first class bitch

[miszbehave-deactivated20191228]

rub her clit and tell her to hold fucking still

[cumpliantly]

kinky girl probs: getting sternly talked to about something serious and getting slightly turned on

[thetriskeliondiaries]

I’m gonna say this one. time.

If you have a scene with your submissive and then you leave them uncared for, alone, shrug them off, shut them down-you have crossed a line from BDSM or D/s to abuse.

I’ll add this for those who will go all “butbutbutbut that’s how our dynamic works…”: I don’t give a flying fox tail fuck. If you are not back at their side in .2 milliseconds hydrating them and comforting them and holding them and navigating them to a different position so their muscles don’t cramp after that level of intensity?

Fuck you.

Now I’ll explain.

Aftercare is crucial. Submissives experience “subdrop” more when they aren’t cared for properly afterward. If you think Dominance is fuck em and leave em? You are an abuser hiding behind a title and you’re the reason this lifestyle gets the rap it does.

•Water. •Warmth. •Closeness (or even a little distance if they can’t handle physical contact post-scene, but STAY CLOSE even if you’re not touching them). •Food, specifically high in potassium or protein. {pro tip: mini-mini Snickers bars are bomb ass for this-chocolate for sugar, nuts for protein, small for tiny mouthfuls that don’t take as much effort to consume}.

D/s is more than the sex and the roughness and the boot licking cock worshipping orgasmic bliss. It’s the end.

I might even go so far as to say: aftercare is the most crucial part of this entire lifestyle.

Take care of Your submissive. And they will take care of You. Promise.

[cloudbbyx]

It’s cute just how disgusting I can be when I’m denied an orgasm 😇✨

[cherishedproperty]

The Double-Edged Sword of Brattiness

“But I’m warning you, I’m kind of a brat.” “No you’re not. You’re just a girl who hasn’t had firm boundaries and desperately needs them.”

This was a few years ago, in my baby sub days. I had been kind of bratty in past relationships, but this Dom was not one to tolerate it. I worried he wouldn’t like me. But it turns out that he was right about me. I had always been bratty because I had a deep need for structure that had never been met. I was bratty because I was clawing for boundaries that weren’t there. I teased because it felt like the only way to be thrown down and ravaged. I intentionally broke rules because it felt like the only way I’d feel that tight control closing in on me. I wasn’t a brat; I was a submissive who craved deep and unrelenting dominance. Ownership. I just didn’t know how to get it.

Now that I understand what I need, I can mostly quell those bratty impulses. When I need to feel my Dominant’s control, I say so in a meta talk. I ask how I can serve. I ask permission for things (and sometimes hope for a “no”). I give my Dominant opportunities to lead. I find ways to feel those firm boundaries within my role, rather than stepping out of it. 

But part of me thinks there is still value in brattiness—not in outright disobedience, but maybe in close calls. You approach the electrified fence. You hear the hum. You use something to test it. Maybe you get a quick zap, just to know it’s there and working. But you don’t barrel through the fence. Gently testing the boundaries can be a comforting reminder that they are there and strong. You are submitting to something, not just making it up in your head. A little brattiness can also signal confidence in the dynamic. It’s only when you know the leash is there that you can tug on it a little. 

That’s the key—a little. There’s a rush of connection from being put in your place, but it wears off. And then you’re left in a worse place than when you started. It can be tempting to push at the boundaries, especially when you desperately need to feel them. But brattiness is not giving your Dominant opportunities to lead. You cannot disobey your way to firm boundaries and deep ownership. Playfulness is one thing, but intentional disobedience is toxic to the dynamic. Instead, you lean in. You ask permission. You have open, honest conversations about what you need and what is missing. Brattiness may make a spark, but it’s rarely enough to build a fire.

It has taken me some time to figure it out. But no, I’m not a brat. I like to say that I’m a good girl…96.2% of the time.

[instructor144]

The precision of that 96.2% made me chuckle. The money shot: “You cannot disobey your way to firm boundaries and deep ownership. Playfulness is one thing, but intentional disobedience is toxic to the dynamic.”

