[baraphalloplastyclinic]

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

[ladyfoxfire]

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

[dressedupliketheking]

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

[enki2]

[soybeanhoney]

I feel like men are actually very turned off by the energy of Moon and Nodal women. Idk, but yall are always on tumblr and twitter obsessing over men finding these nakshatras “attractive” and “seductresses” but in my observations most men kinda hate dealing with these polarities in women. They can be kinda 50/50 with Saturn and Venus women, depends on how she plays it out. But it’s usually Mars and Sun energy in women that really makes men “horny” and desirous imo but i fear you all will accuse me of being a bully or hater for saying this?

It’s like that widespread (and often wrong) belief that just because a woman is pretty means men are always fawning over her and always trying to get with her. When, in reality, it’s usually women who other women consider to be more “homely” or “plain” looking that have consistent relationships with men. Yeah, planets like Moon and the Nodes tend to make women very beautiful and have unique features and yes women with Sun and Mars energy tend to be more plain-jane and even frumpy-looking at times but….does that ever translate to mean anything romantically or sexually? Im just asking because i feel like a lot of you think that and i just want to be the one to tell you that thats very silly and delusional thinking. 🧐

And it’s also crazy that you guys call Sun and Mars nakshatra women pick-mes when i always see more yin-influenced women on here and on twitter crying about how they are so beautiful gorgeous sexy seductive queens and yet they cant understand why men wont give them attention despite all the aforementioned.

Accusing another woman of being a “pick-me” just because a man you were interested in “picked” her and her boring plain-jane self instead of you and your allegedly super seductive sexy beautiful hot gorgeous body is really not what that phrase means. Ironically, you are the “pick-me” in the scenario lmao . Bc first of all who gives that much of a fuck about a man to be saying all of that 🤣🤣🤣🤷‍♀️

[mesmerizerrosemarie]

mmm i could agree on this

a lot of the men who have great placements and or indicators for marriage-related things (for instance an exalted venus in revati) always are interested and feel more close to women who have afflictions to their venus (venus in aries/scorpio or a debilitated venus in virgo)

i think nodal and moon nak women have the global scale of attraction (as the "masses" as you can say find them attractive) but the "hot" or "rich" type of men really go for women with those afflictions (unless it's a jyeshtha/rohini dymanic bc they seem to gravitate towards each other a lottttt)

examples:

nick from love island has an exalted venus in revati while olandria (who is a moon woman rohini's everyone's favorite lol) she has a ashwini venus which idk if that's a "negative" placement per say, but venus does okay in aries but it's still has some friction to it (nick also has a jyeshtha placement, i forget where so again that jyeshtha/rohini type of thing)

pierce again has an exalted venus in revati, and his wife, keely has a debilitated venus in hasta (people have been hating on them two because weirdo's complain about her weight gain and how pierce "deserves better" or some bullshit)

so even though it's not necessarily the same thing with your mention regarding men really liking "homely" women (which i don't disagree with, but even sun/mars nak women attract a lot of envious narcissists which i talked about in my sun/saturn women post) but it's interesting to see how even a well placed venus type of man (because venus represents wife for men in vedic) can go after women with an afflicted venus

the biggest thing i hate when it comes to those sun/mars or women with afflicted venuses and stuff is how people act like they don't "deserve" love due to being percieved as someone's "second choice" but anyways thought this was a great discussion!

[artangel2001]

Being labeled as "second choice" is unfortunately a consequence of judging a woman's worth by her appearance, and you'll notice that comments directed at other men's wives are always about rich people, because if you're rich, you can get someone "better" and if you're poor or middle class, an average woman is what's "left over."

