Bootyyyshaker9000

hello and welcome to the chaos • yes i'm a steven universe/rise leo & donnie/jack skellington kinnie tf you gonna do about it • she/her • currently identifying as an aceflux demiromantic • rottmnt is my hyperfixation right now :P

[view-from-up-here]

[halfinvisible]

queue this post when it’s your birthday and be surprise

I queued this like 8 months ago I’ve waited a long time for this moment

[kermitthephrogg]

Bappy hirthday dummy :3

[kermitthephrogg]

When you realize the only reason you weren't fond of a character is because you act almost identical and have gone through similar traumas and because of your self hatred you reflected it onto said character because you unknowingly see yourself as them and feel the need to criticize them as much as you do yourself... yeah I'm gonna go schedule an appointment with my therapist now thanks. (btw I didn't hate young or older Steven I just overly criticized some of his actions in SUF)

[kermitthephrogg]

CAN I PLEASE BE FRIENDS WITH THIS DOOFUS PLEASE I WILL LITERALLY NEVER ASK FOR ANYTHING ELSE I JUST NEED MORE PPL LIKE HIM IN MY LIFE DUDE I'M BEGGING OVER HERE

[kermitthephrogg]

and i stg if some of y'all don't know what little bear is imma throw hands

[akindplace]

Allow people to like you, to enjoy your company, to want to be your friend. Allow them to compliment you, allow others to think you're cool and funny even if you think you're not. It is not up to you to tell others how to feel, and remember that people might see the positive things in you and qualities that you have been failing to see while being too self-critical. Allow yourself to be liked by other people, even when you don't see why they should. Don't self-isolate because you think you are not good enough for other people.

[unorcadox]

which way will you travel? / towards healing / towards giving up

a remake of my original edit

[violetvibrations]

@ jzcreativespace

[violetvibrations]

@ oshthoughts

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[cupcakedex]

Snorlax latte art by George_10g!

[amodern-mess]

If you recognize these eyes, this pain, then you’re one of us.

[thebandfruit]

You miss the times you saw kindness

They miss the times you were easy to control

[thestralboy]

Anger is going to break me

[invictus1875]

Is that too much to ask?

[unwelcome-ozian]

[invalidkeyword-blog]

🚩 Unhealthy relationship red flags 🚩

(ctto the rightful owner)

[one-abuse-survivor]

[Image description: five slides with black text over a grey background that read as follows:

Gaslighting by abuser parents looks like… “You’ve always been like this. You’ve always had trouble remembering things. You’ve always loved making up stories. You were a crazy/evil child.” Acting friendly and casual around you right after abusing you, as though nothing just happened or it wasn’t a big deal. “You’re crazy/delusional/imagining things.” “That never happened. And if it did, it wasn’t as bad as you’re making it out to be.” “You’re a liar. You’re trying to make me look bad.” “Oh, yeah, [victim] will be spending the weekend with us!” (Pretending everything is normal even after you’ve tried to set boundaries such as cutting them out of your life). “I don’t know what I could’ve possibly done to deserve this treatment from you.” (Acting clueless, hurt, and like they genuinely don’t know why you’re hurt/mad even after you’ve opened up to them about the pain they caused you).

In reality… You’re not crazy. You’re not “delusional”. Your memories aren’t lying to you: your abuser is. You’re not lying to make them look bad: lying is something you consciously DECIDE to do, and all you’ve decided to do is be honest about your feelings and memories. They know perfectly well what they’ve done to you. They remember. They just want you do doubt your perception and memory to have control over you and to ensure you can’t hold them accountable. No one knows you better than you know yourself. No one has a right to decide what “actually” goes on inside your own mind. End image description]

These are just some examples of things abusers say to make you doubt your perception and memories of their abuse (taken from personal experience and the stories of people who have messaged me). Feel free to add your own examples if they’re not listed here and if you want to help spread awareness about what gaslighting looks like!

What does guilt-tripping by abusive parents look like?

What does victim-blaming by abusive parents look like?

For more information on gaslighting by abusive parents, check out this video about how the 11 warning signs of gaslighting are represented in Tangled