hi maybe even hello

my main is @toftie, heads up i rb a lot here

[kiddere]

hey please feel free to soft/hardblock me on this blog or @toftie if i tend to spam rb too much.. thanks and sorry, take care 🌱

[k-simplex]

Noticing my shoes hurt and, because I'm a systemspilled analytical thinker, immediately thinking "Who benefits?"

[theweirdwideweb]

[rimonoroni2]

unfortunately very true. Doing Better does not always mean never being upset or never being triggered or never having trouble. often Doing Better means experiencing those things and being able to keep going/cope healthily/move on. if you’re in a bubble with no sensation, if you’re numbing yourself out, that’s not what recovering really is. it won’t help you have a happier life it’ll just make your world smaller and smaller until you can’t fit anywhere anymore. gotta learn to make peace with the hard stuff too, that’s the only way to keep going

[voidcreations]

Look at my birthday cake...

[misskittygrimm]

First of all, Happy (belated?) Birthday!

Second, who baked your cake because I want one!

[celceta]

I love seasonal fruits they're like girl we're back lol

[angelicguy]

i bet girls hated it in 1902 cuz you would constantly go on dates w guys who are working on an invention to present at the world fair

[the-messhall]

Cheese Danish 🔆

[catasters]

[loveridden1999]

now that the world cup is out of the way can we focus on me instead

[gaydiation-poisoning]

It would kill half the 19-25 year olds online to realize "I can't help it I have trauma" is one of THE quintessential abuser excuses

[gaydiation-poisoning]

Like there is a difference between "My trauma creates impulsive urges and has changed my instinctive reactions to be irrational, I need to relearn shit." vs "I'm traumatized so I Can't Help It and you're not allowed to expect better of me"

[hitmyvape-deactivated20251006]

[queen-erika-the-songful]

My Scene - Room Makeover

[mewvore]

"we detected a mature post" yeah I'm in my 30s

[hagushka]

Fairytale flight

[drops-of-universe]

please dont vape your blueberry ice flavor around my kid. we are raising him on marlboro reds exclusively.

[heateron]

ville valo of him, 2000.

[sycamorality]

did you know you can rename everything on your pc

[rna-world]

trying this out for myself in order to bond with my compouter more I think