Esha

|She/her|23 years|

[idieinmydaydream]

小岛

[epsilon-delta]

My dash did a thing

[bitchenfries]

[luciacaminoz]

so fascinated by those injuries where it’s better to leave a bullet where it’s lodged internally and let the body scar around it than risk doing more damage removing it. Romance

[psycholadki]

🌙 Astrology Observations: Gift Ideas by Nakshatra (Masculine vs Feminine)

A fun astrological observation because not all gifts say "I know you." Some say, "I see you."(Based on Moon Nakshatra. Just observations, not everyone will resonate equally.) 🤍

♈ Ashwini

If you're buying a gift for an Ashwini man...Give him an experience he can jump into immediately.

Think adventure, speed, sports, or something that makes him feel alive.

🏇 Ideas:

• Gym accessories

• Driving experience

• Hiking gear

• Sneakers

• Go-karting voucher

If you're buying a gift for an Ashwini woman...Don't just buy her something pretty buy her freedom.

✨ Ideas:

• Instant camera

• Solo travel backpack

• Roller skates

• Horse-riding lesson

• Adventure date

🌺 Bharani

Bharani men Love gifts that whisper luxury instead of screaming it.

🖤 Think:

• Signature perfume

• Leather wallet

• Elegant watch

• Handmade journal

• Wine accessories

Bharani women They adore sensuality and comfort.

🌹 Think:

• Fresh flowers

• Silk scarf

• Luxury candles

• Spa hamper

• Fine jewellery

🔥 Krittika

Krittika men Buy something they'll actually use.

🍴• Chef knife

• Coffee equipment

• Formal shirt

• BBQ kit

• High-quality razor

Krittika women Practical doesn't mean boring.

✨• Beautiful cookware

• Baking set

• Elegant handbag

• Statement earrings

• Fine perfume

🌸 Rohini

If you want to make a Rohini man smile...Give him something that makes home feel warmer.

🌿• Indoor plants

• Artisan chocolates

• Handmade mug

• Soft blanket

• Vinyl records

A Rohini woman? Don't underestimate beautiful little comforts.

🤍• Pottery class

• Handmade ceramics

• Flowers

• Botanical perfume

• Jewellery box

🦌 Mrigashira

For the man who's always curious...

📚• Telescope

• Travel books

• Puzzle games

• Hiking gear

• Bookstore gift card

For the woman whose soul keeps wandering...

🍃• Nature journal

• Pressed flower frame

• Botanical books

• Museum membership

• Weekend getaway

🌧 Ardra

Ardra men: The darker and more intellectually stimulating, the better.

🖤• True crime books

• Documentary subscription

• Mechanical keyboard

• Science kits

• Hoodies

Ardra women

She'll secretly appreciate gifts that understand her inner world.

☕• Psychology books

• Black stationery

• Moody perfume

• Sketchbook

• Rainy café date

🌿 Punarvasu

if you're buying a gift for a Punarvasu man...Ask yourself: "Does this make life feel more like home?"

🏡• Coffee machine

• Travel pillow

• Comfortable hoodie

• Family photo frame

• Quality backpack

A Punarvasu woman? You don't have to spend a fortune.Just make her feel emotionally safe.

🌼• Cozy blanket

• Handmade mug

• Indoor plants

• Picnic basket

• Homemade food

🌼 Pushya

Pushya doesn't just appreciate gifts.They appreciate care.

Men

🍵 Tea collection

🌱 Gardening kit

📖 Family recipe journal

⌚ Classic watch

🍲 Homemade meal

Women

🫖 Herbal teas

🧣 Knitted shawl

🌿 Indoor herbs

🍜 Handmade ceramic bowls

📔 Recipe notebook

🐍 Ashlesha

Want to impress an Ashlesha? Make them curious.

Men

♟ Chess set

📚 Mystery novels

🖋 Fountain pen

🔮 Tarot deck

📓 Leather notebook

Women

🖤 Dark perfume

🕯 Incense

📖 Astrology books

🐍 Snake jewellery

🌿 Essential oils

👑 Magha

Don't buy trends.Buy legacy.

Men

⌚ Heritage watch

👞 Formal shoes

📖 Family history books

🧥 Traditional clothing

📷 Restored family photographs

Women

💍 Temple jewellery

🥻 Saree

📸 Family album

✨ Antique décor

🌺 Heirloom-inspired gifts

🎭 Purva Phalguni

This nakshatra loves pleasure, beauty and celebration.

