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i wanted to feel loved without feeling like i was begging for it
im the type to want more for you, not more from you
my future // billie eilish
yall ever get so overwhelmed with the feeling of âiâm not doing enoughâ that you just do nothing at all
4. If the car pulls up to you run in the opposite direction.
5. Walk with your keys in your hands and keep a key between each finger
6. If they put you in the trunk kick out the headlights
7. If you get lost find a woman with a child. Never ask a man for help (this one was drilled)
That scream fire piece of advice is literally life saving
8. Watch your shadows and reflections, especially if someone is walking behind you. A split second notice is better than none and will help you.
Yes this last one really saves lives y'all I do it all the time
girls have to learn to view the world like international intelligence agents just to be safe walking down the street. smh.
guys pls pls pls reblog and girls pls pls pls be safe out there. terrifying and so sad that we have to worry about this on a daily basis
(Iâm an enby, but, frankly, this is helpful for anyone.)
- always tell someone where youre at and an approx time when youll be back
Add text replacement words in your phone if possible. Something short and memorable that you can send quickly to people in moments of emergencies.
E.g.
I f ing hate that we need to reblog this, people suck, but this will save lives.
DO NOT SCROLL PAST
Being female fucking sucks but yes this shit is important for everyone
Also, do not walk close to walls. It will be easier for someone so walk past you and push you against it or corner you.
If your gut is telling you to cross the street or change your path, do it. Donât risk it. Your body knows.
If you can, buy a large umbrella and walk holding it. Studies say that predators are less likely to attempt an attack on someone that could fight back. Keys around your knuckles is fine but youâll need to get very close to do damage. Umbrellas are more precise.
Avoid wearing headphones if you are alone on an empty street. Look aware.
Again: Stay. Away. From. Walls.
Entering an uber alone? Call your father (or anyone you trust) and say âhey dad! Yep, Iâm almost there, Iâm sending you the route.â outloud. Then proceed to send them the route so they can follow the uber drive. This will most likely intimidate the predator.
If you see someone in an uncomfortable or possibly dangerous situation, walk up to them and say âBetty, oh my god, I havenât seen you in so long!â. If she gets slightly confused, you can whisper and let her know youâre trying to help and that she should follow along. Walk together to another station or away from where you are. The man will most likely not follow. I have done this one 2 times and can be very helpful.
If you are unsure she needs help, you can pass her a note saying something like âhey, I noticed this man beside you is making you uncomfortable. If youâd like help, fake a sneeze right now and I will come up to you and pretend we are friends.â This is a long note, but its an example. Be discrete. If she follows along, proceed with the previous tip. This is helpful when youâre in a crowded train and you notice harassment.
Help your sisters. Trust them. Trust yourself. Be safe.
If you ever feel unsafe or need help, anyone is welcome to run upto me and ask me for help! Iâll go all mama bear and keep you safe!!!
https://docs.google.com/document/d/166g6Vo8Fb9H3FIZF2H6faEBHtFQSf7nVn_QxcJ9NMi0/edit?usp=sharing
I made this google doc covering 14 different self defense tips and tricks. it was made on January 15th, 2020 so it was before I decided Iâd come back to tumblr jhjshdbjfh.
EVERY TIME I SEE THIS I REBLOG BECAUSE THIS IS SUPER IMPORTANT!!!!!
Park where you can see the car when you exit the building.
Park under lights.
Check your back seat BEFORE you get in the car.
Keep a pen in easy reach, a hidden weapon is better than none.
An umbrella can be opened and used to make your attacker jump back. It can also be used to block punches, much like a stick or sword.
Keep your chin up, eyes open, and ears perked when walking alone.
Get a rescue/hiking whistle. It will damage the ears of whoever you blow it at AND can be heard a mile away.
Pretend you are on your phone, and make statements like, âSee you in tenâ, âIâll meet you there in a few minutesâ, âI just went past ___ landmarkâ, and, things that make it clear youâll be missed and/or to make it clear the people missing you could describe you easily to cops.
Keep your bag on one shoulder. That way if grabbed, you could easily drop it and run⊠You can also slide your backpack in front of you and drive forward like a war horse⊠Or, you can use it like a shield if being attacked.
Stay safe.
In some states where itâs illegal to carry mace, get wasp/hornet spray. Theyâre really easy to use â just point and push to shoot â and can reach several feet. Aim for the eyes so your attacker canât pursue you.Â
Carry hard things in your bag/purse, as well as a cat laser toy. That little red light could save your life in a kidnapping situation. Hide it somewhere easy for you to grab from.
Do not be ashamed, if youâre being followed in public, to walk into the nearest open store or restaurant and tell the person at the register that youâre being followed, and donât feel safe. That way you have another pair of eyes, and someone backing up your story if the person stalking you hangs around or makes a problem, and you need to get the police involved. And â speaking as a Rape Crisis Counselor, this one is IMPORTANT â if you see someone in what looks like a harassing, or potentially domestic violence situation? FOLLOW HER LEAD WHEN/IF YOU OFFER TO HELP HER. You might be thinking to get her out of the immediate confrontation, but if she still has to go home to him, sheâll pay for your rescue later. If she meets your eye and says âItâs fine, itâs okayâ then you need to LISTEN TO HER. Because she knows what sheâs facing better than you, and you cannot rescue her before she is ready for it. You can make everything 100 times worse though. Especially if the arguing couple are black, and thereâs a chance that police might get involved. Because we all know how that shit tends to play out these days, and you do not want to be the one to get someone killed by trying too hard to help.
so january is almost over huh? whatâs next? february? give me a break
âDo you think the universe fights for souls to be together? Some things are too strange and strong to be coincidences.â
â Emery Allen
Me to my anxiety : can u like calm down these people donât even think about you Depression : ever Me: thatâs not what I meant