I need to use myself as exemple: I'M A SUN NAK WOMAN, and I grow up not being sexually atractive or desireble to any man, at same time I had a lot of male friends for my boyish behavior. Because I wasn't conventionally attractive, men didn't feel intimidated approaching me, or feel awkward maintaining contact because there was "zero chance of falling in love and being friend-zoned." It might sound silly, but when I was a teenager, this messed with my head so much, because I felt like I was being denied the right to be seen as a girl. I still have issues with body dysphoria and gender dysphoria because of those experiences. And I even had the misfortune of following conservatives advice from people who told me "if you're not pretty, then your value lies in your availability aka being chaste" just to put the cherry on top of the shit cake (and to be honest, this body count talk is just a cope, if you're pretty your past doesn't matter, I mean REALLY!!!!). And now, as an adult, and having worked through my personal issues, I've learned to value myself and pursue my own goals instead of chasing after other people. BUT HERE'S THE PLOT TWIST: People who weren't interested in me before are interested in me NOW. After they've managed to establish themselves in their careers, I start hearing things like, "I always liked you being more of a homebody and less of a party girl," "I love your simple and undemanding nature," and their eyes light up when I tell them how little I've dated in my life. And with the rise of the redpill movement these days, they call me "tradwife material" EWWWWW. If I still had the mentality of a teenager, I would subject myself to this ridiculous role just to feel important to someone… Women like me are never the first choice, but we're always the convenient one (sometimes only in the spotlight).

also girls: make your own money and marry someone funny, cause be somebody convenience is not worth it!!

[mesmerizerrosemarie]

yes i, too, can relate to your experiences

i have both luminary (sun and moon) energies in my chart, and i also used to be made fun of for not being chosen (i also have ketu and jupiter on my lagna) so the first half of my life was me dealing with heavy bouts of bullying from boys (girls as well, but the guys always took it up a notch) guys also used me to get to my friends (would always pull the flirting out the bag and then would be like "can you get me with your friend" in 2.5 seconds later).

i started to become noticed during my venus dasha (and even though men would come towards me to try to date me or whatever, they still try to humble me for not being "woman" enough, aka "bimbo" enough for them💀)

sun nak women grow up to be that type of "ugly duckling" (which i dont agree with) turned into a "beauty" type of thing and then the same men who rejected them began to be like "i always knew you were gorgeous" but whole time imo they just want to humble you for being beautiful (because sun nak women religiously deal with men who want to humble them for the smallest thing).

it's sad that sun nak women feel rejected of their womanhood due to never being seen for it.

thank you for sharing your experiences!

[mesmerizerrosemarie]

Hey!! I want to gain some information about something specific (I have to finish my post regarding naks associations with fruits, and I will soon!)

I want to inquire about nakshatras that involve snakes in some way (yoni or deity), so if you are a...

Rohini

Uttara Bhadrapada

Ashlesha

Mrigashira

Sun, Moon, and Lagna (maybe Lagnesh and AK), what is your primary and least preferred love language?

Drop your preferences in the comments or send me an ask!

I know this might be counterintuitive due to the snake association, but I saw a post that mentioned clinginess in snake-associated naks, and there was a bit of a debate.

[ruesdeluxe]

[julesknowsnorules]

The key factor to success

So as we all know in jyotish the most important planet in the chart is Chandra (moon), because we perceive reality from this particular point. To put it simply: if moon is in a good dignity — the native is generally happy and successful. If not — no matter the effort and the amount of work done, the native will still feel like an outsider. They can have a certain amount of success and recognition of course, but it would be really forced and would feel like a burden, not like an actual win

I’m in a music field: I’m getting my major in opera singing atp and I’ve been singing my whole life. I have my moon in capricorn (uttara ashadha, moon doesn’t feel good in saturn-ruled signs because it gets restricted) in D1 and I always always felt like it was a giant struggle for me. Coming to irl examples: here is an opera director that we work with that stages the plays. He is generally recognised in this field and he works really hard, but yet he doesn’t have THE recognition he probably strives for — he has his moon in scorpio (jyeshtha, Chandra’s debilitation).

I practice piano and I wanted to listen how this particular piece is performed by famous pianists — and I came across Dmitry Matsuev. He is really famous pianist in Russia. And I wondered: what’s his natal chart. Believe it or not: he has his moon in cancer (ashlesha). Although ashlesha is not as easy as pushya or punarvasu — he still has his moon in its own sign.

