✶ no, shifting is not as easy as breathing.
𖥔𓆪 . ⁺ but it doesn't have to be hard. ࣪ ˖ ∔݃ ✶ @ self discovery and love in shifting . ۫
shifting takes self discovery and self trust, as well as more belief in yourself. you will not achieve your goals with no self discipline. self discipline should be individualized from self hatred, because a lot of shifters i have met do not trust themselves enough to believe that they can shift, even if they can. mindset matters more than affirmation. you can tell yourself blankly that you will shift every night, but if you wake up in your cr and see that/yourself as a failure, you do not trust yourself, and your subconscious knows that shifting is real-- just believes it is out of your reach. people are entitled to their own ideologies and values, but treating shifting as a challenge and masquerading around in your own insecurity and blind self-hatred will do nothing but restrict you from all of your opportunities.
i do see reality shifting as something that anyone can do, but a lot of shifters believe that anyone can do it.. just not them. the day that you shift cannot be marked in a calendar, but that doesn't necessarily mean it'll be years or decades until you find the day that you end up shifting. it just means you must be hard at work and be diligent and consistent, daily. self-discipline is always beneficial, even if it gets difficult.
the difference between self discipline and self hatred is when you discipline yourself, you restrict yourself from all things that hold you back because you deserve to reach your goals and will work towards them. however, self hatred is nothing but you bringing yourself and your goals down, and it is an endless cycle of consistently pushing your own goals and efforts away just because you do not value yourself enough to give yourself the love and hard work that needs to be put into the journey you are embarking on.
this afflicts with your entire process, and will lead to self destruction, and another endless cycle of "why can't i shift?"
"why can't i shift" is the EPITOME of the lowest level of self value. you can shift, you're just focusing on the fact that you haven't yet. you must find what is holding you back and work towards it. your desired reality will not drag you in. you must find your way there, yourself. that is self discovery :)
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