Love. A lot of people base their maturity about this subject matter accordingly to their experiences. Some say, they've spent years with their partners and that luckily, they are still together. Some add up the troubles they've encountered along the way. The latter, say without all these experiences, they won't be able to grow up from that relationship. All of these make perfect sense. But would you believe me if I tell you that these are just extraneous variables? You would not agree. Of course, we are now becoming parts of modern relationships - where everything is done in fast track, where the deepest mysteries to a person are left unfathomed, where every single text and call should not remain unnoticed. It's funny how people now think of long distance relationships as the hardest kind of all while in fact, it used to be the normal route of our parents' love. "So mom, were cellphones already available that time when you and dad are girlfriend and boyfriend of each other?" "No they were not available yet." "So, how did you and dad manage to talk while you are away from each other?" "He had always gone to our boarding house." "But how about those times when cities were the ones to separate you?" "Well, we had no choice. We just use the telephone once in a while. But we definitely just wait." Wait. That is indeed a very thoughtful word - and act. How long have you been waiting for a text within a day? Or, can you even stand an hour or two without a text from your partner? Do you get mad for not getting a piece of information to what he or she is up to? It's a lot easier now, right? We have cellphones, we have the internet, we have cool cars, we have technology - and yet, these things only made us forget the value of every conversation. Love. It is finding beauty deeper in the eyes of your partner. Does he or she always compliment you? Does he or she always remember you? Does he or she always put you first? Does he or she blame you all the time for all your argumentations? Do you feel perfect when you're with him or her? If you answer "NO," in all of those questions I have asked, I believe, you are already ranting about all of it inside your head. How old are you again? Oh, you're 16? 17? 18? 19? 20? Come to think about it. Life...and love are associated to attain happiness. That person - the one that you said you fell in love with, has also his or her own life. He/she has his/her family and friends and academics. That person also finds happiness with all of those people. If you can't take that he's/she's having fun without you and you are comparing his/her level of happiness when he's/she's with you versus he's/she's with them, then you are a selfish, attention-seeking, paranoid. YOU CANNOT ALWAYS SEEK FOR YOURSELF. STOP BEING SO NARCISSISTIC. The both of you are not the only ones in this world. You are young. Try to act accordingly to your age. You're supposed to be having fun. THE BOTH OF YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE HAVING FUN - and not spending a lot of time running out of things to say and things to do until both of you find out that the only reason you're talking is that you're fighting. All of those I have mentioned above, well I learned it from soul searching. I found it while I was so focused about myself that I forgot there's a person on the other line - the one that I lost and the one I wouldn't want to lose again this time. We're taking really small steps but this time, we make sure everything's perfect. Yes, there could be a perfect relationship with the right love at the right place and at the right time. I hope these make sense. - signing off, your now old-fashioned girl
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