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#0045 planets through the houses: (7h) n.02

the seventh house (7h) is representative of our social and romantic lives (our social and romantic relationships, as well as marriage/long-term commitment). where the first house is representative of who we are on the inside, the seventh house is representative of who we are with others; what others have that we don't, and how these other people complement us. the first house, being the ascendent, is our own individuality and overall life direction; the seventh house, being the descendent, is our duality with our partners, and how our partners may complete our life direction.

the seventh house will always be in the opposite sign of the first house. this is representative of the opposing traits of our ascendent that we may repress within us, but our partners (and marriage) will reflect. to some extent, the descendent will be the house of traits and qualities we need to embrace within ourselves. this way a total balance is complete within our charts and lives ✨

planets and asteroids in the seventh house will influence the 7h fractionally. these planets will help determine the real strength or weakness of the seventh house by assigning the house with certain traits and influences that will affect marginal, though nonetheless potent, qualities/traits and values of this house. what this means is that, if the seventh house is under the rulership of an extroverted sign, the presence of the moon, neptune, pluto, or even saturn in the 7h could affect this social and outgoing house into something more introspective and observant, thus influencing these natives to approach certain scenarios through a sensible and cautious lens, thanks to these planets. the same goes if the 7h ruler is shy and introverted, but planets like the sun, jupiter, or even venus are present. the result is this seemingly humble and timid character becomes more extroverted in small but influential ways

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#0027 planets through the different houses (9h) n.01

sun in 7h –

if your sun is in the 7h, your identity will mostly revolve around your social groups and your romantic relationships. you may be social and extroverted in nature with a strong desire to be loved and liked by others. naturally you may be quite popular in your social settings, perhaps being the type to attract a large crowd or group of friends wherever you go. you have a likeable personality, perhaps due to how kind and gentle you are to others; others find it easy to open up to you, to talk to you, and to be friends with you. in ideal manifestations, this placement has a fair and just stance on the world; you may value justice and equality, and you know how to be impartial towards everything. being level-headed, rational, and objective, you tend to make a good negator/mediator.

your desire to like others, and be liked in return, is reflected in your kind, humble, generous, and people-pleasing personality. you tend to centre yourself around relationships, particularly of romantic quality, where you find your sense of purpose and general direction in the company of others. things seem to revolve around what others are doing, what they want to do, or where they're going. you may not enjoy being alone, and even if you do, you may have a strong notion on wanting or having a partner in your life. typically with this placement, your desire for love encompasses everything you do, and your desire for a partner is what defines the rest of your personality. many of your values, boundaries, and perceptions of yourself revolve around your romantic life, especially in more negative circumstances, where you care a lot (and maybe even obsessively) about what others think, thus forming your opinions of yourself based on how others perceive you. it's why you may have trouble standing your ground, defending yourself, or making boundaries clear to others. you want to bend to the favour of others, mostly because your value and personal worth is reliant on how others perceive your worth and value. the sun experiences its fall in this house, meaning the sun will express its more weaker energies here. the challenge in following your own dreams, goals, values, or even company can cause you to become overly vain and chase attention and validation from others.

this placement isn't all bad, however, because still, at the end of the day, 7h suns have a very popular, attractive, and receptive nature. they are harmonious and graceful, and have a strong eye for aesthetics. they tend to have an optimistic view on life. if you approach relationships with strong boundaries and principles, and have a strong belief in your own abilities and worth, you will naturally see and use relationships as a way of fortifying and improving your already solid and successful life, rather than replacing your inner void with the presence and attention of other people

with the sun in the 7h, natives could attract partners that are confident, self-assured, ambitious, and creative in nature. their personalities could be more extroverted and curious; perhaps they're popular or just very involved in social groups. negatively aspected, these partners could be arrogant, egotistical, lack a spiritual identity, or just be very insecure and shallow in themselves. depending on how these partners manifest, these natives need to learn the importance of maintaining their own identity and individuality in their relationships. they must depend on their own company and validation. this involves splitting from their partners and maintaining the balance of good and bad in the relationship

