Well. Say Something.

learning and unlearning go hand in hand.

[tatooineknights]

[kalamkirpan]

when you’re hooked on a dumbass panjabi song again

[onlytwitterpics]

[kalamkirpan]

Queening

[kalamkirpan]

A random sign at the Gurdwara: "please don't sit on the blue carpet" Us being funny: "most likely the carpet is new. Like Punjabi moms keep the plastic on the sofas for a while to keep em new, I bet they trynna keep that carpet as fresh as possible. Lolol" Some random aunty who is probably third generation non-Punjabi: "yeah, these punjabis who came in the 70s and 80s would invite us to their homes but their furniture would be covered with plastic. /rolls eyes/ so ugh" My mental monologue: "well bitch, people who have to work hard to attain a semblance of luxury tend to place an irrational importance on those items that show luxury. People who gave up all their existing comfort to struggle in a new country with a limited understanding of the switches in cultural norms tend to hold on to whatever they think can help them become a part of this new life. And even if ultimately their need to have and then show off material items might not be ideal and aligned to Sikhi, but neither is your holier than thou "nakk uccha" tone, so imma just leave this conversation right here." Me irl: "haha oh I see a friend, bye"

[thelovejournals]

You know you love someone when you cannot put into words how they make you feel.

Margaret Mead (via thelovejournals)

Today @ Vaheguru after listening to Raam japo ji aisey aisey sung by Bhai Nirmal Singh Khalsa

[richard-madden-archived]

robb stark + colors

[naturaekos]

“When someone cries so hard that it hurts their throat, it is out of frustration or knowing that no matter what you can do or attempt to do can change the situation. When you feel like you need to cry, when you want to just get it out, relieve some of the pressure from the inside - that is true pain. Because no matter how hard you try or how bad you want to, you can’t. That pain just stays in place. Then, if you are lucky, one small tear may escape from those eyes that water constantly. That one tear, that tiny, salty, droplet of moisture is a means of escape. Although it’s just a small tear, it is the heaviest thing in the world. And it doesn’t do a damn thing to fix anything.”

Chase Brooks (via naturaekos)

[kadywicker]

reblog this and tag this with the state that sounds fakest to you. I’ll go first: oklahoma

[pizzafelony]

[baawri]

[kalamkirpan]

brown girl: is confident, artistic and graceful Brown fuckboi: but why isn't your attention on meeeeeee????

[kalamkirpan]

im a dick

last night we were at this wedding reception. a non panjabi wedding reception. with family members who did dance performances on Panjabi music. there were atrocities like cheesy choreography, off beat dancing and people just butchering my beloved folk dance, Bhangra. The Bride's family is half Panjabi and the guy's family is Delhi Punjabis. There were a lot of Chicken options in the food and I overheard the guy's sister or something saying "everything is chicken chicken chicken- what do you expect from these panjabis." And then the same bitch danced to "sadi gali" looking like a stiff limbed uncoordinated no rhythm having cunt. and of course, my face was expressing my feelings big time. Me and my sister in law were side eyeing the fuck out of the whole affair. Every attempt of theirs to jack our culture made us embrace our tea-sipping self and it made no difference that we were sitting right next to the groom's family table and laughing it up at their "performance". if you like stupid, imma tell you the truth. YOURE STUPID. STOP APPROPRIATING MY PANJABI CULTURE. Dance to your own shitty Bollywood crap. FOH

[kalamkirpan]

im a dick

last night we were at this wedding reception. a non panjabi wedding reception. with family members who did dance performances on Panjabi music. there were atrocities like cheesy choreography, off beat dancing and people just butchering my beloved folk dance, Bhangra. The Bride's family is half Panjabi and the guy's family is Delhi Punjabis. There were a lot of Chicken options in the food and I overheard the guy's sister or something saying "everything is chicken chicken chicken- what do you expect from these panjabis." And then the same bitch danced to "sadi gali" looking like a stiff limbed uncoordinated no rhythm having cunt. and of course, my face was expressing my feelings big time. Me and my sister in law were side eyeing the fuck out of the whole affair. Every attempt of theirs to jack our culture made us embrace our tea-sipping self and it made no difference that we were sitting right next to the groom's family table and laughing it up at their "performance". if you like stupid, imma tell you the truth. YOURE STUPID. STOP APPROPRIATING MY PANJABI CULTURE. Dance to your own shitty Bollywood crap. FOH

[kalamkirpan]

me anywhere tbh

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x

[kalamkirpan]

Husband has ordered the entire collection of ATLA comics THIS IS NOT A DRILL