Another irl example of the guy that I study with: he is brilliant at almost anything that he does: how he sings, how he plays piano, his knowledge of music — and he has his moon in cancer (pushya)

So, my loves, in conclusion — it is not that the knowledge or skill or effort that has to be mastered, but balanced state of mind and emotions is the key factor to actually success; material and spiritual

[wifegideonnav]

“bits to use in everyday conversations”

[dragon-in-a-fez]

OHHHHH the phrase "go off half-cocked" refers to a gun that fires before the firing pin is fully in position. that makes sense I thought it was like. a different thing

[depsidase]

[boomer-mythology-destroyer]

[ializa]

The Red String of fate and Anuradha Nakshaktra

“The Red String of Fate is an ancient East Asian legend that suggests an invisible, unbreakable cord is tied by the gods around the ankles or pinkies of those destined to meet. This thread may stretch across continents and decades; it may become impossibly tangled or frayed by life’s circumstances, but it can never be severed.”

The Red String theory intuitively reminds me of Anuradha Nakshatra. The dual rulership of Saturn and Mars, since it resides in the sign of Scorpio-creates a connection defined by time, distance, and transformation. This, combined with Anuradha’s association with Radha, reflects a deep sense of devotion that survives the binding power of fate.

The binding power of Saturn (Karmic contracts) Residing in the sign of Scorpio, this placement replaces the fleeting passion of a Venus/Mars connection with a rigorous karmic contract ruled by time, distance, and inevitable transformation. This isn't just a loose thread, but an intricate web (Anuradha connection with spider) where Saturn acts as the master weaver, creating a geometric destiny that holds the soul in place until its "karmic debt" is paid. When we talk about the "Binding Power of Saturn," the spider web is the perfect metaphor. You aren't just "tied" to someone; you are part of an intricate system of connections that you cannot easily disentangle from. Scorpio is a sign of "traps" and hidden depths. The spider sits at the center of the web, sensitive to the slightest vibration, just as those with Anuradha placements are hyper-sensitive to the "vibrations" of their fated connections across the distance.

Within this web, the spirit of Radha’s devotion shines brightest because it is defined by the very fact that she and Krishna never physically unite, it is a love that survives through the "binding" of separation. Guided by the deity Mitra, this connection proves that the Red Thread doesn't always lead to a destination of possession, but to a state of eternal devotion, where being "bound" by Saturn is the very mechanism that allows the soul to bloom despite the distance.

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Lemme know your thoughts on this

@aliza2002

[zuriswrld]

Darakaraka in 10H

In Vedic astrology, the Darakaraka, the planet with the lowest degree in a birth chart, signifies one’s soulmate (spouse significator). When the DK is placed in the 10H of reputation, status and legacy, it indicates that you marry for power and prestige. Your spouse is typically influential, holds a position of authority and is very wealthy. They are often older or more mature than you, and you can meet them through professional or work-related environments. This DK position points to a power couple dynamic.

*** be mindful that this is just one indicator of the DK being in the 10H and one facet of the 10H.

***DK planet and sign will provide further detail.

**whole chart is important

[senesamba5]

moon and mercury nakshatras are similar. moon manipulates through emotions and mercury manipulates through intellect. both deal with the mind and are absorbing energies. neither the moon nor mercury has a fixed identity the way the sun or mars does so they easily pick up energy from other people and their environment. that’s why a lot of moon and mercury nakshatras come off observant or like chameleons. they both know how to read people but process things differently. the moon does it through feelings, attachment, fantasy, comfort, etc and mercury does it through words, humor, psychology and observation.

this relationship is explained in vedic mythology. mercury (budha) is the child of the moon (chandra) after chandra had an affair with tara who was jupiter’s wife but mercury was abandoned by its father chandra. symbolically, mercury and moon don’t fully get along. intellect gets bothered by emotions because emotions cloud logic and decision making while emotions love intellect because intellect knows how to express and fulfill emotions through communication and strategy.

[anarchistmemedistro]

[theconcealedweapon]

[do-not-u-dare]

”Explain yourself” followed by “stop making excuses” has always baffled me because the fuck you think explaining myself is????

[ruesdeluxe]