moon in 7h –

if your moon is in the 7h, how you process and express your emotions will closely relate with your friendships and romantic partnerships. natives with this placement tend to place a lot of emotional reliance on their partnerships, sometimes more than they should, because of the joy and security they have in these partnerships. they may enjoy the idea of love and romance simply because of all the things associated with love, romance, and dating. with that, these natives tend to be very loyal and devotional to their partners; if they manage to find the right one, they become emotional powerhouses with a deeply driven commitment and passion. as a 7h moon native, you may find your form of security through your relationships more than in your own company. even if you do prefer your own company, you definitely still experience a strong fondness and understanding for your friends and loved ones. there is a natural grace to this placement, possibly because of its reciprocative, social, and emotionally expressive nature. you may be popular or just very liked by others. there is an essence of friendship with this placement – these people love having friends and partners, and they make very good friends and partners, too

if this placement manifests negatively, natives may expect a lot of lessons regarding their personal space and individuality. despite being fair and just in nature, they may be the type to act overly cautious or bend easily to the feelings of others because of how sensitive they are to other people's needs. there exists little to no backbone with this placement, so many of these natives will have to learn how to grow one; i.e. to create and stick by their boundaries, to defend themselves from toxic and negative people, and to rely on their own emotions more. with that, if these natives place too much focus on their partners, then they risk losing themselves in the process, so much so they begin adopting the emotions and desires of their partners. they may be overly obsessed with the idea of love and romance, possibly even romanticising their partners to be something they really are not. the desire to be liked by others lays heavy on their mind; they want to be accepted by others, rather than be seen as social outcasts of some sort.

for some natives, the idea of social ostracism is scary because of how involved these natives want to feel in their groups. it may be why they are so driven to please other people, rather than following their own lead

natives with this placement may attract partners who are more emotional in nature; they could be compassionate, empathetic, intuitive, and very humble. these partners could be more maternal in nature, perhaps taking on the role of a mother. they may be family-oriented or just have very strong values surrounding the concept of family and loyalty. legacy is important to them. more negatively, they could be overly emotional, sentimental, and perhaps hot and cold. they could be irrational with their emotions, perhaps too clingy or needy. they could be moody.

mercury in 7h –

with mercury in the 7h comes a drive to be well liked and noticed by others. typically with this social combination there is an inclination to learn from others – how others think and why. there's a pull towards interacting and engaging with others for the sake of understanding the self also; these natives may simply learn a lot about themselves through the eyes and experiences of others. much of their mental and social development will come from their friends and romantic relationships, where they learn certain cues, values, beliefs, or perceptions to apply in their own personal and romantic lives. for some of these natives, there may be an interest in being close friends before committing to their partners as lovers. maybe they need a certain form of mental stimulation to feel happy and satisfied in their relationships. as a 7h mercury, you may find relationships to be more about how and what you can learn about yourself and others through experiencing different dynamics and things with these partners... but for you to feel truly happy, you must feel as though you are being mentally fulfilled; to have your curiosities and social needs met. you may become bored if you lack the mental stimulation to keep you tied down to your partners.

one of the important lessons for this placement will be in becoming more impartial in how these people view things. the tendency to look at things from the perspective of others can damage their own opinions and experiences. they may unintentionally adopt a hive mind mentality, whereby they think according to what their social group(s) think. they may share similar values or beliefs to their friends but only because these beliefs and/or values seem to have some element of truth in them, even though these natives don't really relate with them at all. they must mentally separate themselves from the hive mind and have their own opinions and contributions. along with that, as a 7h mercury, you could meet a lot of your partners through friends abroad, or through traveling. as these natives are typically educated and cultured on other people's backgrounds, they tend to have more exotic preferences, possibly dating those of different nationalities to them

natives with this placement may attract very logical/rational, humble, though opinionated and sly partners. although their partners are extroverted, social, perhaps humanitarian, intelligent, and well spoken, they could also be very demanding or high maintenance in the sense of: they need a lot of attention and stimulation to keep them tied down. maybe some are spontaneous (traveling) in nature, and maybe some are more academics, holistics, and information focused.

venus in 7h –

if your venus is in the 7h, you may be the popular or well-liked type, possibly with many friends and romantic partners. for you to be in love with somebody, you require a friendship or a relationship wherein the two of you understand each other really well. with a graceful, humble, and devotional approach towards relationships, you appreciate relationships that give you the peace, harmony, and security you innately desire. there's no real desire for competitive, overly spontaneous, or eccentric relationships; rather, a desire for something real and pure, stable, and wholehearted. many of these natives desire an idealised version of love wherein their partner(s) are something out of a movie – perfect, clean, clever, the most beautiful, and so on. for men, in particular, they tend to want very feminine women; for women, they tend to want men who embody more feminine traits or, alternatively, just understand their emotions and needs very well. in essence, there is a strong desire to pamper and be pampered, as well as to love and be loved in return.