Men

🎵 Concert tickets

🕶 Sunglasses

🌴 Beach getaway

🍸 Cocktail set

🌊 Weekend trip

Women

💄 Makeup

🌸 Designer perfume

🛍 Fashion accessories

🧖 Spa voucher

🏖 Resort stay

🤝 Uttara Phalguni

Nothing says "I appreciate you" like something thoughtful.

Men

🖋 Premium pen

📔 Planner

💼 Leather office bag

📚 Books

🎟 Memberships

Women

📒 Beautiful planner

👜 Leather tote

💎 Personalized jewellery

🖊 Fine stationery

👗 Linen clothing

✋ Hasta

If they can make something with it...You've already won.

Men

🪵 DIY tools

🧩 Mechanical puzzles

📐 Woodworking kit

✂️ Craft knife

📓 Artisan notebook

Women

🧶 Crochet kit

🏺 Pottery workshop

🪡 Embroidery supplies

🎨 Watercolours

🧵 Handmade craft box

💎 Chitra

Beauty matters.Design matters.Presentation matters.

Men

📷 Camera

⌚ Luxury watch

📖 Architecture books

🎨 Art prints

👛 Designer wallet

Women

💍 Statement jewellery

👜 Designer handbag

🖼 Fine art supplies

🌹 Luxury perfume

🏠 Elegant décor

🌬 Swati

Don't tie them down.Gift them freedom.

Men

✈️ Solo trip

📖 Kindle

🎧 Headphones

🏕 Camping gear

📷 Drone

Women

📓 Travel journal

🧣 Scarves

🎐 Wind chimes

📸 Portable camera

🛂 Passport holder

🎯 Vishakha

Fuel the dream.

Men

📈 Business books

🖋 Premium pen

📅 Goal planner

👔 Blazer

💼 Networking event

Women

✨ Vision board kit

📔 Productivity planner

👜 Luxury handbag

🖊 Elegant stationery

📚 Goal journal

❤️ Anuradha

This nakshatra remembers the meaning behind the gift more than the price.

Men

☕ Coffee date

📖 Meaningful book

🎲 Board games

🗝 Personalized keychain

🤝 Friendship bracelet

Women

📸 Polaroid album

💌 Handwritten letters

📔 Scrapbook

💍 Friendship jewellery

☕ Café hopping date

👑 Jyeshtha

Give them something worthy of keeping.

Men

⌚ Luxury watch

🖋 Fountain pen

💼 Briefcase

♟ Chess set

👔 Cufflinks

Women

🥻 Silk saree

💎 Classic jewellery

🌸 Luxury skincare

👜 Elegant handbag

🌹 Signature perfume

🌳 Mula

Don't fear gifting depth.

Men

🌲 Camping experience

📚 Philosophy books

🪴 Bonsai

🧘 Meditation retreat

🎒 Survival kit

Women

📖 Shadow work journal

🌿 Forest retreat

🏺 Handmade pottery

📿 Spiritual books

🔮 Crystal set

🌊 Purva Ashadha

Experiences > Objects.

Men

🏄 Surf lesson

📷 Adventure camera

🥾 Travel experience

🏕 Outdoor gear

⚽ Sports equipment

Women

🌴 Beach holiday

👗 Flowing dress

🐚 Ocean jewellery

🏊 Swimming lessons

🌺 Shell décor

🏔 Uttara Ashadha

Reliable gifts for reliable people.

Men

⌚ Fitness watch

📔 Leadership journal

👞 Formal shoes

💼 Quality luggage

📚 Leadership books

Women

👜 Structured handbag

📒 Planner

💍 Timeless jewellery

👠 Professional wardrobe

🖋 Elegant pen

👂 Shravana

This nakshatra falls in love through stories.

Men

🎧 Audiobooks

🎵 Vinyl player

🌍 Language course

🎤 Podcast subscription

🎼 Music

Women

📚 Poetry

🎻 Concert tickets

📖 Story collections

🌎 Language journal

🎶 Music box

🥁 Dhanishta

Anything that makes life rhythmic.

Men

🥁 Drum lessons

🎵 Speakers

👟 Sneakers

🏋 Gym gear

🎫 Concerts

Women

💃 Dance classes

🎤 Musical instrument

🎉 Festival tickets

👗 Party dress

🔊 Bluetooth speaker

🌌 Shatabhisha

Their mind is usually five years ahead.

