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fukkce

keenmeleon

Why does everything want to kill me and my entire family in the wild area

tomochingus-moved-courtmartialm

based on theavalanche65 ‘s reply on my other school/teachers AU post

spacexualkids

shout out to all the aces in high school who don’t understand why they aren’t like their friends

shout out to all the aces in high school who are being pressured by friends and family and society into thinking sex is something they’re going to want to do no matter what

shout out to all the aces in high school who are uncomfortable in their health class because sex is treated as inevitable

shout out to all the aces in high school who are uncomfortable when their parents give them “the talk” and even when they say they don’t want sex or they don’t like the idea of sex, their parents just wave it off and say “you will”

shout out to all the aces in high school who are convinced something’s wrong with them and feel like they have to hide or make up for it by pretending to enjoy sexual things

shout out to all the aces in high school who want to date but are scared they’ll have to do sexual things with their partners

shout out to all the aro aces in high school who don’t want to date but feel like they have to, to fit in or be “normal”

shout out to all the aces in high school who are confused and misunderstood and feel like no one will understand or accept them

i’m sorry you’re going through this right now. you’re strong and i love you

artsy-theo

243, 244, and 245

imanaires

perfect couple: one person has cold hands, the other has warm hands. together, they maintain the ideal temperature for hand holding

tharook

relationship goals: thermodynamic equilibrium

tharook

[walks up to a couple] so which of you is the source and which is the sink?

anxietyproblem

nitewrighter

“Obviously ‘bihet’ offends a lot of bisexuals, so we need to come up with a better term for bisexuals in m/f relationships.”

How about… and hear me out… this may sound crazy…. but you… continue to call us bisexual… because (and I realize this gets confusing for you people so read this next part slowly) it turns out we continue to be bisexual regardless of who we’re dating.

oakthorne-deactivated20181206

Okay, this shit gets me all heated up. I’m just a cisgay dude up in here, but I have Some Opinions about this nonsense.

Bisexual people in relationships with folks of the other gender are not only themselves still bisexual (I’m really ashamed of a bunch of all that this shit even needs to be said, like c’mon), but their relationships are queer.

Yes, I just said that straight people can be involved in queer relationships without they themselves being queer.

The reason for this is simple: folks who are in relationships with queer people will always have to deal with their partner’s marginalization impacting their relationship. Always. Even if their bisexual partner chooses to be entirely stealth about their queerness (and that’s their right, by gods, fight me about it), their relationship is still impacted by that very choice existing. It’s a facet heterosexual relationships never have to negotiate.

Frankly, bisexual folks have to deal with active marginalization from multiple angles: heterocentrist and homocentrist. And in case I actually have to say this aloud? We should not be fucking marginalizing our own, y’all. That makes you a bad person, and you should feel bad.

To sum up: Bisexual folks are queer as hell. Straight folks can be in queer relationships without themselves ever being queer. And FFS please stop harassing bi- and pan-folks already, man. It’s 2018. Find hobbies that are not shitty.

nitewrighter

I love this addition to my post so much thank you.

vmohlere

Thank you both

kascaban

can we, as a society, start to realize that having a phone does NOT mean you HAVE TO BE accsessible to anyone and everyone at ALL times??

My mom threw a fit at me for not answering my phone while i was at my friends place. Kinda hypocritical too, given how much she complains that “youth these days spend to much time on their phones”

My boss was very CLEARLY not satisfied that i only got back to his text hours after he sent it. My friend didnt speak to me for weeks once bc she thought we were having a FIGHT??? bc i didnt reply to her message on facebook? till the day after she sent it??

i HAVE a phone, that doesnt mean i HAVE TO BE availiable whenever ANYONE decides they want me to be???

what the fuck

can people stop assuming they are entiteled to my attention 24/7??

shenice-alisha

this is so important. people need their alone time & their space. & it doesn’t matter if you see them active on social media, sometimes people just like to scroll through their timeline without talking to anyone for a while. you really can’t expect to have someone’s attention every second of the day, it’s not realistic at all.

jadeeclipse

Having cell phones are for OUR convenience, not THEIRS. It's so that YOU can access someone if you want, not that YOU have to be accessible.

I tell bosses my number and tell them it's a home phone. They ask for my cell and I tell them they don't need it. They can leave me a message at my home number and I'll return the call when I can. (It's the same number but they don't need to know that.)

spiritoftruth

# does anyone get a little bit of a gay vibe?

kami-catharsis

When you don’t understand her but you’re already thinking about how many dogs you’ll have when you’re married

I love it

I ship it.

where! has! my! passion! gone! I had it abundantly when I was a child, and I must have dropped it along the way, but I cannot figure where!

exciting

oh hey folks fun update, i found my passion again? i just had to find my right outlet, get to a place where I have aspirations, dispel apathy and pursue what I love, it’s all good and swell!

skyderman

reblog this to find the right outlet, get to a place where you have aspirations, dispel apathy and pursue what you love, and rediscover your passion.

jadeeclipse

I actually know the exact moment I lost mine.

thedaniverse

I am a little high but what if people proposed with beautiful, intricate knives. Ladies would gather around the table and be like “guess what finally happened!!” And pull this beautiful, intricate dagger out of her purse and all the other ladies would gasp and congratulate her

thedaniverse

Me: I’m a little high but –

Y'all rushing to that reblog button:

chuckyzoopa

It’s an awesome idea tho

weareoracle

Because I have a tag for pretty weaponry, some knives I’d accept as proposals follow:

lianabrooks

I said yes!

(but, actually, hubby bought me a dive knife when we got married so this works…)

chuchisriyo-deactivated20181102

This was actually a cultural tradition of the Rajputs, if a man gave a woman his dagger, it was a symbol of marriage.

edit: proxy marriage when the groom is not present! It’s not a symbol for proposal.

azlinne

@many-minds-of-vienna

lucifer-in-my-head

If one of y’all lovely ladies ever wants to marry me, this is the only proposal I’ll accept

milf-n-dilf-dippin-dots

listen up my futures, here is my standard

step up to standards or become friend zoned forever

lucifer-in-my-head

Holy damn that is one dope ass knife.

the-punning-ubus

so much more practical then rings! even if not that sharp

the-fucking-fuck

@lycaanroc

jadeeclipse

One of my favorite series has this as a culture! Upon marriage, the wife received a knife, a marriage knife, that she wore around her neck on a chain. The design/elegance of the sheath/chain showed your standing in society. There was something about the chain/sheath as well that indicated whether they were widowed.

Gems were embedded on the sheath to represent children. One color for males, another for females. The color setting they were placed in showed if the kid still lived, if they died, and how they died (i.e. honorably in battle).

Now the cool part...if the husband wronged her, it could be serious like cheating or violence against her, or a smaller slight like an insult...the WIFE IS ALLOWED TO KILL HER HUSBAND WITH THAT KNIFE!! No repercussions. (Of course this worked in a book society where people are not general assholes, although there were assholes in this book too.)