery is predicated on adult privilege I have at the direct expense of trans youth's lack of access).
if you do not build a habit around thinking in this way, you will become the person Audre Lorde describes as "so enamored of her own oppression that she cannot see her heelprint upon another woman's face." If we are seeking to dismantle structures of oppression, rather than to simply use and climb them, then we absolutely must make a practice of looking in both directions, especially when we feel like we're on the bottom.
"But can you feel it?" Post-phalloplasty sensation explained.
By @ kashcolegrove, Kai Asher Colegrove (he/him).
For anyone curious, Dr. Blair Peters at OHSU has done a lot of work on how to improve sensation post-op & they helped create this nerve rehab guide for people who have gotten phalloplasty!
It walks you through various stages throughout recovery which are meant to help your brain connect the sensation you experience to your new penis. The rehab protocol was created with input from trans patients to ensure it actually addresses trans needs, like dealing with dysphoria, and is meant to be used by people with all kinds of goals for their phallo. You can also check out the study they published on this protocol for more info!
Phalloplasty has already improved so much since it first started to be performed, and work is still being done every day to improve it further! If you want a penis, you can have a penis!!!
this is actually so informative and genuine i love it
Thinking about uhhhhh like a fantasy village where the king’s army came through and dragged all the men off to war. When the war is over none of the men return, and someone needs to keep the village’s population up so that it doesn’t die off. So the elders go through the list of people in the village and pick a good candidate- one who isn’t inept, yes, but isn’t so skilled that their loss would have a negative impact.
People start bringing drinks by when the “girl” is working in the fields, tilling and then planting and then weeding and then harvesting, and the sacrifice doesn’t notice the changes, really, just that they don’t get tired as often, seem to be aroused more, perhaps more easily distracted. Eventually, though, it’s hard for them to miss, so they seek out the hedge witch in town to ask for help, assuming they were cursed in some way. Of course she agrees to help the sacrifice, potions and some spells and while he’s so soft and suggestible she plants the idea that this is a curse coming undone.
He was always a man.
And men have a duty, don’t they? The village needs to be able to grow, and since he’s been getting sloppier and sloppier with his work in the fields it only makes sense for him to focus on his duty as the man of the village, making up for the people stolen away by the king’s army. It’s what he’s best suited for, after all. :)
looking at any kind of trans supplies focused online shop is depressing because there will either be a complete absence of anything for transfems or like. a really sad transfem section with 5 items at the end of a list full of binders and packers and harnesses
on a queer sex positive online store. depressing
"nonbinary bodies" HMMMMMMM
My transfeminine body can be as nonbinary as any transmasc I'll fight any motherfucker who says different
thebreastformstore.com For breastforms + care, shapewear, wigs, shoes and jewlery
enfemmestyle.com For clothing, breastforms + care, shapewear, tucking and wigs
translife.uk For clothing, cosmetics, breastforms and tucking.
I get the frustration, but ultimately if you want stores that do sell things specifically for trans feminine people, searching for them and sharing them is the way to go.
If you are looking for lingerie style bras for a flat chest, those are marketed towards cis woman, who had cancer related breast reduction surgery.
And I get that it is frustrating that a lot of these thing are also marketed towards crossdressers, but the reason for this is the same as to why a lot of binders are marketed as "sports bras": sellers put every (vaguely) related term into their website in the hopes of selling to more people. Which obviously isn't great either, but at least I can better tolerate it, knowing it is marketing bullshit and not misgendering me for the sake of it.
Been a long time since I did the legwork of finding places but here's all my bookmarked lingerie brands that make lingerie for transfems and have transfem models.
Carmen Liu Lingerie - trans woman owned lingerie company that makes bras and panties specifically for transfems, also has plain cotton kids' underwear.
Juniper & Eve - cis woman owned from what I can tell but her starting point with the company was "make lingerie for a trans woman friend" and underwear types are sorted by style (flat front, gaff, or pouch front) rather than by gender.
