i need help manifesting. my method is mainly robotic affirming and subliminals and i’ve realised that whenever i manifest something it only partly comes true. i cannot manifest SPs, i’ve tried to manifest my prom dress to come in time but it only sent out for delivery that day. i tried to manifest a sugar daddy (no s3xu@l desire), i manifested the SD but he’s always pressing to do S3xu@l activities with me. i tried to manifest my mum not being angry which again also partly worked. the list goes on and on. i thought my problem was my self-concept so i did work on that and i find that i am much happier and much more confident in myself. However, i don’t know if it helped my manifestations. then i booked a coach to help with this and instead she told me that robotic affirmations and subliminals aren’t actually helpful and i should just decide that i have it. also claiming that fixing your self concept isn’t needed? it just keeps seeming like there are so many different rules for manifesting that contradict with each other and i don’t know what to believe. i need help
hiii! honestly don't beat yourself up, the manifestation community makes everything so confusing with a million rules, but it’s literally way simpler than that.
truth is, you make your own rules. if you decide robotic affirming or subliminals work for you, then they do. no method is wrong, and you definitely don't need some coach's approval or a "perfect" self-concept to get what you want.
the only reason you’ve been getting partial results is probably because you’re treating the methods like a chore or a test you have to pass, instead of just feeling like it’s already done. when you affirm all day out of fear or just to "fix" a bad situation, you're accidentally feeding that exact anxiety.
the 3d is just a mirror, it reacts to your internal state. so if you want to affirm all day, do it because it genuinely makes you feel safe and confident, not because you're chasing a result. drop the internet rules, whatever you’re doing is already enough.
on a separate note, i also want to say something very important regarding what you mentioned about the sugar daddy situation. please remember that your safety, physical comfort, and emotional well-being always come first, above any manifestation technique. if someone is pressing your boundaries and making you feel uncomfortable, you don't need to stay and try to "manifest them to change," and this is absolutely not a reflection of any failure or wrong thinking on your part. you have every right to completely cut contact and walk away from any situation that doesn't respect your boundaries. please stay safe and prioritize yourself first !!!!!
thank you so so so much!!! this was so helpful and helps me realise what i had been doing instead of what i should’ve been doing, thank you. can i update you if something happens or changes?
