i think it’s rather “obvious/heavy-handed” but i’d like a winter wedding. i’d pick a dry location to avoid the rain and so that the snow is light and fluffy rather than wetter and more likely to turn to slush. i live in an area with lots of pine, fir, and cedar trees and i really love the way they look when snow has freshly fallen and the morning sunlight is glinting off them. perhaps a january wedding, february seems a bit too on-the-nose, even for kaeya, and december will be terribly busy anyways preparing for jultid. february is also often when there’s new year celebrations, so that would be too busy as well.
we’d decorate with white and green, either silver or copper accents, i like the idea of snow berries (they grow where i live) and deep green foliage, not a lot of flowers, but perhaps some small white ones or a few cecilias. anemone flowers would also be lovely, since their black centers can appear to be a deep blue.
kaeya is the extravagant one between the two of us (?). as much as the wedding would traditionally be “about” me, i’m happy to let him choose whatever he would like to wear and then base my outfit off of his. that being said, i’d like something with a higher collar at the neck and straight shoulders, potentially with a open back, especially because kaeya is quite fond of resting his hand there. other than that i don’t really have any specific things i want involving the cut of the dress, color, gown/train, veil, jewelry, etc.
for the food, wintermelon soup would be wonderful, but for tradition and also because they are my favorites, roast duck as well as some type of fish will be necessary for luck. cake? i’m not picky at all when it comes to food tbh and much less cake, i think pretty much every flavor is good? but, if i need to choose, elderflower, blackberry, and lemon is a good combo that’s light enough that you won’t feel like you’re dying from eating it after a wedding banquet. no, i will not be smearing cake on kaeya’s face <3 also i’m not really partial to alcohol, so kaeya is free to handle that without my input because… i know nothing except that i’ve tried a variety of types and none of them appeal to me rip
music — i’d like to go over this with kaeya, obviously, but i have a couple songs in mind. one that i would love for dancing is evergreen by f.n. it’s sweet and it fits the theme, as well as kaeya and i. the night we met by lord huron or for lovers by lamp would also be nice <3 starlight by herd is another favorite of mine.
obviously we’d plan all this together, i just don’t have his input here ajjs