Origami Customs - I kind of think of OC as more transmasc-focused but since I last checked their site they've added the option to select gusset width on non-gaff undies which I'm pleasantly surprised by. They also do custom sizing at no extra cost.
TomboyX also does breastform bras and tucking panties now but idk anyone who wears them so I can't comment on that specirfically. Just buying their underwear over the years I feel that the quality has dropped off while the prices have doubled. I get stuff on sale only. YMMV.
The only super specifically transfem
I wanted to add on my small local store, the Tool Shed. They carry breast forms, compatible bras, gaff underwear, shapewear, some accessories like adhesive tape and wash, and dilators and lube. They also have a TONNN of books for sale (I checked and the "books and media" section for trans and intersex topics has 279 items)!
The above link is for their trans focused site, but they also have a larger collection here that includes all their trans products along with regular sex toys (and even MORE books.)
while these are strong resources, the majority of these links have yet to offer transfem specific sex toys which is what the original post is about. i know transmasc specific sex toys exist mostly to accommodate tdicks (i checked the site and the majority of what is listed for transmascs are strokers, pumps, and packers). i am having trouble finding transfem specific sex toys listed myself. however i found the following resources:
allure's 23 amazing sex toys for transfems: offers toy options to alleviate bottom dysphoria, help maintain erections, and for those who are post op (dilators, lube, clit toys). also recommends some books.
the trans woman's guide to sex toys: written by a trans woman, specifically offers guidance and recommendations for transfems who are post op.
cute little fuckers: makes no mention of transmasc vs transfem specific toys but is designed by and for trans people. the toys come in unique shapes and sizes so they can be used creatively by anyone with any genitalia, definitely had trans genitalia in mind of course.
susan's place transgender resources: this is just a forum where somebody is asking for recommendations for their trans girlfriend with bottom dysphoria. lots of good recommendations from other transfems here, but also this post is from 2014 so some information may be outdated
cashmere mag: more sex toy recommendations for transfems.
sex toys for micropenises and "neo"vaginas: sex toys designed for those with small/"micro" penises (trans men on t with enlarged clits, trans women on e with smaller penises), and for trans women with vaginoplasty (toys that accommodate lack of natural lubricants and the need to dilate, essentially).
after a lot of digging it looks like there aren't a lot of sex toys out there designed specifically for transfems in mind :(( which really sucks because theres a lot of potential there. please add on if you find any!
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the thing is, stephen king is generally pretty good at creating complex, well-rounded characters, which makes it all the more jarring when one of those characters abruptly comes out with what i'll term a "kingism". i don't know how best to define a kingism other than "you'll know it when you see it". it's the voice of the author intruding on the voice of the character, and in this case the voice of the author has a bad sense of humour and is ravenously, inexplicably horny
random example of a kingism aka "he would not fucking say that"
this too is a kingism
one of the hallmarks of a kingism is that when a character is being Horny On Main (or In Maine), they can never do it in a normal way. they have to come up with a sequence of words that nobody has ever said before in the history of the english language. here's another example:
i'm starting a collection
Adding ROOTY TOOT TOOT to my bedroom talk repertoire
Uhhhh what if uh [spins wheel of horrible forcemasc concepts] pizza? Sausage. Sausage pizza gave you sausage??? It just boom! Penis time. [spins the wheel again] sauce? Ok so the sauce on the sausage pizza that gives you a sausage is testosterone. [spins the wheel a third time] and then uhhhh sloppy t4t makeouts with the evil pizza chef. Is this anything????
Forcemasc in the vein of my immortal where you start out with a well written preppy “girl” to a “goffic” boy anywaus fangs for reading my concept XD
“Girl” who gets frankensteined and comes back as a man. The resurectipn sure is getting rid of that dead name am i right fellas
Uhhhhh plant that in one of its life stages requires an animal host and does best in a testosterone rich environment so it lures people in with pheremones, infects them, and then pumps them full of testosterone
Princess trying to get out of an annoying arranged marriage grabbing one of her ladies in waiting and going 'you'll do' before grabbing them by the hair and chopping it off.