[pornbutch-deactivated20190201]

think you can have an attitude and still get to cum? that’s cute. you’ll be getting fucked until you’re a senseless mess, until i spank your ass bright red, until you’re so wet your panties and your sheets are ruined, until you can’t say anything else but “please”- because god knows even after all that it still won’t be enough for a little slut like you.

[dumbbigtittedslut-deactivated20]

I choose degrading sex

because getting fucked up the ass while I bark like a dog is approximately one million times better than missionary in the dark.

[17894532]

because feeling her struggle to keep from pissing the carpet while im inside her ass is one million and one times better than kisses down her back.

[17894532]

because forcing her face into the stain asking her “didn’t I train you better, bitch?” gets her one hundred times wetter than “oh baby, you’re so tight.”  

[17894532]

because the look on her face and whimper she makes before barking after you mutter “maybe i should send you back to the pound” is one billion times more satisfying than some “six month anniversary” blowjob. 

[naomitweet-blog]

Because when he tells me to take his cock is Ten thousand times better than hearing “do you want me to stop?”

[dontgetwisewithme]

Because forcing her to cum repeatedly against her will until she’s begging and crying is a few hundred thousand times better than asking “did you finish too?”

[pacifiers-and-paraphilia]

Because being told that I’m a vile little slut is more thrilling than half hearted sweet nothings.

[boysschool]

Because transforming the grossest, most embarrassing things imaginable into eroticism as a couple is about a trillion times more bonding than vanilla sex. Vulnerability is true intimacy.

[jennzipuppy]

Because my orgasms are much stronger when he’s holding me down with the entire weight of his body as he nearly rips my clothes off and manhandles me than the run-of-the-mill vanilla sex

[lunashantelle]

Because calling me a good little slut while he slaps and spits in my face and fucks my mouth is so much better than having him fuck me for 2 minutes, then fingering me for 12. 

[thecunthunter-deactivated201710]

Because unleashing all my aggression on her and leaving her a bleeding, bruised, and sobbing mess at my feet, not letting her up until she’s managed to say “Thank you “ is a million miles better than saying “oh I’m sorry I didn’t mean to hurt you”

[meoww-maid]

Because knowing he’s going to turn me into a drooling whimpering mess makes spending the time to get dolled up a bushel and a peck more exciting than hoping my lipstick will stay intact the entire night.

[buttercupbaba]

Because him caning, paddling Or spanking me until I’m crying to unleash all the pent up stress, anger and sadness is better than me crying alone in my room.

[cass-ie-opeia]

Because giving up control to someone who cares about my safety and happiness is better than giving up control to drugs.

[anothersadist]

this post is why i love tumblr

[foryourdispleasure-deactivated2]

Because watching her makeup run from shoving your cock down her throat is infinitely better than hearing “I think oral sex is gross”

[forced-to]

Bc when he makes me let the neighbor watch me being fucked and peed on is better than not fucking anything

[cotton-sheets]

Because hearing I’m a worthless slut, worthy of being called a fleshlight, is a thousand times more exciting than hearing half assed lines about how I’m one of the most amazing girls you’ve ever met.

[bagsofmags-deactivated20180613]

YES!

[pacifiers-and-paraphilia]

I had no idea that this was still going around

[bishop-head]

This whole post. Is just fantastic.

[kinky-lil-lester]

credit @wookie_tea

[blacknovember-deactivated201511]

Reblog if you don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend.

[chicbel]

(this is for the future too lmao)

[sjcollegeboi]

NSFW asks

    Go ahead: ask me anything… :P

1:When did you lose your virginity?

2: Rough sex or soft sex?

3: Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes?

4: Weirdest place you’ve had sex?

5: Favourite sex position?

6: Do you like to be dominant or submissive?

7: Have you ever had any one night stands?

8: Sex on the bed, couch or the floor?

9: Have you ever had sex in a public place?

10: Have you ever been caught masturbating?

11: What does your favourite sexy underwear look like?

12: How often do you have sex?

13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with?

14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?

15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex?

16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex?

17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow/passionate sex?

