Neither Here Nor There

The thoughts, feelings, breakthroughs, and breakdowns of a trans femme boy in the making. I will always be happy to give advice or support to anyone who asks. My trans friends can search for tips, support, or others using #feminine110% for my ladies, and #masculine110% for my gentlemen. My own personal journey can be followed using #chasingscars. Feel free to submit!! You can call me Ayden.

[societyghost]

A Guide to Terminology as used by Western Males of the Species

Prude - a woman who won’t fuck you

Dyke - a woman who won’t fuck you because you have a penis

Slut - a woman who fucks other people and not you

Tease - a woman who won’t fuck you even though she smiled at you

Feminist - a woman who won’t fuck you because she has, like, thoughts and stuff

[thescienceofjohnlock]

Bitch - a woman who treats you the same as you treat women

[fiercefatfeminist]

I wish I was on my phone because I would put like a million clapping emojis under this

[transguys101-blog]

I'm a ftm and i'm not sure if i want to go through full surgery. I've heard people say that it's 'inhumane'. I really want to have a chest reconstruction but I'm worried about the scars also the way the nipples look. Most of all i'm really worried if i don't start t now my hips and breast will get wider and bigger.

you can always start with a low dose of testosterone and see how it feels!

[trans-prince-lucas]

Hello! I have a little extra money from Christmas and I wanted to do a binder giveaway. The winner will be able to pick any binder from the website gc2b

RULES

- All reblogs and likes count, but no spamming your followers!

- You have to be in the US (shipping worldwide is pricey D: )

- Of course you have to be someone that would benefit from a binder (transmen, genderfluid, androgynous ect.)

- If you win, you have to be willing to give me an address that I can send it too!

- If you are reblogging just to signal boost, please say so in the tags :)

- You don’t have to follow me, but it is recommended in case I have to push back the date or anything like that (unfollow after giveaway if you want!)

I will announce the winner by 12 AM February 5th (Pacific Time)

THE DATE HAS BEEN CHANGED TO JANUARY 2ND SORRY FOR ANY INCONVENIENCE

[justsomeprettyboi-blog]

I wish that I wasn't going to be left incomplete for so long.. :c Not helpful or surprising I suppose, but I just needed to get it out of me.

[sweetjellly]

[justsomeprettyboi-blog]

Trying to Explain my Sexuality to my Dad

Me: Okay, so I would identify as bisexual.

Dad: And that means you would have a male partner.

Me: Yep.

Dad: Or a female partner.

Me: Yep.

Dad: And that means you're bi.

Me: Yep.

Dad: So that means if you don't find a partner you're on standbi?

Me:

Me:

Me:

Me: Did you just

[myulteriormotive-deactivated201]

How Would You Describe Your ADHD to Someone in a Single Sentence

“Incomparable boredom mixed with infinite fascination.”

“My brain has too many tabs open and I can’t figure out which one is playing that ad.”

“There are five million things I’d like to do right now, but I will spend my entire day deciding that none of them interest me enough.” “I can do EVERYTHING, but don’t ask me to finish it.“ “Simple tasks are never simple.”  “Accomplishing things you don’t want to is physically painful” “ My brain is a expensive, quality bicycle that has no breaks and cannot pedal uphill without making random turns.” “I know what I need to do, I just can’t bring myself to do it”

“Ever went out to go to the store and then accidentally ended up driving to work? It’s like that, but with everything”

[alex-lost-in-wonderland]

[bubblegum-dreamm]

no matter what degree you come out you’re still brave and rad

[jackalltimelow]

STOP! TELLING! PEOPLE! THAT! NO! ONE! WILL! LOVE! THEM! UNTIL! THEY! LOVE! THEMSELVES! STOP! PLANTING! THE! IDEA! IN! PEOPLES! BRAINS! THAT! THEY! ARE! UNWORTHY! OF! LOVE! BECAUSE! OF! THEIR! OWN! STRUGGLE!

[afatbabe]

TO EVERY FAT GIRL WHO WAS KISSED IN THE DARK AND KEPT AT ARMS LENGTH IN THE LIGHT. TO EVERY FAT GIRL WHO WASN’T INTRODUCED TO THEIR PARTNERS’ FRIENDS BECAUSE OF THEIR WEIGHT. TO EVERY FAT GIRL WHO WAS ONCE AFRAID OF GAINING A POUND AND LOSING HER HEART:

YOU ARE SO IMPORTANT AND I FUCKING LOVE YOU AND THEY DON’T DESERVE YOU.

[peachy-kweennn-deactivated20170]

REBLOGGING AGAIN FOR EMPHASIS

[dajo42]

You're not a real girl

you are completely correct yes, i’m not a girl

because i’m 22 so actually i’m a real woman, you giant hornet apologist

[neutrois]

Beyond 'he' and 'she': The rise of non-binary pronouns - BBC News

The pronoun "he" refers to males and "she" to females. But some people are neither - and in the US an increasing number are choosing different pronouns.

[dykesinthethroneroom]

*~Shamelessly getting that perf angle to show off how big my boobs are getting~*

[justsomeprettyboi-blog]

Wow... <3

[justsomeprettyboi-blog]

Creative?  Yes!  Effective?  We’ll See...

Sooo...  Here’s some backasswards logic that may or may not end up doing any good, but I figured it made sense so I’d try.  Cis guys have facial hair so they shave their faces to get rid of it, but when you shave the hair will grow back thicker/darker/worse/whatever, or so I’ve always been told.  So I decided to start shaving my face to see if eventually it will start growing back in such a way that it’s at least more noticeable.  5 o’clock shadow or stubble or something.  I’ve never wanted a massive beard or anything so if this will make just a little bit of a difference and help my face to naturally appear more masculine then slicing my lip open this morning will seem waaay more worth while.  Seriously though..  how the fuck do you not slice your face to ribbons??  No spicy food for me today.  :P   I’ll update my progress as soon as I can tell if it’s working or a waste of time.

[lil-fkn-bitch]

Girls fuck the same dick 50 times it doesn’t matter. Girls fuck 50 different dicks and their vagina has stretched into a black hole. Fuckboy logic.

[our-secret-adventuress]

SAY IT LOUDER BECAUSE THIS IS SPOT ON

[drillheadonfire-deactivated2014]

whats the difference between bi people and unicorns

i can see unicorns on movies and tv

[thesweetpianowritingdownmylife]

I told this to my mum and she was like “That’s not t… yes it is.”

[that-nonbinary-guy]

Also, unicorns on tv are called unicorns, not ‘horses that don’t like labels’

[comradesleep]

horses that don’t like labels