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jasper, he/she/they LGBTQ (all of them at once), 23 yrs old, erratic poster, pothead trekkie, autistic slut, feline girlboy, disabled parking pass carrier trans bi flag in icon from maxpawb

[jasperwocky]

oh yeah? well you'll never get away from the sound of the woman that loved you. so how about that

[jasperwocky]

just heard a very very high dude say something so totally left field about how the denigration of women has to do with the way that people's eyes and ears react to the frequencies of something or other and that we've been manipulated by the powers that be to react to them the way we do and i got to drop the banger line "you know that's the best feminist theory i have ever heard from a guy" the silent eye contact applause was THUNDEROUS

[calamity-corner]

no afab baby you don't have a "transfem headmate" words mean things

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

counterpoint this does happen with fictives quite frequently

[calamity-corner]

counterpoint: still not what transfem means

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

yeah lets not do pluralphobia in our transfeminism

[calamity-corner]

i'm plural, dumbass, i just know what words mean! being "bodily transfem" is the only way to be transfem because we all exist in a body! if a member of a system is a girl and the body they all share was afab then she's cis! because that's what the words mean. i don't care about vibes i care about material realities and there isn't one in which a headmate in an afab body has the lived experience of being transfem, and vice versa.

if she's not speaking "as a transfem", and she's not "bodily transfem", then what the fuck are we even doing here. "trans woman" isn't a different gender from "cis woman", they're both just women. you are very clearly misunderstanding that and that's transmisogyny my friend. there is no gotcha you can catch me in here, you're just wrong. it's okay to be wrong it's just an opportunity to learn. or you can dig your heels in and keep doing transmisogyny, your choice.

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

you know being an asshole to someone is not a great way to get them to listen to you.

[calamity-corner]

lol. lmao even. tone police her after not listening the first two times, that tracks

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

shit like this is why i hesitate to fully commit to transfeminism. some of yall are so assholish about such petty things that do not matter. were literally being systematically killed by a surveillance state but no lets go after headmates who have a different experience with something as complicated and nuanced as plurality.

i generally agree with the movement but jesus christ learn when to just leave it be.

[calamity-corner]

there it is! "a feminist was too much of a bitch to me so that's why i'm bot a feminist" give a big round of applause folks we got there

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

i literally just said i agree with the movement but dislike the community but reading is hard ig :/

[calamity-corner]

what you said was "i hesitate to fully commit to feminism because some feminists are assholes" but reading your own words is hard ig :/

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

i hesitate to fully commit to the transfeminism community because ive seen extremely widespread opinions on both plural people and mixed people that are fucking apalling.

[calamity-corner]

i just don't know how else to explain to you that someone who is a girl in a body that was afab is cis, definitionally. whether she's a headmate or not, it doesn't matter. "transgender woman" isn't a gender, it's a relationship to womanhood that is based in a lived experience, one that someone afab does not have. do you argue about letting white people talk about being "racialized" because they're plural too? do you hesitate to commit to antiracism because some people are just too mean about white people's headmates? i can't stress enough again that i am a plural transfem. but the headmates i have who are men are, shock horror, not trans men. because our body was not afab, and regardless if whether you're a fictive or a factive or an introject or what, you only have the lived experience of the body you live in. that's how being alive works. this doesn't have to be so hard.

[folly-of-alexandria]

Someone assigned female at birth cannot have a "transfem headmate" anymore than a white person can have a"black headmate"

[jasperwocky]

that boy gave me a straight up romance boner

[jasperwocky]

scheduled an appointment for 9/11 so when i see signs saying "never forget" ill be like oh yeah my appointment

[amazoogle]

some bozo with the username laundryguy47 keeps jumping in to all my Halo matches and ruining them. what he does is he turns them into some kinda laundry RP. ok, listen, what i mean is, when he joins the game he gets on mic and tells everyone to go to a certain spot on the map and pretend like its a coin operated laundromat and we're all doing laundry there. and they just do it. everybody stops killing eachother like you're supposed to in the game and they go pretend to do laundry for the whole match. nobody even questions it, they all just do it like thats normal. but that's not normal. its sickening and it cant be allowed to continue

[amazoogle]

some of the sessions have been kinda fun though i gotta say. there's actually quite a bit more depth to pretend laundry than you might think. lately ive been experimenting with pretending to use fabric softener

[jasperwocky]

house wine? don't mind if i do

[hyliantomatoes]

wait now i’m curious what’s everyone’s go-to pair of shoes

[jasperwocky]

[wifegideonnav]

“bits to use in everyday conversations”

[jasperwocky]

take me down to the cum blast city where i'll fuck your ass and i'll grab your titty

[jasperwocky]

wish they treated porn a little more like serious media i'm always like who was on sound design for this bullshit

[jasperwocky]

and where are the god damn closed caption regulations. let the hearing impaired masturbate!!!

[rokkazu]

my life is fine if i just ignore a bunch of shit

[jasperwocky]

wish they treated porn a little more like serious media i'm always like who was on sound design for this bullshit

[jasperwocky]

SPECIAL SKILL: Jury-Rig Strap-On

[marisatomay]

The shooter was probably some Mormon fundy who trained in illegal militias all his life and could make that shot from 600 feet and hated Kirk for reasons far more baffling and contradictory than the basic political spectrum can possible explain and in the 4 hours the Feeb was interrogating that old man he slipped up to northern Idaho where he will never be caught

[marisatomay]

Like not to put too fine a point on it and no disrespect to the American left-of-center but the types of people who can hit a target with pinpoint accuracy at 200 yards are not attending local DSA meetings and canvassing for abortion rights with their mom

[jasperwocky]

i still miss you patricia taxxon... gone but not forgotten