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heyo, it kendra. she / her. nineteen. demi. perpetually loving carrie fisher & too many fandoms *takes a deep breath* welcome !!

[chesh-ires-deactivated20210426]

also happy pride remember that:

cishet was coined to mean cisgender heteroromantic heterosexual

aces can’t be cishet, as they are asexual

aros can’t be cishet, because they are aromantic

aces and aros deserve to be loved, accepted, and understood

aces and aros don’t deserve the nasty things aphobes say they deserve

troll blogs love demonising ace and aro people by pretending to be one and y’all fall for it every god damn time

aces and aros aren’t confused, incomplete, or broken

aces and aros aren’t cringy

feel free to add onto this if you want

[golbatgender]

“Cishet” was coined to help trans people talk about specific oppressions they face and it’s extremely insulting that bigots have turned a tool of liberation into another means of oppressing people

[jjames-ccole]

>> the 100 [minimalist posters for each season]

[dniudsnf]

my lesbian mutuals? ❤️💕✨⭐️❤️💗🌸

my bi mutuals? 🌸✨💗☀️💫💕🌷🌹

my gay mutuals?💘💗💝💗💫⭐️✨☀️

my trans mutuals? 💝💓💕💗☀️🌸💕✨

my pan mutuals? 💗🌸💝💗✨💓💓💫

my nonbinary mutuals? ✨⭐️💘✨💕🌸💓

[jjames-ccole]

my a-spec mutuals? 💗💕💖🌟🌹💫🌺✨

my poly mutuals? ☀️💖🌹💫💕✨💗💖

my gender fluid mutuals? 💖🌺♥️✨💕✨💗💫

my queer mutuals? 💖☀️💫🌟💗💕✨🌹

my demi mutuals? 💕💗😊✨💫💗🌺💖

my questioning/unsure mutuals? 💕🌹🌟💗💫💖✨☀️

all of my lgbt+ mutuals? 💕✨🌟🌺💗🌟💕☀️🌟🌹✨🌺💕💗

all of my Good Ally straight/cis mutuals? 🌹☀️♥️💕✨💗💖💗

[jjjjjjjjoey]

When ur mutuals w/ some cool ass people rb if u agree

[lovelysuggestions]

dont underestimate the power of kindness. strength is not being cold hearted and aloof, it’s being amicable in the face of bitterness or gentle with those who need to be loved. so please, if nothing else, be kind.

[bestofthebest999]

Help screencapped.net stay online

Guys, screencapped.net needs our help to stay online. Most of the people who make icons, picspams etc will know of the site, and most likely use it all the time, and would greatly miss the site if it did shut down.

So I am making this post to share awareness that they are struggling money wise to keep the site up, it costs a lot of money to expand storage and keep servers up, I’ve never myself done any of this but I can only imagine, the prices! 

And yet they do all this FREE of cost for all of us, they could keep all these caps to themselves but they don’t they post them in their galleries etc for us to use, using THEIR OWN money to keep the site going for the public!

So please consider donating even just a few £££ would help greatly, after all the work they do capping the shows/movies for us and everything else its the least we can do right? remember a little goes a long way!!!

Visit their site screencapped.net or hq-screencaps (there tumblr site) for more information.

[jjames-ccole]

>> bellarke for bellamyblakeweek02, day three: favorite relationship

[mysharona1987]

[musicalhell]

The solution: less superhero movies, more musicals.

[moonlight-fox]

Surely the solution is more superhero musicals?

Afterall, how are we going to get to 20 singing superhero movies a year without more superhero musicals?

[mysharona1987]

The King of Wakanda and I.

A Funny Thing Happened on the Way on The Way to Ragnarok 

Phantom Rider of the Opera.

[ellidfics]

My Fair Stevie

The Vibranium Game

Pal Tony

[majorgenerally]

A Little Dark Knight Music

Vigilante on the Roof

Wolverine!

Man of Wakanda

[jjames-ccole]

hey there guys! if anyone's curious there actually is a musical about Batman called, "Holy Music@l Batman!" it's directed by and stars college kids and it's freaking hilarious.

Bonus: it also features Superman, Green Lantern, Robin, and some others!!

I highly recc this to everyone who is a lover of superhero comics / movies or musicals or superhero musicals based off of comics!!

[clarkegriffins]

because this is who they are, they fight harder. they are warriors.

[beallamy]

television meme: 3/10 television shows: fringe.