The lady tries to protest but the princess wont take no. Shes stripped of her dresses. Clothes thrown out as a new dashing masculine wardrobe is assembled. She forces new etiquette lessons on her. Crop in hand to smack her every time she gets it wrong. The princess takes your name and says everyone must call you by a new one. You're not allowed to leave her quarters without her.
She injects you with something once a week. She keeps calling you her prince. The clothes you're wearing are arguably nicer than the ones you had before. She keeps you manicured and perfect like a doll.
Her voice is calm and soothing as she assures you're doing good. It's strange. You feel an ache in between your thighs.
You keep noticing the princess. The other ladies in waiting. Were they always so tempting? She notices how you're sitting one day and forced you to strip again. She plays with you below and smirks. "Good boy." She uses that crop again on your rear this time you flush with pleasure.
It changes more after that. Every time she catches your gaze she whips you on the rear or between your legs. Every time you're good she hits you. Every time she calls you a boy. One day she says "good boy" and you get wet in anticipation and she laughs.
You've been doing extensive vocal training for months, you havent heard your old name since this started. When you try to interact with your old ladies in waiting they all blush and act strange. Like youre a man.
You've admittedly been avoiding the mirror. What if you like it?
She makes you stuff your undergarments so theres a buldge in your pants one day and for some reason it makes you shake. You keep squeezing it. You want it to he real. Its not fair.
The chest reps have made your breasts smaller. Almost flat. You look in the mirror. There's a handsome man in there and you arent sure how to take it. You're not...its not right, is it?
Your princess wraps her arms around you and bites your ear. "Good boy. My handsome prince." Her fingers trail under your coat grabbing at your body. "Soon you'll be introduced to the court and then you'll be my fiance. Isn't that exciting."
Your mouth is dry. "Yes, my princess." What sort of man could say no?
You know how dentists have the numbing shots. Anyways a partner who knows you have a biologic that fucking hurts to inject and decides to try and give you these “numbing” shots before they help you with the biologic. The shots don’t really seem to work, but they always seem to smile at you afterwards, say that they were so glad to help you with your medicine, and nothing bad seems to happen so you don’t say anything. Small minor changes seem to be happening, but thats just a side effect of the “numbing” shots that dont really seem to do anything but they dont hurt you so whats the big deal and your partner always looks so happy and has started saying that you look so handsome and maybe that isnt the word you would have used but its them and they love you so much and doesnt it feel good? To be handsome for them? To be good for them? To be a good boy for them? Doesn’t it?
You think your partner was definitely lying. You let them keep giving you the shots. You think you might like being their good boy. You think you might want to be their boyfriend.
Flu that forcemascs you is this anything something something fever as your muscles grow and body changes something something muscle aches
cinderella forcemasc where 'she' becomes the hottest man ever in the most dazzling bejeweled suit at the ball
perhaps instead of glass slippers its a packer & he drops his packer while fleeing
prince/ess has to go see whoever wears the bulge the best or something to find their prince lmao
i love this because theres a heavy implication that he saw his dick in detail before the end of the ball the easy answer is they had hot steamy sex instead i like to imagine the prince a real freak and was caught peeping on the cinderel (masc form of cinderella) in the john and he was kind enough to show the man and the prince decided to commit it to memory he replays the scene in his mind every time he closes his eyes and curses himself for not taking a taste
and as a true penis admirer the prince stricken with love (or more accurately lust needs to find the man that swang that thang with such confidence whose cock accentuated his pubic hair perfectly even though the ball is over and forcemasc fairy godmommys deal means his cock is no longer flesh but transparent silicone the prince knows its more than size or girth but how you use it and when he finds his "glass" penis wearer he will use the full resources of his position and his army of doctors to give his cinderel the cock ans the body of his dreams
