I need to try and confess something that has happened between me and my cousin, we are both gay. My cousin pressured me into having some sexual pleasure between us, we started with just oral but last time he wanted more. I haven't been the same since because I feel really guilty of what was done. I am not sure if I should let him carry on with what he wants to do or try and talk him out of it, I am just worried I will upset him as he likes me and I dont want to loose him. Any advice please?
Yeah that's a tough situation, but honestly you need to do what's best for you. If you're feelimg guilty about it and don't want it to happen anymore then you just have to say that to him and draw the line. I know you don't want to lose him but if the sex isn't something you want then you really have to stop him, otherwise you're just gonna be stuck feeling like crap every time you do it and that can even sneak up on you and ruin sexual relationships with a person you're actually in love with. So ny advice is, tell him it has to stop and you'll just have to hope that he understands why it has to stop and respects that so it doesn't happen again and you two can continue to be close as cousins
