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We've got another live one yall! This time Meiji Tokyo Renka Full Moon (from Dramatic Create) will be making it's way to the West on both the Nintendo Switch and Steam!!! This is yet another day one purchase! I'm so shocked we're getting g so much otome love lately 🥹

#meiji tokyo renka #otome

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Aymeric & Hraesvelgr

#aymeric #ffxiv #hraesvelgr

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My Emet stuff already gets comments like "idk who's this cunty loser but I approve of this". Good, good. I shall use the power of my art transcending fandoms to give you one simple life-changing tip. Come closer, listen. Play the critically acclaimed MMORPG Final Fantasy XIV with an expanded free trial which you can play through the entirety of A Realm Reborn and the award-winning Stormblood expansion up to level 70 for free with no restrictions on playtime. It will hurt you and rewire your brain, and there are old mans to be fucked.

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In reference to the hashtags:

Admittedly, I had to look up flanderizarion...and wow yeah, I can't think of a better example of it than G'raha Tia. There is a lot of the player base that only loves or especially hates on him because of this oversimplication of his character. It makes me facepalm as well as somewhat sad because he has so much depth and offers some of the greatest insight into any of the current happenings of MSQ. But you have to talk to him because half of it is in the optional dialogue to really get the depth of his character. And I see this constantly, mischaracterization due to flanderizarion, not just with him but all the characters, especially the Scions, because people didn't have the patience to read in a MMOJRPG. 😢

#(and about raha too. but yknow. not in the uwu burger kitty way. go read about flanderization)#graha tia #g'raha tia #flanderizarion of ffxiv characters

lavenderlion

This might suck to hear, but if you're a people pleaser that is motivated by praise and avoids disagreements, you are easy to manipulate.

When I was in therapy after surviving years of domestic violence, my therapist had to tell me that my personality was primed for abuse and we needed to work on that so I would be better equipped to see the red flags and respond appropriately in the future.

I'm still working on this, and it's been 8 years. If you tell someone how you want to be treated, what behaviors you don't tolerate in your life, what you're looking for in that relationship, and they react negatively, don't compromise yourself. Just move on.

This one's for all the praise-kink girlies: differentiate, self-actualize, stay sexy

lavenderlion

This resonated with more people than I thought, so here are some phrases to practice when you would normally default to people pleasing:

I'm not comfortable with that.

I'd rather not, but thank you for the offer!

You're welcome to disagree, but that's not something I'm okay with.

No.

It's personal, and I'd prefer to keep it private.

That doesn't work for me. How about x

I respect your opinion, but I'd rather do it my way.

That is behavior that I don't tolerate.

To each their own.

I'm not looking for feedback right now, but if I'm looking for input later, I'll let you know.

Oh, I'm not sure I agree; I thought x

When you did/said x, I wasn't okay with that.

I don't accept your apology.

I can accept your apology once you've addressed the problem.

Hey, could you help me with x?

I need to stop.

I need some time to myself.

Just remember, your thoughts, feelings, and opinions are what make you unique, and you can change your mind later, so don't be afraid to say them out loud. Work through things. Don't dodge them.