many of these natives may struggle in their relationships mostly because of how they perceive relationships and accordingly express their values and standards. if negatively aspected, this placement could be very shallow and vain in relationships, purely basing their values, ideals, and standards based on what others want, rather than what they relate to themselves. their desire to be loved by others will bend them towards the favour of others. some of these people will have no spine at all, and will have no boundaries whatsoever, thus becoming very susceptible to being used by others. they may learn a lot about their individuality, personal purpose, values, and boundaries from their relationships, where their relationships will continually challenge them to take their own lead and initiative. for these natives to be happy in their relationships, they must be in relationships that validate their need for attention, love, harmony, and peace. but ironically, if these natives are so insecure in themselves, and if they base their worth and validation on others, these relationships will not be peaceful or happy at all, all because they are chasing love and partners for superficial reasons, and to replace their own inner void, rather than as a way of improving their already happy and balanced lives

with venus in this house, these natives could attract people who are more feminine or emotional in nature. they could be humble, popular, well liked by others, or very involved in certain social groups; they could also be graceful, very kind, and they may think a lot about their appearance and/or identities around others. more negatively, they could be vain and superficial; they could lack confidence and an inner security in themselves. they could also be overly go-lucky, perhaps indecisive. sometimes these partners could struggle with being "on the fence"; their impartiality can become a real threat to their relationship with these natives

mars in 7h –

mars experiences its detriment in the 7h, meaning mars will experience some of its least favourable qualities in the 7h or in the sign of libra. as a 7h mars, relationships may take on explosive, hot and cold, spontaneous, and intense qualities. they may have a fleeting nature, i.e. be very short-lived. there may be an element of un-seriousness, a lack of commitment, or some form of competition. you may feel as though your relationships are tumultuous in nature, perhaps very intense and passionate, but difficult all the same. they seem to bring a lot of anger or action into your life. in negative instances, this placement could signify ill marriage or a general lack of luck with happy and loving relationships. instead, relationships may feel very passionate, then cold, and then passionate again; there may be toxic dynamics within these relationships, perhaps some element of obsessiveness, control, or manipulation. things seem to be hot-headed all the time.

natives with mars in the 7h may sometimes be more attracted to male traits. for women, they may want a manly man; for men, they may want to be a manly man for woman. for some men, they may see women as a competition or a game.

natives with this placement could manifest partners who are temperamental, dominant, possessive, and perhaps manipulative or controlling. these partners will be of masculine nature, i.e. robust in personality and maybe in looks, but the range of masculinity will vary. some men will be tougher than others; some may have the potential of it. nonetheless, these partners will be driven and determined to win and keep these natives for themselves. they could be very loyal and passionate, or they could be very intense, aloof, and noncommittal

jupiter in 7h –

jupiter in the 7h usually means good luck in relationship and marital affairs. as a 7h jupiter native, you may experience a multitude of friends and romantic partners. you may be popular and well-liked by others. maybe you find it easy taking the lead in social groups and settings. for this placement to feel its happiest, jupiter needs room to roam and expand, so for these natives to feel happy in their relationships, their relationships/partners need to be of spontaneous, expansive, and romantic nature. this placement can be very dramatic and "extra" in what it wants out of love and romance, perhaps overly idealistic or delusional, though still very lucky and fortunate in what it can attract. in some crucial transits, this placement could indicate finding a lucky and wealthy partner, or landing a successful opportunity to elevate one's social status amongst others. as a whole, this placement can express very fortunate, happy, and secure qualities. for these natives, whilst they enjoy their friends and romantic partners, they have no issues being on their own.

relationships may take on religious or spiritual undertones, meaning these natives could express more religious or spiritual desires or ways of loving in their relationships. perhaps they want a religious partner or they want a religious marriage/ceremony. maybe some feel celibate to some extent because they want to wait for the perfect one. maybe relationships feel destined to some extent, like they were made to be for these people, and that they are trials for error and learning. they are never taken at face value, and despite being a very independent sign, can most certainly be very devoted to their partners.

