hi my name is kel. im (probably) the host/a fictive in an osdd-1b system. we dont have a system name or anything so i guess you can just collectively call us kel until we learn more about ourselves :p you wont see me doing it a lot but its ok to separate me from my source
im still learning about plurality and stuff. we dont really have the best communication or anything.. actually, our communication is shittttā¦ but were trying super hard!! šŖ
bodily, we are 18 years old and so ofc i would prefer to interact with people around my age!!! i use we/i interchangeably. this is a secret account since i really dont wanna open up to my friends about this and, if you know my mainā¦ no you dont :)
I WILL NEVER PURPOSEFULLY SPREAD MISINFORMATION. if you catch me doing so please please please correct me. i want to learn.
DNI and all that under cut!!
DO NOT INTERACT
fake claimers - i dont care what youre fakeclaiming or why youre fakeclaiming
ānarc abuseā truthers - or believers in any other (insert mental illness here) abuse. just say ur ableist and move on
you post about args or analog horror - awesome interests to have but unfortunately they can make me dissociate and feel paranoid when im not in the best state of mind (exception: if ur willing to tag or dont post about them too much)
youre really into discourse - self explanatory
meanies :( - self explanatory. be nice to me pls
creeps** - pedophiles, hebephiles, maps, whatever you wanna call yourselves. all the same in my eyes. (people with POCD or sexually violent intrusive thoughts are not in this group, of course)
anti therian/fictionkin/otherkin - self explanatory
polycrit - im ambiamorous lol
terf/gendercrit - IM TRANS????
all radfems - i understand that a handful of you are chill but theres too much of an overlap with terfs. i wouldnt feel safe, no matter how nice you are (or say you are)
weird about religion - this includes nonreligious or spiritual people that make fun of people that follow a religion, as well as people that harass or are generally assholes to people that dont follow their religion (im luciferian)
**i dont really wanna get into the proship/antiship debate (its way too nuanced for me to take a black and white stance) but if ur jerking it to depictions of toddlers or anything like that then yeah no.
ill just block you if you otherwise make me uncomfortable
BYF
i fake flirt with people im close to (with consent ofc)
just bc i interact with somebody doesnt necessarily mean that i agree with everything they believe in lol
i have NVLD and autism so i might not seem very aware. it can take me a while to understand things. please dont call me dumb or anything like that, even as a joke (im ok with most other joking insults)
i dont know much about syscourse and i dont care to know. we are, however, traumagenic and wed prefer to interact with systems that are also traumagenic (not anti endo or anything)
im always learning more about myself every day
PLEASE INTERACT
didosdd systems
queer people
omori fans
people with learning disabilities
people that post about mental health or positivity
Oh this is so fun, I finally get to introduce myself
Hi, Iām Lola! My pronouns are she/her. I have a personal account, you can ask for it if you want. I think Iāve been fronting enough that you can officially consider me the new host! I donāt know where Kel is but I wonāt mess with any of his stuff just in case he comes back. Iām a symptom holder (especially for ADHD) and a factive. I wonāt say my source here though because honestly Iām so separated from it that youād never know what it is anyways!
This account is super small so I really want to start interacting with more people in the system community, I think itāll be really fun! Just let me know if Iām being annoying.
If you believe in personality tests and stuff (I donāt know if I do but itās still fun), Iām a 7w8 ENFP! :) Okay yeah thatās all! I might not be on here a LOT but I will be on here!
It's so surreal being now diagnosed with both DID *and* BPD twice now. Both from trauma specialists. The only con to it all is that the only competent therapist is 2hrs away from me, and having weekly in person therapy is going to break my wallet, and it was only possible to see that therapist by jumping through legal, government junk.
However, to all the DID, OSDD, PDID, UDD, and other CDD systems: You don't need ANY diagnosis to be valid. I'm lucky, not many systems have the privilege to be diagnosed once, let alone *twice*. Never be hard on yourself for self diagnosis and being unable to get a 'proper' diagnosis.
we had Unnamed Christian Alter front like almost all day today (mostly at work) and everything about them seems so,, functional ?? theyre so patient and kind and they get along with everyone,, literally nothing like the rest of us
religion is kind of silly for our system because kel is luciferian, mj is a satanist, we have a very very christian alter fronting more often now that keeps trying to make us join a church, we have ANOTHER christian alter that also keeps trying to make us join a church BUT a different one because apparently theyre both christian but different types ??, and the rest of our alters arent religious to my knowledge
our communication is getting so much better. zero still wont talk to me or anything but i think that recognizing what it does for us helps. i think that at first we were kind of scared of it but now i kind of understand
its angry
i would be too
and zero is the only way we can let it out. we would implode without it. pushing people away is the only way it knows how to keep us safe. there have been times that its been beneficial, and times that it really hasnt.. either way im grateful for zero and i wouldnt trade it for the world
I need minors to learn how to lie online again. Your name is Derek, youāre 25 and work in accounting now. Please for your own safety learn how to fucking lie. And if you donāt want to lie, then donāt put your age anywhere. Donāt even say whether youāre a minor or not. It is perfectly easy to avoid adult spaces without signposting that you are doing so because youāre a child.
Stating your age doesnāt protect you this only makes you a target.
Tbh this is kind of absurd victim-blame-y advice phrased as anti-grooming information. I'm sure it's well-meaning, but lying about your age does not protect you from abuse. You're presenting it as if we, the generation who lied, were very safe from abuse. Lying about or otherwise obfuscating my age did not protect me from abuse. First of all, lying about being an adult can make people treat you in a way that is completely inappropriate even if they aren't pedophiles... because they are assuming they are speaking to an adult. The other side of it is that most people seeking to abuse children know how to spot them whether they lie or not. Children are largely not capable of convincingly posing as adults and we should not hold them to that standard. This is advice meant to comfort an adult audience into believing there is a simple solution to online grooming.
Instead of encouraging children to lie, we might try and educate them about online safety in a more productive way. We should spread information about grooming, what it looks like and the consequences of it. Children usually begin talking to adults because that adult is charismatic and kind and gives them attention they aren't receiving. If we can help children understand that this relationship is a traumatic one, we can help them not fall into the cycle of abuse. Adults who are in online spaces with children should understand their power and help the children in that community if they are able. I see better education about these issues in younger people, which is part of why they ID as minors and reject adults from entering their spaces. It is an imperfect, potentially dangerous solution, but it isn't any worse than lying about your age and operating online as though you were an adult.
As an example, when I entered a relationship with an adult, they did not know my age at all until we were already together. They did not know my legal age, legal name, or where I lived. I knew that I was entering this relationship, but had never been taught that a relationship looking like that, one that I entered willingly, could be pedophilic or abusive. They accepted my age and continued the relationship because the illusion of consent had already been manufactured. Lying about my age did not help me, but what would have helped me was an actual understanding of what grooming is and that it isn't just "being tricked into having sex with an old man" or anything else I could avoid via internet safety smarts.