18: Are you into dressing up for sex?

19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower?

20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be?

21: Have you ever had a threesome? If not, would you?

22: Do you/would you use sex toys?

23: Have you ever sent someone a dirty text/picture?

24: Would you have sex with your best friend?

25: Is there anything you do after sex? (for example, smoke, eat, drink)

26: Something that will never fail to get you horny?

27: Early morning sex or late night sex?

28: Favourite body part on the opposite sex?

29: Favourite body part on the same sex?

30: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find:

31: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you:

32: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?]

33: Is it ever okay to not use a condom:

34: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience:

35: Worst possible time to get horny:

36: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans?

37: How much fapping is too much fapping:

38: Best sexual complement you ever got:

39: Favorite foreplay activities:

40: What do you wear to bed?

41: When was the first time you masturbated:

42: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself?

43: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside?

44: Have/would you ever have sex in public?

45: Have/would you ever had a threesome?

46: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate?

47: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not?

48: Do you like oral sex? (why/why not)

49: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in?

50: How would you feel about taking someones virginity?

51: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter?

52: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute?

53: Do you watch porn?

54: Have you ever been called a freak? Why?

55: Do you feel comfortable going “commando”?

56: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn’t shaved their pubic hair?

57: If you could give yourself head, would you?

58: Booty or Boobs?

59: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?)

60: If you were the other sex for a day, what are five things you would do?

61: have you ever watched someone masturbate?

62: has anyone ever watched you masturbate?

63. Have you ever had an erection and someone noticed?

64. What is your method of masturbation? (ie. toys, clitorial, prostate)

65. What is your bra/penis size?

66. What is the strangest thing you have ever put up your vagina/anus?

67. When was the last time you masturbated?

68. When was the last time you had sex?

69. When was the last time you watched porn?

70. Have you ever bought a sex toy? If so, which one did you buy last? First sex toy? If not, which one do you plan on buying when you do?

71. Guys:Circumsized?

72. Which not-genital part of your body do you like being touched?

73. Which genital part of your body do you like being touched?

74. Girls:Are you able to achieve orgasm just through breast stimulation?

75. Have you anonymously sent a sexual ask to someone on tumblr?

76. When was the last time you have had a wet dream?

77. Which wet dream was your favorite?

78. Is there a friend you would willingly have sex with?

79. Is there a celebrity/character you would willingly have sex with?

80. Favorite sexual position?

81. Do you like being called a slut or whore in bed?

82. Are you into any BDSM?

83. Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone but knew you couldnt for any reason? Why?

84. Do you like dirty talk?

85. Are you loud or quiet during sex? Masturbation?

86. Have you ever been inturrepted during sex or masturbation? Who/what?

87. What kind of porn do you like to watch?

88. Have you ever confessed to someone that you got an erection over them? What about masturbated to them?

89. Have you ever masturbated because your sexual partner wasn’t there when you needed them?

90. Have you ever had a one night stand? Do you still keep in contact with them?

91. Have you ever had a friends with benefits? Are they still beneficial?

[sjcollegeboi]

Any of my followers wanna know anything?  I’ve answered three or four, so far…

[jeremycorbynnews]

[kinky-lil-lester]

someone horny and wants to tell me what to do please message me

[gerarthur-deactivated20150117]

“why are you wearing a shirt of a band that doesn’t exist anymore?”

[ommanyte]

all I wanna do,

is see you turn into, 

a

[pr1nceshawn]

[xtragh0stywizard-deactivated201]

me:stands up

my blood vessels: what the

FUCK

did you just do

[tortagnamgnam]

This is the lucky clover cat. reblog this in 30 seconds & he will bring u good luck and fortune.

[unclebabie]

THIS ONE!!! THIS IS THE ONE THAT WORKS!!!!!

I reblogged him the day i started treatment and 1. GOT TO MY APPOINTMENT ON TIME 2. FOUND A FREE PARKING TICKET SOMEONE LEFT IN THE METER FOR ME AND 3. GOT FREE STARBUCKS AFTER MY APPOINTMENT!!!!!