if this placement manifests negatively, there may be tendencies of cheating, being overly abstinent, or having no sense of responsibility or grounding in relationships. there may be delusional feelings or ideas surrounding love and what that looks like. these natives may perceive their relationships more of a game, perhaps seeing them as competition, rather than something more serious than this. they may be overly delusional in love, possibly over-idealising their partners

with jupiter in this house, natives may attract partners of jupiteranian nature. they could be religious, spiritual, or just very in tune with their intuition. they could live a holistic lifestyle. they could also be popular, likeable, spontaneous, wildly romantic, passionate, and wealthy. the types of partners these natives attract could also be gamblers, cheaters, overly spontaneous, and pose a real lack of stability, security, and responsibility

saturn in 7h –

saturn experiences its exaltation in the 7h, meaning the way these natives perceive and approach relationships will be with seriousness and real devotion. in general, as a 7h saturn, you may be quite impartial when it comes to your general life. you may be very rational or objective towards things. there may be a strong sense of justice – what is wrong and what is right. with it being in its exaltation, there is great potential in areas where negotiating and mediation is crucial, and why natives with this placement can be good decision makers.

where saturn sits in the chart is where seriousness, rationality, and some form of hardship will manifest. for example, as relationships are taken seriously, you may rarely experience love that feels genuine to you. there may be a sense of responsibility that comes with relationships, instead of a love that feels more childlike, spontaneous, and lively in nature. you may feel excluded in your social groups, perhaps wanting to be popular and likes by others, yet feeling overlooked no matter what you do. in lesser favourable instances, there is a real lack of personal worth and values here, and natives with this placement tend to learn a lot about these things through the relationships they encounter. for some, they may vainly chase relationships as a way of satisfying a void within them. there may be a strong desire for attention and validation, fully knowing they are capable of building this validation within themselves, though chasing others anyway. as a 7h saturn, this exaltation can promise a prominent social standing in society; there may be a strong pull towards humanitarian or political matters, perhaps, or a general popularity amongst others because of your maturity and standard of boundaries and values. in relationships, you may experience the love you desire through your realistic visions of love, how you express your devotion, and how you expect these things to be returned to you. in the case this saturn experiences its full and most favourable manifestation, you have the validation and inner worth from within you – you do not emptily chase people for the security and stability you already have within yourself.

natives with this placement may attract partners of saturnian nature. humble, impartial, responsible, serious, devoted, and sensible, though emotionally distant and difficult to reach. can lack a strong self-esteem and/or confidence from within. in its ideal manifestation (exaltation), these partners can also be goal-oriented, ambitious, and very driven towards achieving success and growth with these natives

uranus in 7h –

this placement is most notorious for its quick acting, spontaneous, and rebellious approach towards love. as a 9h uranus native, you may experience love to be something unconventional and possibly fleeting. they may be combustive in nature, possibly the type to start off quick and end even quicker. maybe they don't last very long, and maybe there's a detached approach or opinion towards things like longterm commitment or marriage. kids may not even be a thought. anyway, relationships will be based on very specific values and boundaries, most of which will be very unique to you, according to what you perceive to be right and wrong for you in your relationships. as a whole, you welcome an unconventional, non-traditional expression of love, perhaps through your sexuality, preferences, or love languages, etc. the main issue with this placement is that those with this placement tend to feel very unique or different to others, especially going by their preferences, which are very niche and hard to match. these natives, consequently, may feel as though it's hard for them to find somebody just like them. once they do find somebody that understands them the way they want to be understood, they are most definitely capable of being deeply loyal to their partners, though only under the circumstance they have their personal space and social freedom.

these natives do not like feeling tied down to something that makes them feel trapped somehow. to be able to explore their mental, physical, and sexual needs is important, and whether or not these natives are "sexually" liberated is completely up to their lifestyle and preferences, and if they are sexually explorative like this, they must have somebody who is just like them. perhaps they like polyamorous relationships or are more androgynous in nature. as a 7h uranus, your love life will be a lot more unique to what people are used to, and you must make sure you find somebody who can stimulate your mind and sexual needs just as much as you are willing to do for your partners.

sometimes a placement like this enjoys being involved in social groups such as advocacy groups. they may enjoy working with others because of their strong beliefs surrounding sexuality and love. on the one hand, where some of these natives may feel uncomfortable in social settings due to feeling awkward or overlooked by others, other natives may feel very driven in establishing themselves in their social groups because of their drive in interacting and engaging with others and because they want to embrace their original and unique personalities.

