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Multifandom

[junholler]

Damn totally forgot abt tumblr sjsks

[kimjaehwan]

thank you KCon for all these beautiful broduce moments 🥺💞💞

[hoshees]

NU’EST - BET BET + choreo killing parts

[big-booty-potato]

REBLOG IF YOU LOVE OTHER MEMBERS AS MUCH AS YOUR BIAS

[fruitpunchg-deactivated20150226]

“ooooohhh” i say as i still dont understand

[wetslug]

god i hate being alive i just wanna die in a national park under mysterious circumstances 

[wetslug]

ok im done being dramatic i finally started my homework and its not that bad

[scrapimmortal]

… sunshine, soft angel, loyal friend, supportive brother, light of my life and so much more. happy birthday yoo youngjae. forever with you.

940124 // #HappyYjayDay

fancam credit: x

[squided]

WHEN WILL PEOPLE FUCKING REALIZE THAT

MEN

ALSO

ARE

GIVEN

UNREALISTIC

EXPECTATIONS

DO YOU HAVE ANY FUCKING IDEA

HOW IMPOSSIBLE IT IS

TO LOOK LIKE THIS???

IT’S 100% FUCKING ILLOGICAL TO EXPECT MEN TO HAVE THIS RIPPED SIX-PACK ABS AND BE SKINNY AND HAVE PERFECT SKIN AND FACIAL COMPLEXION!  MEN ALSO EXPERIENCE BEING UNCOMFORTABLE WITH OUR BODIES ALL. THE. FUCKING. TIME.

[squided]

I’m bringing back the REAL post.  For those of you who care enough about how body image issues effect BOTH MEN AND WOMEN and how ignoring men with eating disorders or who have depression or deep insecurities because of their body image is not just ignorant, but it’s horribly insulting.  Making fun of this post means you are telling men who feel degraded that they should feel bad about themselves and that they don’t mean anything.  For everyone who reblogged the posts that made fun of this original post, shame on you.  I’m very disappointed.  Please share the original because this is an important issue.

Also raised to my attention is I neglected to add people of color to this post, I am sorry for my negligence so I shall add bonus images here of unrealistic expectations for men of every race, I chose Men’s Health Magazine because it’s extremely popular in telling men how to look:

[emile8]

No, guys, you don’t understand. I just got so relieved seeing this original post again that I nearly cried.

[nicthefanboy]

Bless the blog that brought the original back!

[safety-officer-barto-deactivate]

Here’s the original post without some of you asshats changing the pictures

[ladywordfighter]

This is actually the VERY FIRST TIME I’ve seen the original post, which goes to show how quickly people turned it into a joke. I confess that I did laugh at some of the absurd replacement images in the other versions, and I feel guilty for that now because I, like many, was missing an extremely important message.

To all of my male followers who struggle with self-esteem: I support you too. Even though I’m really quiet and have a bad habit of going weeks or months without posting, I WILL be there for you if you come to me wanting to talk or just vent. That’s a promise.

[xxleondraxx]

Another thing to note that in all, ALL, of those pictures the men are actively flexing. And often such defenition for shoots is exaggerated by dehydration, airbrushing and photoshopping. That chiseled look isn’t a look you can acheive at rest without literal implants. Here are 2 examples of flexed vs relaxed:

And you know what? Dollars to doughnuts none of the above muscular looking guys are as strong as these men:

These are strongmen. These are the bodies of men that train for strength, not defenition. These guys can practically lift cars and drag trains.

So men of the world that get depressed about not looking like you just stepped off a magazine cover, relax. You don’t have to look like that. You are handsome, beautiful and fantastic the way you are.

[randomslasher]

To all my beautiful boys <3 Please read and heed. You’re amazing, and you don’t have to look any particular way. This goes for transboys too. You’re handsome no matter what!!!

[c0ups]

me: *sucks at repyling mssgs and keeping in touch, forgets answer the texts, will probably drift away frm ur life slowly*

also me: :-) let’s be friends!!!! :-)

[sofarawayinthemilkyway]

[jjonghyun]

It’s always 5 of us standing on the stage, but now even though i’m standing alone, I know that the members are together with me. Because of that, I feel like I’m doing this as SHINee – JONGHYUN

[baracknobama]

remember the ice bucket challenge reblog if ur a true 2014 kid 

[abcdskz]

Here’s a cute angel to brighten up your day

[3rachha]

it’s not chicken but it’ll do

[huiracha]

well… thanks minho

[seungminhos]

me and other seungmin stans have said this soooooo many times that seungmin gets treated like wack by stays compared to the more popular members but no one listens except the 5 other seungminators here like yall rlly wont give a shit until seungmin himself said it and even then you guys STILL question why he said it. he knows he’s the least popular member and least favorite by stays actions and their treatments towards him. this isnt about antis this is about STAYS themselves. some people might not even realize it and thats the main thing thats so fucking frustrating

one thing i would like to point out is to stop!!! calling him demon/satan it might be a joke but its not funny!!!! we’re not his friends. would you even know how he feels when he found out??? not only that it affects him it might also affect his dynamics with other members “oh do i really treat the others this badly?” AND it doesnt look good to non-stans lmao!!! you all can try to justify it all you want but these types of jokes ARE NOT FUNNY and it might be one of the reasons why he feels so bad for himself.

i literally cannot believe we have to come to the point seungmin admitted that he knows he’s the LEAST FAVORITE. and i cant believe we have to hear it from himself for you all to realize that some of you unconciously treat him differently and for everyone to start appreciating him. he shouldnt need to say that he shouldnt have even FELT that way because hes so talented and lovely and hardworking and he loves stays so so SO much but i guess some cant even give him the happiness he deserves.

[parkerspicedlatte]

If you see this on your DASHBOARD please re-blog so that the previous blog knows they haven't been muted!!!