url inspo // seeking a new one
Ahem. Been a hot minute since I logged in here. I’ve had this url for a long time despite the fact that I kind of hate it now? But I love where it comes from. It’s a direct quote from Stefan and I think it speaks to who he is and what his deepest values are. He believes in choice, he believes in consent, and especially in relation to vampires, he likes to make sure people have their right to choice. One of my favorite things about him is how resistant he is to compulsion outside of when it’s necessary usually for the safety of the person he is compelling. He wants being human to be simply what it is; life, not something that powered beings can dangle for shits and giggles. Stefan believes in what it is to be human and he has a deep respect for it, and I think that above all else, even above all other people, is what keeps him grounded. I personally think my url is too long and a bit of a mouthful and if I decide to pick things up here again, I’ll be needing to think of a new one. I’d love some ideas! I’d also love to stick with something that plays into this belief of his. I’ll be rewatching some of the show soon to see what inspires me, but I hope to return with a deeply revamped version of him. <3 Hope everyone is well.













