Self-Introduction
(Trigger warning: Anorexia, self-harm)
Hey there! I’ve only been here for a few days, but people have already been ridiculously kind (and surprisingly many of you, too). Figured I should do a proper introduction, so here goes :)
My name’s Jon, I’m 26, and I'm currently in Europe. English will be my main language here, but I’m also fluent in French, German, and Japanese (日本のみんな、日本語もOKだぜ). You could try me in Spanish, but no promises.
I’ve been fascinated by hearts ever since I was a kid, and I’ve been lurking around this community for quite some time now. Seeing all of you share finally pushed me to join in on the fun! I honestly didn’t expect much engagement at first, but after just a few posts, even people I consider the big players around here started reaching out. That’s seriously motivating, so thanks for that! I'm always looking for mutuals, so feel free to reach out, everyone!
As for what I like in particular… well, why don’t you ask and find out? But to give you a hint, besides hearts, I’m also into video games, TV, books, music, and fashion. I’ve got a soft spot for cool outfits and good style, so if that’s your thing too, we’ll probably get along.
About Dark Cardiophilia: I get why people are into the thrill of danger, and no judgment if that’s your thing, more power to you! But for me, it’s not really what I enjoy most. I’m more into pushing limits, seeing what’s possible, and just having fun with it.
When it comes to messaging me: give me something to work with! A simple “hi” won’t cut it, convince me why I should actually reply. I appreciate interesting conversations, so put in a little effort, yeah? Other than that, I do read every message! Also, before you ask, I do have Discord and Snapchat, but I only share them with people I trust. Earn it first.
When I’m not busy letting Tumblr consume my precious lifetime, I’m actually a master’s student in linguistics btw, and I also work in that field. So if you ever wanna geek out over languages (bc who doesn't like that duh), I’m your guy.
Since this is a personal blog, I’ll also be posting some more private things. I’ve been struggling with a severe eating disorder for a long time, and part of the reason I’m here is to track my recovery progress (and, let’s be real, vent every now and then lol). I’m also documenting my workouts and physical changes, and I’m always open to tips! Don’t worry, everything will be tagged properly, so you can stick to what you’re actually here for.
I'd also like to be clear on some rules:
Let’s keep this as SFW as possible (yes, I’m talking to you, guy who keeps DMing me his groin every other hour).
Anything I post, photos, videos, whatever, remains mine. I really appreciate reblogs, but reposting my content is a hard no, especially without credit. It’s only happened once so far (shoutout to that guy for being cool about it), but it does make you think.
I’ll never post my face here, but get to know me well enough privately, and who knows?
At the end of the day, I’m just here to have a good time. If you come across as weird in a bad way or make me uncomfortable, you’re getting blocked on sight.
This is a safe space. Any form of racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, or other hateful behavior I won’t tolerate. Act like a decent human being or find somewhere else to be.
And if you actually read all of this… well, sucks to be you, I just stole two minutes of your life. But seriously, I’m looking forward to getting to know more of you. Thanks for being so welcoming :)