Biologically my body is female. /HOWEVER/ I do not fit the gender norm. I am bigender/ gender fluid. Yes those are real and yes you can be both.Now let's look at the definition for these two words.Bigender: “To identify as both genders and/or to have a tendency to move between masculine and feminine gender-typed behavior depending on context, expressing a distinctly male persona and a distinctly female persona, two separate genders in one body.” (via GenderQueer and Queer Terms)Gender fluid: “Referring to a gender identity that changes with time and/or situation as opposed to a fixed sex-role.” (via Claire R. Winter - Understanding Transgender Diversity: A Sensible Explanation of Sexual and Gender Identities (2010)You seem pretty literate anon so I'm going to assume you can read and understand those definitions. :) I may not look like a guy but what I say I am is what I am. I feel more comfortable when referred to as he/his/him. And I'm working on making myself feel better in my body. Which right now does not include any hormones or surgery. Who knows, maybe that will change but it's not in the future for me. For me now it means a change of wardrobe and binding and a haircut. Before you even ask why I haven't done that yet it's because I'm a poor ass college student, I'm living in a female dorm/apartment and my parents would probably fucking disown me. As desperately as I'd like to change right away I can't and I wish my finance situation was different. But I'm trying to cope. Leave me alone anon. I'm done with you.
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