y'now that you're actually free to observe and decry the issues within your own demographic and that doesn't necessarily mean it comes from a self loathing place? actually, you know it's always worse to look the other way and project the fault on the more vulnerable to discredit their own experiences? you know you can't pathologize your way out of it forever and expect it won't have any repercussions if everyone else also do that? you know you're actually allowed to not be that kind of coward? i know the other cowards don't like this, but at the end of the day that's still what they are and should be recognized as. reverse oppression don't exist also, it's all made up to maintain cowardice at best and at worse it gives shit like great replacement theory? y'now it's normal some think you're trash for being like this? you know the people you may have power over might see a correlation and you're not entitled to have your feelings priorized in that regard? y'now? you know that you don't have to be that nice about it either because if people only respond positively to what sound kind it might just mean they only approve of you individually in the moment and it might just drop to what it initially was once you walk out? y'now you don't have to enforce respectability politics meant to oppress the most vulnerable to maintain their oppressors entitlement to comfort? you know that, right? you know there's legitimately good reasons to challenge what makes your own individual comfort? you all love to talk about self care but building dignity also do count as such in a way that's more meaningful than being willfully blind to all that, y'now? you know it's maybe not your fault, but derailing every instances the hat may fit makes you reprehensible weither you like it or not and that's all there is. you know it's not a specific form of oppression to call you out on that? but it becomes one when the treatment is leveraged against the most vulnerables to isolate and undermine their ressources? you know you can be the oppressor? you know you can't be an objectively good person given that's only subjective, also that being a good person doesn't mean being polite, pleasant and cordial? most of the status quo try to be polite, pleasant and cordial and yet the higher on the ladder the harder it is to be good to those at the bottom. those at the bottom don't owe you comfort they don't have for themselves and if you think so, well, you're shitty and deserve to feel bad about it until you know better.