Despite what you think, my universe is not at war with yours. This all began because a man came over here to save a boy and twenty-five years later, I came back to save that same boy. But if you let me die, then we will strike back and we will fight. But if you let me go, both universes can survive. There must be another way and I promise you I will find it

[roguetelemetry]

La Jetée (1962) [english subtitles]

The French short film that 12 Monkeys was based on

[charmanderdiyoza]

And we keep going anyways.

[brimay]

i think tumblr’s idea of boys is utterly misguided at times. 

boys are just as deserving of love as girls are. a woman fighting to break down a man’s walls is not “a waste of time”, a woman being concerned of a man’s mental health/feelings is not wrong. i think tumblr constantly spreads the idea that men are not worth women’s time and that their emotions are somehow less valid than women’s, and it’s just not true. at least not in all cases. 

good young men who are struggling with mental illness need to know that they deserve happiness and that their feelings matter. if we constantly dismiss men’s emotions and act like they’re not worth our time, we’re just encouraging ideas of toxic masculinity.

[roguetelemetry]

La Jetée (1962) [english subtitles]

The French short film that 12 Monkeys was based on

[bellarkebabesnet]

We’ve all been counting down the days for the season premiere - and to help amp up the bellarke fandom - BBN is starting our countdown to season 5!

Starting April 19th, we will begin our five-day countdown! We ask our followers to participate by creating content and using the #BBNcountdown tag to be featured on our net! 

five days - five quotes

four days - four looks

three days - three hugs

two days - two episodes

one day - one goodbye

show day - anything to celebrate a reunion six-years and seven-days in the making! 

We hope you will be joining us in this countdown and look forward to seeing your creations! 

[daughterofdiaspora]

my mom taught me the therapeutic power of cleaning. open all the windows. throw out the old. wipe down the entire house. burn some incense. roast some coffee. then rest. that way the tears from last night don’t feel as heavy. 

[umushingwe]

She just wanted you to clean the house

[plants-andgames-deactivated2021]

No it’s actually been studied and proven that for people with anxiety and depression that it’s really good for us it gives us a sense of control, setting, and being well grounded. It allows to make a new place out of the old and is really relaxing

[mysticorset]

It is such a catch-22, that cleaning when you are depressed (and likely less able to gather the executive functioning to do so) also alleviates it. After having a good clean, I always feel more in control and less stressed. It’s the getting started that is the hardest part. The good news is, even a tiny bit of cleaning has a positive effect, so start with what you can manage.

[ariverofmilk-deactivated2019041]

Even if you just clean up the immediate area around you, even if you clean a little at a time or spaced out over days, you’ll feel lighter.

[thedemonsurfer]

This!!

Even if all you can do is put three dishes in the dishwasher, or move the dirty laundry pile to outside the laundry door, or throw out that box of leftovers that have been sitting in the fridge for 2 weeks

it counts.

[robinontherun]

My therapy professor always gets his patients to just wipe the bathroom mirror when they’re feeling that way. Just the mirror, nothing more. But then by the time his patients are done with the mirror, most of them report “well, I was already in the bathroom, so I did the sink and tub too.” And before they know it, they’ve cleaned an entire bathroom.

[wishful-thinkment]

My therapist once told me that, every day, I should try and do at least one thing that I either enjoyed, or gave me a sense of mastery. And honestly, the enjoyment thing can kind of seem overrated, especially when you feel like crap, but the mastery thing? Doing laundry or taking out the trash or whatever else I can bring myself to accomplish?

Holy shit, man… it’s /good/

[illogical-bullshit]

This stuff saved my ass back when I had depression. Vacuuming the room, spraying some febreze shit and wiping some countertops works wonders.

[tosety]

tiny baby steps are helpful

do what you can, forgive yourself for what you can’t, and challenge yourself to do better tomorrow (and it’s okay to fail at this; just try again the next tomorrow)

[hexxit-deactivated20180526]

hot take: stop telling young girls that they’re “becoming women” when they start going thru puberty - because they’re not! it’s incredibly creepy and absolutely false. they’re still children. forcing kids into that kind of mindset can and will set them up for dangerous sexual encounters at 13, 14, 15.

little girls are not women!!! grown men need to shut the fuck up and stop using “you’re a woman now” as an excuse to abuse young girls!!!!!! stop telling little girls they’re becoming women!! stop pointing out when girls as young as 8 need to start wearing bras or commenting on a 10 year olds breast development you fucking freaks!!

terfs/radfems dont touch this post it’s not for you.

[hexxit-deactivated20180526]

PLEASE reblog this version instead. so many terfs have reblogged the version w/o the disclaimer at the bottom and i hate it, i dont want radfems touching this. it’s not for you, i don’t support or appreciate your radical ideology and im nonbinary myself. stop reblogging this.