Unbetitelt

[fritzpostz-deactivated20250226]

hey

REBLOG IF YOURE OKAY WITH SPAM LIKING!!

REBLOG IF YOU GET SEROTONIN WHEN YOU SEE A BUNCH OF LIKES FROM SOMEONE!!

also if your someone who doesnt like spam liking and ive spam liked you im very sorry (/gen) i just really like ur stuff

[the-withering-system]

Help

[thatsnothowbrainswork]

Hi there

I have a little question because I see it a lot

What's an endo?

An Endo or an Endogenic system is a system that believes they formed without trauma. This is not possible as that is not how brains work. DID/OSDD is caused by repetitive childhood trauma.

Endos are usually either systems that are denying their trauma or blatantly faking. That being said, we don't support fake claiming. Unless a system outright admits to faking then it's not anyone's place to fake claim. If you suspect a system may be faking then best course of action is to block and move on.

While we don't think they are faking, we do not wish to interact with endos/pro-endos as they tend to spread misinformation and are often anti-recovery.

[thatsnothowbrainswork]

Hot take but like I don't think there really is an epidemic of people faking DID/OSDD.

Every time more awareness about this disorder spreads, more people realize that they have it. Hell if we knew about this disorder when we where 12 we probably would have figured it out back then.

Like I'm not claiming that there aren't people that fake it. I know that there are. However I just don't think that the amount of people faking is all that high.

Endos/Pro-Endos DNI

[thatsnothowbrainswork]

Honestly? Don't let anyone tell you that you aren't allowed to love your system.

Actually I think it's incredibly important to love your system. You're all stuck living the same life together what's the god damn point in hating each other?

Our system functions as well as it does because our host shows love and kindness to every alter, they genuinely care about every single person in this system.

Every alter in a system is important and is deserving of love and kindness.

Endos/Pro-Endos DNI

[autisticmabel]

the autism mood of never knowing when its “your turn” in a convo so you say the first word of your sentence about 5 times before you actually get to speak

[thebubblegumsystem]

this is literally everyone at this point

[atlasscrumpit]

Anyone else with DID ever wake up and the body is kind of just like 'loading players' and kinda just lays there until someone fronts

[heirtofire]

I hate that no one talks about just how distressing memory loss from adhd actually is. I always see memes that are like “haha I forgot my phone, I don’t remember where my laptop is, etc”, but no one seems to talk about how it can really fuck you up long term to just, not remember things that are completely mundane to non-adhd’ers. The memory loss is, however, so frustrating to us. I cannot physically count how many meltdowns I have had over the sheer mental frustration and torture of not being able to remember seemingly simple things

[endo-memes]

[snalien-jim]

Here are some coined terms by me for system roles!!!

• Sibling sympathizer: within this role an alter may feel they need to indulge in the feeling of being a people pleaser towards their sibling(s). Even if said sibling(s) are or were your abuser at some point.

• parent sympathizer: look at the role above but replace it with either a mother or father figure in your life.

• pacifier: this role is a mix of both protector and caregiver role. This roles actions includes settling down another alter and then afterwards they then will sooth said alter. This alter can both protect by solving or settling out or inside disputes and then will sooth and care for If needed.

• piloter: this alter tends to have a neutral role and will tend to front when no one else is available too. This alter can continue tasks without a problem but some but not all of these alters usually have a monotone voice or tend to be neutral in emotions or feelings, making them come off as if they are uninterested or lazy but in reality they are just trying to get stuff done or keep the body going.

• Bouncer: this alter tends to take on multiple qualities of already existing roles such as socializer and physical and emotional protector. This role will usually take on a defensive role while also being fun and socializing. This alter role keeps their guard up usually around social gatherings such as parties, family get-togethers, holiday plans, and any event that usually has alot of family and friends visiting.

DISCLAIMER !!!! I do not claim to 'own' these terms and they can literally be used by anyone i really dont mind. Feel free to use these terms as you wish because they are for all plurals :D !!!

[geekinator]

Reasons I like subtitles:

1. I can see how people’s names and the cities and the countries are spelled.

2. I don’t miss any words, so everything they say makes sense.

3. I get to know what background noises and conversations are.

4. The descriptions of the noises people make are freaking awesome. Ex: splutter, grunt, chuckles.

5. I can see who says what.

6. I don’t have to have the volume super loud so I can hear the dialogue, and I don’t blow my eardrums out because the ambient noises and music is SO FREAKING LOUD.

I freaking love subtitles.

[intj-confessions]

[weedplantar]

pro tip, if you’re ever feeling overwhelmed or upset for no reason, check the holy trifecta

have i eaten?

have i had water?

have i showered?

these questions will literally change your LIFE. if you’re feeling icky for no reason, there’s a 90% chance it’s one of these.

[adhdxxsdiary]

Me, not talking: Ah fuck, I am being weird

Me, talking: Ah fuck, I am being weird

[autistic-apple-sauce]

This still blows my mind

[theprideful-deactivated20251201]

idk if it’s the mental illness but sharing literally any information feels like oversharing. i’ll be like “i skipped breakfast this morning” and immediately im like “i might as well have told them where i buried the money”