natives with this placement could attract partners of uranian nature. rebellious, impartial, diplomatic, or very social with others. they could also be very avoidant and superficial in nature. they could be the type to find it hard to settle down. these partners may be very good as friends but totally different as partners. they need spontaneity and stimulation to remain interested

neptune in 7h –

if your neptune is in the 7h, you may experience a lot of disillusionment and loss in your romantic relationships, mostly through the way neptune distances you from the reality of love and into a more idealised version of it. many of these natives have a distorted view on life; perhaps they over-idealise their romantic partners or have a very unrealistic perception of love. they may be very sentimental in nature, perhaps the type to cling onto the past, or just have a very idealised perception of their past. as a 7h neptune you may be similar, perhaps the type to find it hard to let go, or the type to find love a difficult thing to experience because of how much feelings you have, that seem to be used and abused by your partners. there may be an element of loss here, too, perhaps experiencing heartbreak or death in relationships or, alternatively, a "hopeless romantic" instance wherein the version of the love you have in your head never materialises in person.

whatever neptune touches tends to become elusive. relationships and boundaries, values, and principles, then, seem to be a confusing and elusive set of things. for you, you may struggle having defined values or boundaries in your relationships, simply because you lack a concrete inner worth and self-esteem. maybe you rely on relationships for the emotional security and validation they give you. maybe there's a lack of faith that your relationships will work out; there could be a victim/savior dynamic in your relationships, or you may think that your relationships are more fated than they are. without realising it, you construe your relationships into something they are not, and this inadvertently causes you to lose grip on your boundaries or standards, simply because you begin straying away from the realistic and into the imaginary, where your real and most ideal version of love is.

natives with this placement may attract partners of neptunian nature. creative, imaginative, humanitarian, compassionate, somewhat emotionally elusive. maybe overly soft and empathetic, possibly borderline difficult to read and understand. could be very avoidant in nature, too. they could also lack confidence and security in themselves. may also be spiritual in nature. for these natives, they will learn a lot revolving around personal boundaries and maintaining their own individuality in their relationships, as well as keeping their relationships as fun and loving things, rather than as something overly serious, needy, etc

pluto in 7h –

if your pluto is in the 7h, you may experience a myriad of loss and lessons in your romantic relationships. with the 1h being the 7h's polarity point, pluto in the 7h introduces karmic lessons, healing, and trauma through the loss of love, romance, and the self in relationships. in its grossest form, this placement will manifest in the form of natives constantly experiencing themselves in other people; perhaps they continually attract people with similar shadow traits, qualities, or experiences that trigger these natives in some way to further heal themselves. what this means is that, as a 7h pluto, relationships may be felt on a plutonian level for you, meaning your relationships typically take on very obsessive, intense, controlling or possessive, deeply intense and emotional, and transformational qualities. on the one hand, you may approach love with genuine interest, devotion, and passion. this will be in more favourable instances where you do not search for love to replace your insecurities and flaws. if these 7h pluto natives have a poor self-esteem and inner worth, the relationships they get themselves into will not be rewarding at all, and will in fact twist and turn them into forcing them to create a more realistic and defined version of love that reflects the intensity and passion they really want for themselves. otherwise, this false sense of security they chase will always be overthrown by these periods of painful and intense droughts wherein they are forced to re-evaluate their personal worth and real potential in relationships. once they finally create stronger values and boundaries, and instil a stronger confidence, inner security, and worth from within, they will experience the real duality of love they desire; all the commitment, passion, and compassion they really crave for, that will help them feel complete in themselves.

much of pluto's lessons will revolve around how you learn to stand on your own two feet – i.e., how you build and develop your own sense of individualism in your lives. how you come to understand your own identity and how you further evolve your identity. with pluto in the 7h, there may be a series of lessons that ultimately teach you to claim and maintain your own individuality in your relationships – in other words, to not drown and lose yourself in your relationships. relationships will feel more whole and fulfilling this way, and they will be used only as a way of improving the quality of your life, rather than completely replacing your life with something you think you want or need

those with this placement may attract people of plutonian nature. intense, obsessive, controlling, though loyal, passionate, and emotionally sensitive all the same. these partners can be very devoted but very strong characters, often with very strong boundaries and expectations in their relationships.

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