Men

🔭 Telescope

💻 Tech gadgets

📚 Science books

🧘 Meditation app

🖥 Minimalist desk

Women

✨ Star projector

📖 Astrology journal

🎨 Digital art tablet

🌿 Wellness retreat

💙 Blue crystals

🕯 Purva Bhadrapada

Give them something mysterious.

Men

📚 Philosophy

🥃 Vintage glassware

🏛 Museum membership

📖 Rare books

🕯 Dark academia décor

Women

🖤 Gothic jewellery

🔮 Tarot deck

🌹 Vintage perfume

📚 Poetry

🪞 Antique décor

🌊 Uttara Bhadrapada

Peace is the real luxury.

Men

📚 Spiritual books

🪴 Bonsai

🪑 Reading chair

🧘 Meditation cushion

🛏 Quality blanket

Women

🛌 Weighted blanket

🫖 Herbal teas

📔 Meditation journal

🪡 Handmade quilts

🌸 Soft home décor

🌸 Revati

If you want to make a Revati cry happy tears...Gift kindness.

Men

🐾 Donation to an animal shelter

🎒 Travel backpack

🎵 Music subscription

📷 Camera

👟 Comfortable shoes

Women

🎨 Watercolour supplies

🐈 Animal-themed gifts

📖 Travel journal

🧸 Soft blanket

🎼 Handmade music box

✨ What's your Moon Nakshatra, and what's the best gift you've ever received?

I'd love to hear if your experience matches these observations. 🤍

[nadielle]

[dailycatsblog]

[darkandstormyranger]

finally some relatable content on ig

[thatbitchery]

"Flee the devil and he will flee from you" to say "Shut the channels down and they won't reach you" has to be one of the most practical tools for a better life there is out there, if not the most.

Listen if you blocked them how will they stress you. If you don't have tiktok how will you waste six hours on it. If you have no sugar how will you consume it. If you don't even talk to him how will he play you. If you flee the devil , he flees you.

Shut the channel down.

[thatbitchery]

Its been wayyy too long since I hopped on here to sell you reality issues and half assed ebooks so hi. Me again. Another day God has given me to be a menace in society and remind you whatever you've been taught about reality is absolute boolsheeeet because I actually care about you and don't really care if I get cancelled or whatever. As always this has been triggered by office drama.

Here's the tea;

If it doesn't directly affect them, they literally do not give one single stray disabled withered fuck about it.

If it doesn't affect you and you do not benefit from acting like you care about it, caring about it makes you lower value that the lowest value person you can think of. Then about ten thousand horizontal hectares lower value. And a little more.

Soooo , what's the dramamammamama?? I work in this media house, right? Relatively new but relatively powerful especially within our community. By virtue of being a media house of course we are audience based aka so politically correct we could make the liberals cry. For some reason I keep thinking it's common knowledge that literally no one cares about all the stuff we write about and we only write it because we need sponsorships and ads and an audience to sell things to and this is literally work and office values are not office values, right?? Well I never ever ever cease to be amazed. The tea is- last week we get this new girl. On probation. First off she makes alllll the social mistakes new girls could ever make in an office- the giggles. The hyper femininity. That weirdass thewizardliz mindset and that dumbbbbb Tam Kaur mentality. The Loubutins (fake) and the self isolation x sucking up to the higher ups. Which is none of my business honestly BUT she for some reason is my social media correspondent. Fair enough, I'm also new. And to be fair she's really good at her job.

The DRAMA is when sister girl miss pretty Petty Whoa walks in to me drinking my Coca Cola like a normal person and decides I should know this office (that she found me , with a long-term contract, working in) is pro Palestine so we shouldn't be drinking cola. I go is this a joke lmao the vendor machine is all cola the fuck I'd be doing saying no to FREE diet coke in summer are you on something??? She goes noooo we are for Palestine because our social media is full of anti Israeli pro Palestine so BLA BLA. My flabbers are positively gasted because ma'am there's no way. NO WAY. A journalist believes the shit we put outside come on. If the world is so pro Palestine anti Israel why haven't Coca Cola stocks dropped lmao. Do you see them having a crash? Starbucks might suffer obviously because it's for college kids and college kids think social media activism is activism but do you really think you not drinking from one of the largest companies in this world means anythingggg???? Well her belief systems aren't mine so I really don't acre just don't start with me I have actual work to do that can't be summed up in hashtags if you could just not. Girlie decides no listen here what they're doing in Palestine is bad. I'm like yeah I know. I just don't really care and it's not telling me what I can or can't drink you know ? And embarrassingly enough im taken through morality 102. I say love listen forget Palestine - my homeland .my ancestral home. My cousins, blood of my blood all that - I wouldn't give a singleeeee efffyuuusiiikeeiii. Ma'am looks at me like I'm the weird one and a week later I find out she's been talking about what a horrible person I am. My colleagues and I look are like- wait. Does she genuinely believe we care lol. Week later she's fired over some weird cause that doesn't exist. HR genuinely invented a weird reason to fire ma'am and now I walk into the office and there's a badass

