another point i want to makeā
iām not a big langst fan, because i feel like a lot of it relies on vilifying the other members of the cast for the sake of making lance look less appreciated/loved. i know people have fun with it in fanfics, and all the more power to them (i mean this sincerely; i know thereās a push-back against langst, but i have nothing against it as long as it doesnāt seep into canon analysis), because fanfic is a free-for-all-playground, but itās not my thing.Ā
while we as an audience know that lance is super insecure, not everyone else does. you can say that pidge is mean for labeling lance as aĀ āgoofballā, since he internalizes this and starts to genuinely believe itāor you can realize that she meant it all in good fun and had zero intent to seriously hurt his feelings. assigning malice to her casual, playful insult isnāt really fair to her. she cares about lance a lot. remember when she completely changed her tune about leaving in season 1 because lance was hurt? remember when she screamed for lance in season 2 after he got hit at beta traz? remember that she specifically thought back to lance trying to befriend her at the garrison when saying that she wanted to be closer to her teammates?Ā
the team likes lance as a person. they enjoy having him around. heās their friend. itās why they mess with him like this. do any of them look like theyāre making fun of him because they dislike him? no.Ā
hell, keith sincerely tried to cheer lance up by joking about him being bad at math! and it kind of worked!Ā
now, does lance interpret a lot of this in the worst possible way because heās insecure? absolutely. does this mean everyone else is to blame for how he feels? no. they simply donāt understand the extent of his issues. theyāre fighting a war, as lance himself reminded keith; they donāt have the mental energy to devote to fussing over lanceās feelings all the time.
itās complicated because you canāt blame lance for being insecure either; itās all just a series of misunderstandings, really. if lance were to run off because he thinks heās the unnecessary seventh wheel, i imagine theyād all be shocked and really upset.Ā
blue has no such excuse. blue understands the situation perfectly. she knows exactly what lance is feeling. if anyone in the universe would know that lance is insecure, it would be blue. she can send ideas directly into his mind without any effort, and yet she chose to remain completely silent and shut him out instead. no explanation, no reassurance, no goodbye, nothing. she basically just slammed the door in his face and let him figure the rest out.Ā
she knows exactly what kind of assumptions lance would make after being shut out. she knows that he feels like a seventh wheel even when he does have her support. she knows that he hinges his identity on her (āmrs. blue lionā). she knows that heās very possessive of her (āweāre very happy together! very happy!ā). she knows that he calls himself lancey-lance. hell, she can probably name every single member of lanceās family.Ā
itās no coincidence that blue finally responded to allura when she expressed self-doubt. thatās something that blue recognizesĀ quite well since lance doubts himself so much.
itās one thing for someone to be clueless about how lance feels and say something that accidentally upsets himākeith in particular, since heās aĀ ālonerāāand itās another entirely to be 100% aware and let him suffer anyway.Ā sheās supposed to be his lion, his old girl, his best girl, but she left him out in the cold in such a pointlessly cruel (and dangerous, honestly, considering how much it delayed lance entering the battle)Ā way.Ā
this right here is canon langst, from the last source i would have thought of.Ā
weād better get a damn good explanation for her behavior in season 4.