stay in your lane

Jess | 22 | 🏳️‍🌈

[anyanary]

This is so dumb I’m sorry-

[twitblr]

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[isa-ghost]

This is one of the most adorable Pride posts I’ve ever seen

[ebonykain]

Scheduling this to reblog on the day before National Coming Out Day (Oct 11th).

Because if your aren’t ready yet, for any reason, that is your right to not come out yet.

If YOU are out but have a friend who is NOT, it is not your right to out them. Respect their wishes, respect their safety, respect their health.

Encouraging your friends by promising to stand with them when they come out: Good.

Bullying your friends by saying they owe it to the LGBTQIA+ community to come out: Bad.

It’s okay if someone isn’t ready yet.

[thechekhov]

As someone who was outed against my will LONG before it was safe for me to be out to my family, I’m gonna say this as loudly as I can:

You don’t HAVE to come out! To anyone! You don’t owe it to anyone. Nothing is more important than your safety. If it’s better for your situation to stay closeted, please do that!

Coming out should be a personal decision. It should be a choice you make because you feel you will be happier for it. It should be something you do when you believe it will enrich your life.

[witcheschess]

[howlpendraig]

The assassin you sent after me is part of my found family now

[eye-co]

[frog-whisperer]

[thetrashchronicles]

[absolutecheezit]

[aiamare-art]

[peridotite]

TTHE “ALREADY, NARUTO?” CHAT IS SO FUCKKING FNNY

[peridotite]

this is peak comedy

[im-in-way-2many-fandoms]

I am LOSING MY SHIT

[iwaizumi]

best of nanami kento

[daintydot]

[memewhore]

[theslowesthnery]

guys help i’m LOSING MY GODDAMN MIND over these fat tiger art scrolls

(source)

[theslowesthnery]

UPDATE: HE FOUND A TINY FRIEND

[tevruden]

Let’s get this hell year over with.

[tevruden]

bringing this back for 2020, especially

[mentalhealth]

how much of ur online presence is performative and how much is it u being u

[soil-boy]

baby every me is me, we are the mask and the wearer

[picsthatmakeyougohmm]

hmmm

[yaboijoshua-deactivated20200425]

okay but can someone explain to me why someone would need that many control panel windows open in windows xp

[fagflow]

That comment made me feel so fuckin old

[prguitarman]

Young ass bitch

[baapi-makwa]

my friends cat loves attacking xmas trees but hates plastic bags

[quillusquillus]

the narrative tension in this picture is outrageous

[sykesarchive1]

i'm sick of feeling tolerated. either adore me or despise me. cowards

[gaycism]

gays ruined the word hole for eternity

[archgayge]

i wish someone would ruin my hole for eternity

[gaycism]

[hazeldomain]

Its always weird, feeling a hyperfixation take root.

Like I’ll be watching some movie and all of a sudden, some miswired synapse fires off and a bunch of neurons in the cerebellum go “MINE.”

And I’m like “no, guys, this is mediocre at best,” but it’s too late. They’ve adopted these characters and this universe and there’s no turning back.

I’m going to be thinking about it every hour, of every day, for somewhere between two weeks and five years.

In the span of eight seconds, I’ve gone from “not really paying attention” to “this is going to be part of my identity” and that’s definitely a weird shift to experience.

[princessparadoxical]

#sometimes i delay watching things#because i know im gonna fixate on it#and im not done with my current hyperfixation#and my brain is incapable of fixating on two things at once#only thing scarier than that new hyperfixation feeling#is waking up and realising ‘oh this thing that has been my every waking moment for the past few months#is now absolutely void of joy for me. fuck’#gotta try and hold onto that feeling for as long as possible (caedi)