kal🐙

live for your eulogy, not your resume; 21✌ snap: kakkked

[kakkedsmurff]

accepting that I destroyed this and now have to let go and move on, is the hardest thing I’ve had to do in years

[kakkked]

today. well, today, almost exactly a year later, I learned that while I may have done some things that hurt you, and I sincerely apologize for that, you sir.. you fucked her, while still with me. and for that, I refuse to accept that I am the sole reason we were destroyed. And I hope you’re happy, but I pray that I never, ever, see you or hear from you ever again. because I almost died over us. and to find out you were fucking her, you have no idea how crushed I was. I am. You hurt me. And I can’t promise I wouldn’t do the same if ever given the chance. So again I pray, that I never see or hear from you. Ever again in my life.

[danger]

Mr. Robot

[eliminated]

[somepiecesofmyheartandsoul-deac]

“If I tell you what hurts me the most, will you promise me to speak nothing and just listen? If I tell you what hurts me the most, will you promise me with your whole heart and soul, that you will not hurt for me and with me?”

— Lukas W. // If I tell you what hurts

[bpdfox]

[anniespositivity]

You do not need permission to speak, take up space or express your feelings. So, please do not apologise for talking too much, asking for help, showing your emotions and being vulnerable. You have every right to do so. You do not need permission to simply exist, my love. Do not let anyone make you feel small, for you are so valuable and important. You are allowed to express yourself. You are not a burden, annoying, overreacting or anything like that. You matter and so do your thoughts and emotions, so do not ever apologise for sharing them. 

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Things I know about healing: Speaking kindly to yourself helps a lot.”

— Rebecca Ray

[anniespositivity]

Whoever you are, wherever you may be and whatever you may be doing right now, I hope this message finds you at the right time: You matter so much, my love. Without you the world would not be the same. If you feel…

… hurt, I want you to know that you are going to feel okay again, you are going to experience good days.

… lost, I want you to remember that this is an essential part of human life; we find ourselves and then we lose ourselves again, which then leads to exploring who we are and thus to recreating ourselves. 

… depressed, I want you to believe that the voices in your head are lying to you. You are good enough just the way you are. This storm will pass, my love, I promise. 

… lonely, I hope you will soon realise that you are anything but alone. There are so many people who love and care about you, including me. You will never be alone.

… unhappy, I want you to remember that everything happens for a reason and you are exactly where you are meant to be right now. If a situation makes you feel angry or sad, try your best to either accept it or change your mindset towards it. You are responsible for your own happiness.

You are such a fighter and I am incredibly proud of you. I love you very much.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Healing is layers. Healing is time. Healing is excruciating. Once you think it’s done, it’s not.”

— Mary DeMuth

[kindnotestoself]

It’s okay if you’re not who you thought you’d be yet. It’s okay to be in the process of change.

[unspokengrief]

healing series 31.08.2019

[glittergroovy]

[cosmic-siren90]

[samxcamargo]

Maybe it’s not that we want to go back to who we were. Maybe we just romanticize that time period because the traumatic things hadn’t happened yet.

Samantha Camargo

[samxcamargo]

The trauma did not make us stronger. We made ourselves stronger by adapting, by growing, by choosing..second after second.. to keep going.

Samantha Camargo

[positiveautistic-deactivated202]

”The truth is, you won’t love yourself more if, for example, you lose or gain weight, or undergo cosmetic surgery. You may feel more confident, sure. But true self-love is when you appreciate where you are and who you are, regardless of any transformation you aspire to.”

- Good Vibes, Good life. By Vex King

[positivelypositivethoughts]