I just realized I never did an introduction post!
I won't bore you with my whole back story, but I've had some not so great sexual experiences in the past. Shame and guilt based sexual "education" and repression mixed with unhealthy power dynamics and misogyny in a relationship are not a great combo. After I got out of that mess, the kink community here on Tumblr actually helped me process through a lot of it. It's been years now, and I'm genuinely doing a lot better.
Now I have a wife, and she is wonderful and sweet and kind, and gentle, but she is also like 90% of the way to the ace side of the spectrum. I, on the other hand, am pretty much horny 24/7 (that is also something that I had to learn to navigate in a healthy way after all the shame-based religious views of sex I got growing up). We are so happy and in love, but because of this mismatch, I oftentimes need to find other outlets to express my sexual desires so I'm not just dry-humping her constantly lol.
Alone time with spicy romance novels, fanfiction, and Tumblr blogs like this one are great for that (and she is fully on board and aware, so don't worry, there's nothing shady going on behind her back). If you would like to share your pics with me I am okay with it, but just know I will not be sharing personal pictures of myself. I love reading and writing sexy little scenes, giving and receiving spicy DMs, and flirting with mutuals, just so long as we both understand it will never grow into a meaningful romantic/sexual relationship and will never include in-person hook ups.
