hello!!! my name is jamie ^_^ i'm a system little who uses this blog as a safe space to regress !! my bodily age is 20, but my lil' age is around 9~12 ( ˶ˆᗜˆ˵ ) since im part of a system, sometimes i might not be frontin’, sorry for any inactivity >_< ˎˊ˗
i really really really wanna make friends in the sfw agere community!!! feel free t' interact with me, i love meetin' people (´▽`ʃ♡ƪ)
click "read more" to learn alllll 'bout me ദ്ദി ˉ͈̀꒳ˉ͈́ )✧
prns: i dunno :3
likes: birds (‘specially pigeons) , fishies , buggies , the great big outdoors , explorin’ , wizards n cowboys , ‘n more that ‘m forgettin’ ..
dislikes: boredom, hot drinks, big kid responsibilities, meat (except chicken nuggies those are tasty)
BYF:
▪ 've got schizophrenia n MDD, 'mong other things. m' regression isnt us'ly super fun or colorf'l or "reclaimin' childhood whimsy" 'cause i never had any. if yer only comf seein' "pure" regression 'n you dont wanna interact w' someone who mostly regresses "impurely" and vents-a-lot, feel free t' set a boundary 'n block.
▪ me and my blog are fully SFW, but 'm not the kinda regressor who watches cartoons. mosta the fandoms 'm in are real mature!! please exercise caution 🙏
▪ i'm not lookin' for a cg, so please dont offer !!!
DNI:
▪ NSFW blogs
▪ people who intend to sexualize me, my content, or my fandom agere posts
▪ people who believe that "narcissistic abuse" exists
▪ people who think that psychotic people are "dangerous" or "scary"
▪ basic DNI (homophobic, transphobic, racist, ableist, saneist, proship, etc)
▪ anyone who makes me uncomfortable, i block freely !!
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thanks for stoppin' by (๑'ᵕ'๑)⸝* i hope we can be friends!!!
Give me loud wailing and sobbing and clinging to a trusted person. Give me begging to "go home" whether that home is real and reachable or not. Give me crying for parents and siblings and grandparents and *anyone* who feels safer than the present situation.
Give me stress regression. Give me trauma response regression. Give me regression as a result of someone's self-soothing ability completely imploding.
Give me the gross parts of it. In writing, in drawings, in headcanon ramblings. The tantrums with snot and spit and red faces. The potty accidents. The bedwetting. The lashing out and yelling and hitting. The physical symptoms of feeling like you're no longer in full control of your mind and body. Let me see the MISBEHAVIOR that comes with feeling like a child in a body that's too big for you when everything is SCARY. The behavior you REGRET later.
Seeing the cozy, comforting, voluntary end of agere is so important when you're using it to comfort yourself.
But the embarrassment of it goes beyond "I use pacifiers and stuffed animals to self soothe after a hard day." for a lot of people. Acknowledge and accept that, too. Please.
Kiddos who aren’t happy and silly and lovey. Kiddos who don’t like being touched, who aren’t little snuggle monsters on a daily basis. Kiddos who are grumpy and sad and quiet, and prefer independent play. Who like to be neat and clean and read their picture books and color inside the lines. Littles who don’t likes kisses or hugs or physical affections or saying I love you over and over.
Kiddos who are seen as less “fun” than the others. Who are told they “don’t act little”.
I see you and I adore you! You’re perfect exactly how you are.
Genuinely, how do you play with toys again? I want to so badly, I used to do it all the time when I was younger but I just can't figure out how to make a storyline and play like I used to. Does anyone else struggle with this? Any advice?
I see a LOT of versions of this post entirely centered around men / masculine people in the agere community , but i think it's very applicable to women in a way no one has really talked about , so here i am talking about it
People should draw older women as regressors more !
Women with wrinkles as regressors ! Women with stretch marks as regressors ! Heck , women with body hair and facial as regressors would be wonderful !
Men aren't the only ones whose bodies age , despite what society likes us to think . And I know these posts are partly because the agere community has lots of women and girls ( and also because lots of people see an older woman character and automatically sees her as a mother figure and nothing else , but that's a problem outside the agere community as well ) , but this isn't something that's just for men !
people who don't feel guilt or remorse deserve to be alive
people who fantasize about violence deserve to be alive
people who don't care for friendships deserve to be alive
people who don't desire to "contribute to society" deserve to be alive
people who are aloof or callous deserve to be alive
people who don't follow social norms deserve to be alive
none of these types of people are inherently bad, evil, dangerous, or untrustworthy. personality traits and social preferences do not define someone's right to exist or be treated like a human being. and, if it's wanted, people with these traits can be just as good friends as people without these traits.
you're not better than them if you're an empathetic, sensitive, passive, extroverted, etc. plenty of "empaths" or popular members of a community are abusive. your actions are what matter most, not what emotions you feel/don't feel, or how social you are.