Things I learned after second year university
1. Do research on what you want to do before university. I didnât, and now my degree, courses, and âfuture planâ (I donât even think I have one tbh) are a MESS. Do research on the institutions your interested in, read opinions from students, do research on the faculties and programs youâre interested in, do research on the classes you want to take, email the institution to the point where itâs border line harassment. It sounds kinda stressful, BUT YOU WILL BE SAVING SO MUCH MORE MONEY than if you were to just wing it. Switching programs, taking more classes, going over credit hours, going under credit hours, taking pre recs, missing pre recs and then forcing them into your schedule, are not only stressful but cost a lot of money.Â
2. Believe in yourself and your capabilities. My last exam for the school year was for one of my bio classes, and by then I was BURNT OUT from my other three exams. I truly believed that I was going to fail that class; I wasnât doing so hot on the assignments, the second midterm was a fucking mess, and the prof was so awful and she made me hate that class so much. So I thought what was the point of studying if Iâm just going to fail anyways, there is no saving me now. I actually ended up getting a B in that class and coming out of the final I realized that the final was actually a pretty easy exam. I realized that if I tried a little harder, studied a bit more, and didnât trip myself up with all those negative thoughts (âoh your gonna failâ , âthereâs like no way you can finish this assignmentâ , âjust accept the D and move onâ) I wouldâve done so much better in that class. What led to my downfall for that class was nothing more than my negative thoughts, I learned that to do well in school, you have to know that you have the capabilities to do well.Â
3. Maximize your time. I found that spending 25 minutes in deep focus studying a topic was actually more beneficial and productive than spending like 4 hours half-ass studying a topic. I understood things better and I remembered things better. I used to tell myself at like 9 pm that if I went to sleep at 12 I would have another 4 hours of study time, but most of the time I would just end up being too tired to focus. I found that itâs not about the quantity of time you allocate to a subject or topic that determines how well youâll understand it, but instead how that time is used.
4. Take care of yourself. That mid-semester burn out hit me so hard this year. It was basically physical and mental exhaustion from over working myself to try and make those tight deadlines and trudge through midterms. It takes a while to recover from burnout, and usually I do not have that kind of time. That being said, I think it really is more efficient to schedule in time to relax and recharge to avoid burnout. The reason why I never did schedule in rest days was because it seemed so inefficient, like I almost felt guilty; I should be doing something, I could be studying this etc. But the truth is burnout is actually a bigger toll on my productivity and investing time to avoid it is much more strategic than working myself to exhaustion.
5. Donât just passively absorb study tips. I realized that I could be practising every study tip ever; being at the library, listening to Mozart, with healthy snacks, no distractions, a big tub of water, highlighters out; and still get no work done if I just donât want to do work. Study tips are great but they will only work if I want to work. If Iâm not in the mentality to study, no amount of âstudy hacksâ will motivate me to study. Conversely, if I am in the mentality to study I could literally get shit done on my bed while blasting upbeat music with lyrics.Â
6. Donât believe others when they say so and so course or subject is hard. Looking back at my experience with subjects that people told me were âhardâ they actually werenât that bad, they just required a little more work and a little more time. I wish I realized this earlier because every time I hear about how difficult whatever course is, it really trips me up and I go into a course feeling defeated, which drains my motivation to try and do well. But in reality, there is nothing in world that is beyond your knowledge of understanding, some things or subjects or topics just require a little more time and effort than others.Â
7. Finding a coping mechanism for stressful times. I always thought that âcopingâ with something, whether it be negative emotions or moments of stress, was not ideal. This was because I believed that ideally one should be able to erase all those negative moments out of their lives, only then would they find true happiness. However, thatâs unrealistic, Iâm human, and no matter how hard I try life will come with moments of stress, sadness, anger, and frustration, but those things will pass. In the meantime, the best I can do about it is cope with them for that moment, at that time, until it passes. The stress and panic that comes with exam week is no joke, but exams donât last forever, they, like most unpleasant moments in life, will end.Â