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sometimes life doesn’t care at all what you think, or what you’ve done to deserve anything. it’s one of the cruelest things about life, and it’s possible to feel invisible, or unwanted, or unimportant. but life goes on, and you are a source of joy to others in ways you will never know.
Do not set yourself on fire to keep others warm
14 things I learned after a toxic relationship:
1. Sometimes you just need to be alone no matter how lonely you get..
2. When you look back you’ll remember that it wasn’t all bad, and this will fuck you up. You have to remember everything that was bad too, the bad is just as important as the good. Do not get confused.
3. Your heart will ache and break. You will miss them. Do not call. Do not message them. Leave them blocked, trust me.
4. Delete all of your pictures. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. It will be hard, and you will hesitate, you may even cry, but delete them. They’re just empty memories.
5. Once a liar, always a liar.
6. Take care of yourself first. Be selfish. Surround yourself with everything that makes you happy- friends, books, naps. It doesn’t matter. You need to love yourself and be the happiest you can be first.
7. Don’t message their friends asking how they are. Remember, they probably don’t care how you’re doing. It’ll just leave you with a bigger pit in your stomach.
8. DO NOT FIND A REBOUND. Let yourself be broken for a while. Reconstruct yourself. You need it. Do not get under someone to get over someone else.
9. If you have any of their things at this point, burn them. Seriously, it’s worth it. (And it feels great!!)
10. Let go. This is the most important. You have to be strong enough to move on and live your life and let go. Don’t reminisce on what could’ve been or should’ve been. Don’t think back and blame yourself for their mistakes. Let it go, it’s their loss.
11. Spread your curtains open and crack your window- nature is the best antidepressant.
12. Wash. Your. Sheets. Get rid of every energy, negative or positive that belonged to your relationship. Get rid of their touch and their scent, you don’t need it anymore.
13. Open up. Don’t let your thoughts and emotions bottle up. Write them down, talk to a friend, scream it at the top of a mountain, but never let it sink so far inside you that you’re too scared to speak.
14. Remind yourself that your happiness is coming. You will find the one, even if you think there is no hope. Just wait. Be patient.
You deserve someone who actually gives a shit about you. Someone who doesn’t just see you as an extension of themself. Someone who would actually be afraid to lose you. Don’t let anyone else make you believe otherwise.
unsent letters pt. 9
it gets pretty exhausting honestly. giving someone the best of you and watching them choose someone else. giving someone all of your time and energy to the point where you break yourself down in order to support them just to find out it never meant anything anyway. putting a person before yourself because you care about them that much, only for them to run as far away from you as possible, for no apparent reason at all. it hurts and there’s no reason for someone to be hurt over someone who didn’t care. at the end of the day who did i lose? someone who didn’t give me the time of day? what did they lose? someone who always checked in on them, gave them all the love and support in the world, was there for them through the darkest times in their lives, made every possible effort to work through the fighting and arguing. having the same person break your trust over and over is exhausting. its like drowning in the waves that they pushed you under on purpose. you’re still trying to come up from that and it’s not working. tomorrow isn’t promised, so why not love when the time is necessary? that’s exactly what i did. gave one person all the love i had left in me because it’s always important to tell people you love them. you never know when that last chance will be. now i have no love left for myself. so tomorrow isn’t promised. remember to love like it’s your last. seriously.
Sometimes you don’t get what you want, because you deserve better.
a gentle reminder that you’re safe - safe from memories, people who hurt you, and things from the past that make you feel bad about yourself. they aren’t real, they don’t define who you are. be gentle to yourself as you heal - this compassion will protect you and help you move on as a new person. you can begin again, lighter, without burdens, but growth and learned lessons.
gentle reminder
you can change
the past doesn’t define you
“I wish you choose the love that chooses you, that makes you feel like both a soulmate and a friend, that doesn’t play any games and inspires you to be the best version of you that you can be. You deserve a forever.”
— juansen dizon, Forever
when a stupid slut asks if there’s going to be a swimming pool
This can be a tough pill to swallow because love is such a powerful thing. But you deserve someone who treats you right.