[thatbitchery]

The best thing you can do in your life is to have boundaries with YOURSELF. There's useful information in the excess on the importance of boundaries with the world and how to draw them but extremely.... Scanty information on boundaries with yourself.

Boundaries, I've said this before, are lines of definition. Boundaries with others and the world is the line of discontinuity, protects within from without. Boundaries with yourself serve the same purpose, but, apply to you.

Again, as I said, boundaries are inborn. You are born a whole complete human being just ignorant from lack of knowledge and a little naive, but complete person. You are born with your boundaries because boundaries are lines of definition that define you as an independent entity from the rest of existence and you are born so. The process of socialization, however, mangles things up so when you tell mom actually you don't want to hug uncle X and you're punished for the autonomy you do away with that one boundary and there's a puncture in your definition.

[thatbitchery]

Yes network = networth, but also network = self-worth.

I can't back this up by science but Joe dispenza says 95% of your thoughts are dictated by the company you keep. 95%. 95%. This isn't just a number this is the quality of your life, since we live in our heads, basically. 95%. That means only 5% is flexible, and even that is donated by environmental factors, weather, etc. Ninety five percent is only five deviations off total control. Do you realize how impactful that is? & the scary thing about being born in this century is that your network & company are no longer just friends and family. In fact Psychology Today found that the primary 'company' of the average Gen-Z to Millenial is social media personalities, so your favorite blogger influencer reactor creator takes up to 95% of your brain space. Since human beings live inside out, that means we internalize then externally.

What am I saying? I'm saying if your network X company is full of people that constantly body shame others regardless of how perfect your body is, you will feel shame around yours. If they constantly perpetuate a victim mindset you will have a victim mindset. If they constantly focus on splurging you will focus on splurging. If they constantly focus on - you get the idea. And since we live inside out- your self worth is dependent on this.

[thatbitchery]

& especially this one; learn to leave quietly but ruthlessly (is this even a word). No those two are not the same but are innately intwined. Silence can be the worst form of cruelty, if done in the offense. There's a grand canyon of a difference between tucking your tail in-between your legs and whimpering out in silence like a wet cat because you can't fight back and deciding this isn't worth your time or words, adjusting your Prada bitch sunglasses and catwalking out because you couldn't be caught dead in a place like that. The difference is whoever the other party thinks holds the power.

Lets start here- silence and non reaction are the cheapest yet most potent tools of power, what you say can and will be used against you. That's law. People keep tally and records of your words and human beings being animals are waiting to pounce when it fits them- just look at your family. Isn't your mom pulling verbal invoices from stuff you said as a teenager to influence and control you now? That's your mother, that loves and care for you- and your home is not competitive in nature. Where do you get the confidence to be running your mouth at work? School? To your in-laws? And, and this is worse- To your partner? 'Vulnerability-' please sit down. Watch your mouth. The Bible says in the abundance of words lies a sin, if you wont trust me trust centuries old wisdom wont you. Silence is power. Now, moving on to the lesson here.

Lets take two ladies, Stupidiana the dumb dumb emotionally Unregulated queen and Brainiana the actual well, Queen. Say both have romantic partners that cheat on them or even simply decide to take them for granted and take the pressure off now that they got the girl.

[thatbitchery]

⚠️do not follow your heart. Follow the money with the path closest to your heart.

#deinfluencing you part 1: ladies on this blog we follow reality, not delusion, and following your heart might just be delulu with an overdose of dreams of grandiose. Let's talk about this.

Ladies your heart is not a map, its an organization whose purpose is pumping blood to keep you alive, not act as a path. Second of all, when will you give up the escapism? The phrase 'follow your heart' to mean 'chase your passions' was only empowering back in the eighties when minimum wage could buy a house and support a family of ten, in this economy if your heart doesn't lead where the money is it's a form of disempowerment and level down propaganda. Your heart will not pay your bills money will. In fact your heart needs money to exist. Artsy anx political students I'm looking at you. This one is ☆specifically☆ for you. Target audience- my artsy and polotical babygirls. We are we think with our brains and logic, let me remind you how.

Lets take example of, Allie. Allie has ALWAYS been a good singer, we are talking Beyonce vocals. From a young age as a form of support everyone told Allie she should be a singer. With talent like that? You can make a living- so Allie took part in all the school musicals and singing competitions and won, which furthered the damn I should be a popstar agenda. After high school Allie decides no college for me I'll find a producer and be a popstar. Allie follower her heart, good for her. Problem no.1- Allie is from a middle class family- no millionaire daddy to call the producers and stuff so Allie has to sign with an agency. See no one told Allie of the sex

[thatbitchery]

Building on my previous post I hope you know becoming the 1% woman has to be one of the simplest things out there.

People , including you rn, are so astoundingly mediocre that being the exception of the rule is so simple that it feels like a crime. Just one point above average and you're an it girl.

125 minutes of movement. 13 different fruits and vegetables. 4 glasses of water. 5 hours of sleep. No sugar and processed meals. One fermented meal. One book a month.

Emotional intelligence. Beauty. Culture. Sophistication.

[thatbitchery]

24/24 : In honor of turning 24 here are 24 things i wish I learned earlier

1.People will reveal themselves to you overtime, just give it time. Words are cheap, no need to go FBI overtime they themselves will give you the T. When they show you what they are, listen

2.No one is coming. No one is coming to save you. No one will take revenge for you. There will be no higher power exacting some sort of karma, no one is coming.

3.If you can't stand controversy stay away from creative arts. If you have panic attacks and jump into defense mode when people challenge your pov or disagree with you or get bold with you study science or something. If you're planning to be in the creative arts, especially in public spaces, get very comfortable with reddit threads and bold anons and bold reblogs and the higher you go the harsher they get

4.When you grow up in a burning house you think the world is on fire. It's not. It's not. When you leave home, leave home.

5.No one has it all figured out. There's no user manual to being a human being or a script to follow, we are all just making it up as we go. Be gentle, it's your first time on earth

6.success is found in the mundane things. It's the boring repetitive little things that matter the most and make the most difference.

7.This too, shall pass.

8.When you're growing up you don't realize your parents are also growing up, but they are. They're also growing up.

9.Happiness, love, peace, contentment are verbs not nouns. Theyre decisions and choices, not feelings.

10.Human beings are animals before they are people. Life is surviving more than its thriving.

11.A very essential part of success is alignment. In fact the most essential part of success is alignment

12.Delulu is the enemy of solulu.

13.You are not the exception. You're not. You are 100% like other girls.

14.Female friendships are the closest you'll ever get to God. Female friendships are the 3D manifestation of reality.

15.Feminine energy. Womanhood.

16.Money does in fact buy happiness.

17.Platonic relationships>> romantic relationships

18.Dont buy it. Don't buy it. Don't buy it.

[thatbitchery]

& the first two words to completely eliminate from your dictionary are [cringe] and [embarrasing]

#storytime.

This girl in my office, let's call her Tina. Tina is hands down one of the best singers I know. Sis would Gove Beyoncé a run for her money. Have you ever looked at someone and wondered which God installed that voice box and vocal chords and why they didn't work on you? After office we decide to head to a karaoke bar. Tina loves to sing. Maybe not be a popular but if there is a beat she will go off. I know she's excited for the mic. We have our seats and watch the performances. Now there's this other girl, we call her Betty Bitter. Betty Bitter is a chronic hater. This girl could hate on anything. I have never met anyone with such hate?? Betty Bitter says Karaoke is kinda cringe because like "imagine if someone films you and like you have to live with that". Because they don't want to face the wrath of disagreeing with Betty Bitter the rest of the girls jump into the train yeah omg like could never be me. Tina says nothing but stares up at the mic longingly. It's the end of the night. We head home. Tina looks like she feels like trash. I ask Tina Weren't you going to sing? Tina says lol no that'd be so embarrassing. Sighs. Another girl down. Life moves on.

Now, if you're thinking; oh my Gaud. Could nefaa be moi- stop for a second and sigh, raise your eyes to heaven and ask for forgiveness and spend the next 68 days in repentance. Does the term "social species" mean nothing to you? You think you're special huh. All autonomy and devoid of influence.

Sweetie let me break your heart just a little- THAT IS HOW WE WORK. That is the basis of a social group. A tribe. A pack.